To be fair he's always been
a bit entitled and demanded contact times are on his schedule it wasn't until it impacted dd I put my foot down. But now my Sunday's seem taken up with being available
to drive an hour round trip
to collect dd. He won't drop as he likes to have a drink on the Sunday afternoon and he feels strongly that it's both of our jobs to do. But after 14 years doing this I'm tired, don't have the money and he see's her 4 hours a week which she doesn't even want to do that. I have done this as u felt it best for my dd to collect her but lately I just think he can do it. Aibu if I give him
a date where he will need to do lifts?
I just want a bit more freedom in my life instead of being restricted by him. He pays maintenance at a lower rate but aside from that I get zero help and a whole lot of judgement!
Im thinking of saying he needs to do lifts. He doesn't like it when DD doesn't want to go to his, and I call and cancel I'm debating saying thy I will
ask dd to message him, I can let him
know if there are any wider issues but if not it's between him and dd. I'd rather just support dd with it than have to be a go between being blamed and made out to be a liar!