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Groomed A National Scandal

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snughugs · 04/05/2025 22:11

On Channel 4. I’ve been watching this. How come this isn’t getting the same coverage as Adolescence which is a fictional story or as some claim based on a young black boy from Croydon?

We need a National Inquiry, these are our children and it’s still happening.

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 05/05/2025 01:02

snughugs · 05/05/2025 00:59

I’m not a Tommy Robinson fan. Keeping discussion going is good. I have no idea about adolescent it’s just what I heard on Dan Wooten show. So possibly nonsense.

I'm not sure who Dan Wooten is, does he write for the Sun?

snughugs · 05/05/2025 00:59

swimsong · 05/05/2025 00:52

Your agenda was already pretty obvious with the whole 'Adolescence was really based on a black boy' schtick. What are you trying to achieve here?

I’m not a Tommy Robinson fan. Keeping discussion going is good. I have no idea about adolescent it’s just what I heard on Dan Wooten show. So possibly nonsense.

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swimsong · 05/05/2025 00:52

snughugs · 05/05/2025 00:06

Even if it were white men? It’s just as vile either way but perhaps we think British people should know better and excuse Asians more due to the “cultural differences”?

Your agenda was already pretty obvious with the whole 'Adolescence was really based on a black boy' schtick. What are you trying to achieve here?

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 00:45

Publicity for his own racist political views and aspirations. It was right that he was convicted and imprisoned

MiloMinderbinder925 · 05/05/2025 00:42

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 00:40

I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad Tommy Robinson has kept public attention on this. The authorities did want it swept under the carpet, and would’ve welcomed that opportunity.

luckily, we are still talking about it and uncovering more lived experiences to be shared

Why do you think he tried to disrupt a court case?

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 00:40

I never thought I’d say this, but I’m glad Tommy Robinson has kept public attention on this. The authorities did want it swept under the carpet, and would’ve welcomed that opportunity.

luckily, we are still talking about it and uncovering more lived experiences to be shared

JustSawJohnny · 05/05/2025 00:36

FFS, there HAS BEEN a National enquiry! Stop believing the right wing misinformation you read on SM.

Also, if the writer of Adolescence tells you it's not based on a true story, IT'S NOT! Of course, the race-baiting twonks will try to spin it but for Christ's sake 🙄

As for the documentary, people generally prefer drama to real life stories.

There WAS a drama about grooming gangs, a good few years back. It was very good and got a lot of attention at the time.

Recently a grooming gang in Bolton have been sentenced. All white men though (as most grooming gangs in the UK are) so you won't be hearing about it because, well, you know why!

Good old Tommy Robinson and pals only give a shit when the perps are brown, right?

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 00:11

snughugs · 05/05/2025 00:06

Even if it were white men? It’s just as vile either way but perhaps we think British people should know better and excuse Asians more due to the “cultural differences”?

No one cared. It was nothing to do with making excuses for the men, people didn’t even bother trying to find out what was going on.

Bambamhoohoo · 05/05/2025 00:09

I was fairly close to one of the cities/ situations. To some extent the authorities (and the girls, at the time) thought these were romantic relationships.

In those days, that was enough. No one stopped and thought that a young girl shouldn’t be in a romantic relationship with an adult man. No one thought an adult man shouldn’t have taken her away from her care home in his taxi. They all thought it was the girls fault, out of control, wayward girls who were loving it.

it appears that even when clear reports of rape and abduction started being made this culture was so prevalent they couldn’t see past it for a long time.

its no coincidence that the girls who were finally listened to- the “three girls” were the ones who had maintained some level of family relationship AND had stable, loving and more middle class families.

most of the girls didn’t have parents who cared. Many of them were in care due to poor parenting and neglect.

I don’t know this for sure, but over time I’ve come more to the belief that the girls weren’t targeted because they were white and because the men hated white girls.

I think it was mainly their vulnerability that attracted the groomers- who when they discovered children’s homes full of unparented girls couldn’t believe their luck- but also because so many of the groomers were from the same community, often extended families - cousins uncles etc, that they had to have victims who were far removed from their community.

snughugs · 05/05/2025 00:06

Bambamhoohoo · 04/05/2025 23:57

I don’t think anyone would care about young Pakistani girls either

Even if it were white men? It’s just as vile either way but perhaps we think British people should know better and excuse Asians more due to the “cultural differences”?

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MiloMinderbinder925 · 05/05/2025 00:00

snughugs · 04/05/2025 23:51

If young Pakistani girls were being groomed and raped they’d be protests and marches. Perhaps I’m wrong but the poster above was right they’d dehumanised white vulnerable British children into thinking they were less than the paedos who abused them. How awful.

It's not that simple. There's currently compensation being paid out to people who were abused for years in care in LA.

Wherever you get vulnerability, you get predators. These girls were very vulnerable, they came from chaotic backgrounds or were in care.

One thing that came up in the documentary was how these men honed in on vulnerable girls. I watched a Jimmy Savile documentary recently and exactly the same point was made.

The problem with Rotherham was the same all over the country, officials thought these girls were choosing to go with these men and weren't considered victims. In one report the police wrote: "lifestyle choice".

Bambamhoohoo · 04/05/2025 23:57

I don’t think anyone would care about young Pakistani girls either

snughugs · 04/05/2025 23:51

If young Pakistani girls were being groomed and raped they’d be protests and marches. Perhaps I’m wrong but the poster above was right they’d dehumanised white vulnerable British children into thinking they were less than the paedos who abused them. How awful.

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marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 04/05/2025 22:30

I think you’re probably right

Bambamhoohoo · 04/05/2025 22:23

I think partly it’s so old now. I know the filmmaker spoke about it still happening but she was using examples from a few years ago even then. It seemed to start in the mid 90s

its an absolute travesty, and should be a deep shame on our country.

there has already been a national enquiry- it led to very significant changes in the way street grooming was identified and dealt with

the police weren’t interested because they weren’t interested in “out of control” girls who were just seen as stupid slags. It was all too difficult

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 04/05/2025 22:17

I’d want to know why all those officials and the police buried it.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 04/05/2025 22:17

I wondered this. It’s a scandal.

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