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To think that some people don’t use the ring doorbell as they think it stops them being on camera

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Sleephelpneeded · 05/05/2025 08:42

Some people that come to our house do not press our ring doorbell and simply knock the door instead (no knocker so just tapping on the door). The ring doorbell is hard to miss.

I think they do it as they think they won’t be on camera if they don’t press the bell (it records from 1m away so we know they’re there before they even knock!)

Next time I'm planning to wait and let them knock again so i can point out the bell and say we don’t really hear it when people just knock.

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IKnowAristotle · 05/05/2025 12:17

I hate ring doorbells.

Personally, I think it's utterly weird to want to know who is walking past and knocking on your door when you're not in the house. Curtain twitching to the nth degree. Also, ime frequently used to screen grab and post pictures on local Facebook groups of BME people "acting suspiciously".

Also weird to expect all people who may knock at your door to understand the functionality of a piece of tech you decided to attach to your house. No, I don't understand how it works and I'm not inclined to learn.

Also, I don't want to talk to people through a ring doorbell. If you're not available to answer the door please don't engage me in an awkward conversation about how you're at work or on the toilet (this has happened to me once!) - just don't answer.

I feel better now. And remember, it ain't about you if it ain't about you.

Ddakji · 05/05/2025 11:45

WhichOneIsPosher · 05/05/2025 09:18

I was friends with a woman who had a ring doorbell. She lived in a mid terrace and told me about the time the neighbours either side of her were leaning over the dividing wall in front of the houses chatting and they started bitching about her. Friend was away on holiday and they obviously didn't know the ring was recording 🙈

The person who eavesdrops on her neighbours is coming out the worst here. Very nasty not to ensure when you get one of those doorbells that your neighbours know you are spying and eavesdropping on them.

Busyquaver1 · 05/05/2025 11:40

Yes I have one but often forget to change the battery on the chimer inside only when some1 says I used the bell do I realise the battery needs changing as it never went of.

Mokel · 05/05/2025 11:17

I live in a road where most of the properties are in a square, with a green area and play equipment in the middle.

I can hear the Ring doorbells from the properties opposite to my home.

MemorableTrenchcoat · 05/05/2025 11:02

Wolfpa · 05/05/2025 10:19

I can’t turn the sound down I don’t own it, yet I hear it several times a day on my estate.

Fair enough. The external chime sound is useful for visitors to the know the bell is working, but it can also be turned down or off.

mondaytosunday · 05/05/2025 10:46

I don’t have a ring doorbell but I do have a regular one, which is quite obvious. I also have a door knocker and I’d say the majority of people use that which surprises me. Sometimes it’s hard to tell, if I’m at the back of the house, whether it’s my door or my neighbours they are knocking on (terraced).

faerietales · 05/05/2025 10:45

I mostly don't even notice them, just knock out of habit.

Mokel · 05/05/2025 10:43

daffodilandtulip · 05/05/2025 09:32

And then you get the delivery drivers who use the bell, the door knocker, hammer on the glass and flick the letterbox. I walk slower to them.

I live in a first floor flat which has a communal door with one neighbour. I have to walk across the flat, down the stairs, open my front door, then open the communal door.

Like we are all sitting by the front door all the time.

Mokel · 05/05/2025 10:41

You hear of police requesting video doorbell footage of before a crime scene. Such as a missing person. As terraced houses, people walking past trigger the cameras.

Wolfpa · 05/05/2025 10:19

MemorableTrenchcoat · 05/05/2025 09:59

Eh? You can down the sound down, or mute it altogether. You don’t even need to use a chime unit at all. They’re far more controllable than a traditional doorbell.

I can’t turn the sound down I don’t own it, yet I hear it several times a day on my estate.

Gettoachiro · 05/05/2025 10:00

daffodilandtulip · 05/05/2025 09:32

And then you get the delivery drivers who use the bell, the door knocker, hammer on the glass and flick the letterbox. I walk slower to them.

They REALLY piss me off. I open the door and let them know too.

MistressIggi · 05/05/2025 09:59

daffodilandtulip · 05/05/2025 09:32

And then you get the delivery drivers who use the bell, the door knocker, hammer on the glass and flick the letterbox. I walk slower to them.

I like your style

MemorableTrenchcoat · 05/05/2025 09:59

Wolfpa · 05/05/2025 08:59

I don’t use Ring doorbells as they are all so loud. If room 101 was still a thing a would be putting that chime straight in there.

Eh? You can down the sound down, or mute it altogether. You don’t even need to use a chime unit at all. They’re far more controllable than a traditional doorbell.

daffodilandtulip · 05/05/2025 09:32

And then you get the delivery drivers who use the bell, the door knocker, hammer on the glass and flick the letterbox. I walk slower to them.

Miyagi99 · 05/05/2025 09:25

A lot of them don’t work so I ring then knock.

MistressIggi · 05/05/2025 09:25

I don't mind if people knock instead of using the doorbell. I just wish they would knock with knuckles instead of the fist pounding some delivery drivers do. I feel like I'm being raided by the police.

SalfordQuays · 05/05/2025 09:24

I always knock. Often doorbells don’t work, so I prefer to just knock. I don’t even think about it.

Tallyrand · 05/05/2025 09:23

I have a doorbell and a letterbox.

People decide they'd rather knock on our nice glass vision panel.

It drives me mad.

WhichOneIsPosher · 05/05/2025 09:18

I was friends with a woman who had a ring doorbell. She lived in a mid terrace and told me about the time the neighbours either side of her were leaning over the dividing wall in front of the houses chatting and they started bitching about her. Friend was away on holiday and they obviously didn't know the ring was recording 🙈

Alwayswonderedwhy · 05/05/2025 09:10

More out of habit for me. We don't have a bell and often they don't work so I tend to knock.

VimesandhisCardboardBoots · 05/05/2025 09:09

Sleephelpneeded · 05/05/2025 08:48

Exactly this! I don’t think they realize its got a motion sensor and records even when they don’t press it!

I know they've got a motion sensor. I know they're recording as soon as you get near them.

And yet I still knock. Because some people are ringers and some are knockers. And I'll always be a knocker.

LightDrizzle · 05/05/2025 09:07

Lots of people had doorbells that hadn’t worked for years in the past and sometime they don’t ring inside near the door so if you’ve pressed it and hear nothing you don’t know whether it’s worked or not so I would press AND knock unless I clearly heard the bell sound.

It’s been ages since I’ve called at someone’s house!

Phunkychicken · 05/05/2025 09:07

There was a Modern Life is Genius about Ring doorbells the other day and apparently they don't have a motion sensor. Instead they have a tiny heat sensor. And the inventor hates the 'tinny' ring but they lost speaker quality when they shrank the unit to make it doorbell sized. The original one had a much better ring but was bigger.

Totally not the point of the thread!

We have a normal doorbell and people ring and knock at the same time. You can't hear the ring much from outside but we can hear it inside

Notsosure1 · 05/05/2025 08:59

Sleephelpneeded · 05/05/2025 08:48

Exactly this! I don’t think they realize its got a motion sensor and records even when they don’t press it!

If you don’t have one why would you know how it works? We don’t have one but I know others that do. We’ve never sat down and had a discussion about their doorbells ever. I know they take in a fair bit of the street and aren’t just limited to ppl knocking on your door, some record sound, maybe they all do, I have no idea. It’s a massive invasion of privacy if you’re walking past them and they pick you up on them even if you aren’t even visiting a house IMO. We’re the most monitored country in Europe I think with CCTV, for good and bad. It’s nothing to find weird if ppl don’t know exactly how they operate when they don’t have one though.

Wolfpa · 05/05/2025 08:59

I don’t use Ring doorbells as they are all so loud. If room 101 was still a thing a would be putting that chime straight in there.