Just read an article in the daily mail on this theme
One quoted woman says she'd rather live on a commune of women than with a man because there would be more sharing of "the domestic load"
Personally I would rather die than live with Neat Women in some dedicated to cleaning hellscape
If you want things to be tidy, tidy
Otherwise dont and shaddup about it
(I know this is possible because neither my husband nor I gaf about tidying and we have fun instead)