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BeKookySheep · 05/05/2025 10:59

I don’t normally post about politics, but this has been playing on my mind for a while. I wasn’t super political before the referendum — just a mum trying to do her best for her family. But now, years later, I really feel like Brexit hasn’t delivered what we were promised. And I think we should seriously start talking about reversing it.

My eldest is 16, really bright, and had dreams of studying languages and maybe doing a year abroad. We looked into Erasmus a while ago, but that’s gone now. And the cost and hassle of studying or working in Europe is so much higher now. She asked me, “Why is it so much harder for us than it was for you, Mum?” And honestly, I didn’t know what to say. It hit me hard.

Everything’s more expensive — our food shop has gone up loads, and don’t even get me started on getting certain things for school packed lunches! Little things, but they add up. My brother runs a small business and he's drowning in paperwork just to send stuff to Ireland. And a friend of mine left the NHS because she felt so overstretched — they can’t recruit enough staff anymore, especially from Europe.

Brexit hasn’t made anything better. It’s just made life harder in so many small but important ways. And if something clearly isn’t working — and is limiting our children’s futures — why shouldn’t we talk about changing it?

We tell our kids it’s okay to admit when something’s not right and make it better. Maybe it’s time we took our own advice.

Would love to hear if others are feeling the same. Has Brexit made life harder for your family too?

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StandFirm · 05/08/2025 10:40

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/08/2025 01:32

Reform are anti-everything.🙄

We live in a post Brexit world now. Railing against the huge market right on our doorstep would be a stupid move by any political party and a disaster for the UK.

They emphatically do not care about the UK, only about how much they can personally make through their connections with oligarchs.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/08/2025 01:32

OonaStubbs · 04/08/2025 19:51

Yes but Reform will just replace the Tory party as the opposition to Labour. And they are more anti-EU than the Tories.

Reform are anti-everything.🙄

We live in a post Brexit world now. Railing against the huge market right on our doorstep would be a stupid move by any political party and a disaster for the UK.

OonaStubbs · 04/08/2025 19:51

Yes but Reform will just replace the Tory party as the opposition to Labour. And they are more anti-EU than the Tories.

lotsofpatience · 04/08/2025 05:12

Many of us warned about the dire consequences of brexit and we were regularly mocked and called fear mongerers.
Well lo and behold it's been a shit show and the worse is yet to come. He have done over our younger generation and we deserve every bit of resentment they have towards us.
The only positive outcome of all this shambolic mess is that the Tories will NEVER be in the government again. The writing is on the wall for those fools.

TooBigForMyBoots · 04/08/2025 03:08

OonaStubbs · 04/08/2025 02:10

Brexit will never be reversed.

Brexit can't be reversed.

I've no doubt that we will rejoin the EU, but it will not be on the terms we had before Brexit.

OonaStubbs · 04/08/2025 02:10

Brexit will never be reversed.

celticnations · 04/08/2025 00:42

The Times (3 or 4th?) August poll 52% of the UK want BREXIT reversed.

PointsSouth · 14/05/2025 19:01

StillProcrastinating · 05/05/2025 11:02

People are voting Reform, so looks like lots think Nigel Farage knows what he’s doing. Presumably they’re quite happy with the outcome of brexit and think it’s been good for the country because otherwise why vote for him ….

Possibly because they are not happy with the outcome of Brexit, and think that only Nige the Fatuous Opportunist can deliver all the questionable benefits that they expected.

Grammarnut · 14/05/2025 08:17

RoadtoVima · 14/05/2025 05:23

Stop tagging me, weirdo.

You keep tagging me! I don't know why you think I am a weirdo? Don't reply.

AlertCat · 14/05/2025 06:51

ARealitycheck · 13/05/2025 15:18

Go re-read the post. :)

I did. I’d really appreciate you highlighting the bits you say are benefits.

RoadtoVima · 14/05/2025 05:23

Grammarnut · 13/05/2025 18:23

@RoadtoVima You might like to read some of the history of the making of the EU, and what was intended by its founders. You might also like to look at how it is actually run i.e. a parliament that cannot legislate, commissioners who are unelected and must swear allegiance to the EU over their countries etc. You are funny, btw.

Stop tagging me, weirdo.

SugarPlumpFairyCakes · 14/05/2025 04:48

It's utterly ludicrous.

There are no benefits.

Just the fervent imaginations of Brexit voters, all thinking different visions.

Pitiful really considering the damage they've helped to heap on the country.

TooBigForMyBoots · 13/05/2025 23:11

ARealitycheck · 13/05/2025 13:23

As previously stated in my post, I gave the answer to a poster regarding what I consider likely for approximately ten years from now. It outlines the benefits I believe will come to the UK as a result of it.

As has been shown just recently, increases to national wage also cause cost of living increases. They would not have helped with Nationals coming from eg Romania, Where the £250 a week they were earning equated to £1k in their home Country. If anything it would have made the UK even more attractive.

Don't believe many of the European Countries are becoming more insular looking? Then have a look at recent election results. A far more centric right leaning population with nationalistic beliefs is being shown time and again.

So no Brexit benefits then. Just some stuff you imagine might happen 10 years from now.

19 years after the referendum.

SMH🤦‍♀️

Grammarnut · 13/05/2025 18:23

Grammarnut · 12/05/2025 21:19

@RoadtoVima obviously has no idea of EU politics. And now Sir Keir is busy giving back our fishing grounds - the EU really, really want the fish, which are the reason Norway would not become a full member of the EU.

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@RoadtoVima You might like to read some of the history of the making of the EU, and what was intended by its founders. You might also like to look at how it is actually run i.e. a parliament that cannot legislate, commissioners who are unelected and must swear allegiance to the EU over their countries etc. You are funny, btw.

ARealitycheck · 13/05/2025 15:18

Go re-read the post. :)

AlertCat · 13/05/2025 14:35

@ARealitycheck As previously stated in my post, I gave the answer to a poster regarding what I consider likely for approximately ten years from now. It outlines the benefits I believe will come to the UK as a result of it.

You talked about what you think might happen inside the EU, referring to a “backlash” but not describing benefits to the UK.

Mannatan · 13/05/2025 14:30

Do you think there will be another vote in the future to join the E.U?

ARealitycheck · 13/05/2025 13:23

AlertCat · 11/05/2025 18:23

The EU free movement and single currency gave an unfair advantage to Countries with far lower costs of living, as well as lower standard of living.
UK wasn’t part of the single currency, and could have set minimum wage higher if necessary to offset the lower costs of labour from countries in eastern Europe. Chose not to. Also chose not to limit immigration from outside the EU, which we could easily have done.

I believe going forward there will be a backlash like there has been here, in the more affluent Countries like Spain, Italy, France, Germany and the EU will either have to change it's control over member states or lose members. While all this is going on, I believe the UK with it's own currency will prosper.

I think you underestimate the value that other countries see in the EU. Their ‘exity’ types are smaller minorities than in UK. I can’t see a Frexit or a Spexit (can’t think of a German equivalent but also think it unlikely to happen). Even Meloni isn’t pushing an Italian exit.

With 100% debt I don’t know how strong our currency is right now.

I can’t find your Brexit benefits in your answer, though. Could you highlight or repost them please.

As previously stated in my post, I gave the answer to a poster regarding what I consider likely for approximately ten years from now. It outlines the benefits I believe will come to the UK as a result of it.

As has been shown just recently, increases to national wage also cause cost of living increases. They would not have helped with Nationals coming from eg Romania, Where the £250 a week they were earning equated to £1k in their home Country. If anything it would have made the UK even more attractive.

Don't believe many of the European Countries are becoming more insular looking? Then have a look at recent election results. A far more centric right leaning population with nationalistic beliefs is being shown time and again.

Grammarnut · 12/05/2025 21:19

@RoadtoVima obviously has no idea of EU politics. And now Sir Keir is busy giving back our fishing grounds - the EU really, really want the fish, which are the reason Norway would not become a full member of the EU.

Goldenbear · 12/05/2025 09:26

AlertCat · 11/05/2025 18:23

The EU free movement and single currency gave an unfair advantage to Countries with far lower costs of living, as well as lower standard of living.
UK wasn’t part of the single currency, and could have set minimum wage higher if necessary to offset the lower costs of labour from countries in eastern Europe. Chose not to. Also chose not to limit immigration from outside the EU, which we could easily have done.

I believe going forward there will be a backlash like there has been here, in the more affluent Countries like Spain, Italy, France, Germany and the EU will either have to change it's control over member states or lose members. While all this is going on, I believe the UK with it's own currency will prosper.

I think you underestimate the value that other countries see in the EU. Their ‘exity’ types are smaller minorities than in UK. I can’t see a Frexit or a Spexit (can’t think of a German equivalent but also think it unlikely to happen). Even Meloni isn’t pushing an Italian exit.

With 100% debt I don’t know how strong our currency is right now.

I can’t find your Brexit benefits in your answer, though. Could you highlight or repost them please.

"Could you highlight or repost them please." - probably not, well not anything based on reality!

StandFirm · 12/05/2025 09:11

GoodCharl · 11/05/2025 08:15

I think people are quick to blame Brexit but imo the same shit would have happened regardless. We would still be in this position. Idk why people bang on about us being part of the EU being so great? The recent trade/tariff deal with the US is a positive

It only offsets 0.1% of the damage caused by Brexit itself.
Yay. Bring out the bubbles.

EasternStandard · 11/05/2025 18:45

Perplexed20 · 11/05/2025 18:43

Yep. Labour did the planning. The conservatives disbanded it completely when Johnson came in.

And having worked with people who've got PTSD from seeing patients die, seeing colleagues die....people are saying it wasn't great now from some remove. A lot more people would have died and it gave space to develop a vaccine. But this is derailing the thread. Brexit was a complete distraction and is still.

I’m sure some are immune to the harms of lockdowns.

Back to topic Brexit is a reality. Mn threads won’t change that.

We are unlikely to accept the Euro so unless that changes rejoining is likely out.

Walkaround · 11/05/2025 18:45

ARealitycheck · 11/05/2025 17:43

I'm quite happy to give my opinion on what could happen, simply based on my interpretation of the world economy both now and at the time of the brexit vote.

The EU free movement and single currency gave an unfair advantage to Countries with far lower costs of living, as well as lower standard of living. Employers in the UK and other more developed Countries took advantage of that at a cost to their own Country economy. Long term that is not sustainable.

I believe going forward there will be a backlash like there has been here, in the more affluent Countries like Spain, Italy, France, Germany and the EU will either have to change it's control over member states or lose members. While all this is going on, I believe the UK with it's own currency will prosper.

It will only take another member like Greece to require a massive bailout and the net contributors will have to take stock at how their own lives are being affected.

As can be seen from the US, it’s global capitalism you are describing, not the EU. The US is not part of the EU, but living standards are squeezed there, too, because global capitalism ensures businesses go to where the labour is cheapest, or bring the cheapest labour in. The EU ensured that more of the benefit of European trade remained within the EU as a whole, whilst working to maintain (or in poorer EU countries, improve) good employment rights and benefits, so that countries within the EU were more inclined to work with each other than compete against each other. It was a protectionist set up that also increased the bargaining power of the EU bloc as a whole with the outside world, which is why people like Trump and Putin hate the EU. The disadvantage was that it obliged EU countries to be less self-centred amongst themselves.

You need to be careful what you wish for, because with no EU, Europe is lots of countries with less individually to offer the outside world than the EU has as a whole, and once countries move their focus to more individualistic notions of protectionism and putting themselves first, you end up with what we have now - growing global instability and smaller countries being thrown about in the massive waves caused by the actions of bigger, more powerful countries. It’s countries like the US which have the clout to inflict tariffs on everyone else. The UK is not in a position to start any such trade war. Smaller countries and trading blocks just have to work out which arses are safest to lick (the answer being none of them when the world has gone into “me first” mode).

Perplexed20 · 11/05/2025 18:44

EasternStandard - as a matter of interest as you an expert or having any particular experience in these areas?

Perplexed20 · 11/05/2025 18:43

Yep. Labour did the planning. The conservatives disbanded it completely when Johnson came in.

And having worked with people who've got PTSD from seeing patients die, seeing colleagues die....people are saying it wasn't great now from some remove. A lot more people would have died and it gave space to develop a vaccine. But this is derailing the thread. Brexit was a complete distraction and is still.

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