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To spend £1,900 on a rug?

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Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 21:33

I love it so much.
I've been looking at it for over 1 year and I love it as much now as I did when I first saw it.
I've spent a year looking at rugs and haven't found any I particularly like.
This one, I love!
It's 3 metres x 2 metres.
Am I mad to spend this on a rug?
It would fill the floor space in our lounge.
Would sit on top of a wooden floor.
For context, I bring home £1,500 per month.
We are going camping in England for our family summer holiday.
We are not well off! At all!
But I love this rug and there is an option to pay it off monthly at zero % interest.....
I feel like it's wrong to spend this much on a rug but equally I really wish to have it!!

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Digdongdoo · 05/05/2025 13:59

Butchyrestingface · 05/05/2025 13:58

She explained the reason why she didn't want it posted.

I didn't think it was silly. The buying of the rug is a different matter entirely. But respecting her wishes not to post it was really a small ask.

Of course it's silly.

Butchyrestingface · 05/05/2025 13:58

Digdongdoo · 05/05/2025 13:29

So she can't be identified on an anonymous forum by a rug she doesn't actually own? So silly.

She explained the reason why she didn't want it posted.

I didn't think it was silly. The buying of the rug is a different matter entirely. But respecting her wishes not to post it was really a small ask.

Wishihadanalgorithm · 05/05/2025 13:42

OP, buy the rug. It is expensive based on your salary but if you really want it this much just buy it.

Years ago I bought a painting. I walked into a gallery, turned around and saw a landscape that just grabbed me. I HAD to have it. I couldn’t afford it but I did not care. I bought it and 12 years later I still love it. It’s been with me on 2 house moves and it’s the first object I’d save in a fire or flood.

Sometimes things do bring joy and happiness. It sounds like this rug will do that.

Digdongdoo · 05/05/2025 13:29

Butchyrestingface · 05/05/2025 13:27

You're not being asked whether or not it was easy to FIND.

The question is about why anyone would POST it when the OP explicitly stated she didn't want this to happen.

So she can't be identified on an anonymous forum by a rug she doesn't actually own? So silly.

YearlySubscriptionRenewal · 05/05/2025 13:28

I cannot understand why people keep advising to just "buy it". YOU HAVEN'T GOT THE MONEY! You haven't managed to save half in an entire year.

You could maybe get a second job to pay for it, and plan to finance it that way. Is it worth it? Is it realistic?

There's never any guarantee that something you buy will not be destroyed or lose value within a few weeks. Never spend money unless you are ready to lose that amount, you never know.

It doesn't matter if other people find it cheap or expensive, you can only judged based on YOUR finances, and yours are not enough to pay for it.

stclementine · 05/05/2025 13:28

BigHeadBertha · 04/05/2025 22:15

If you want it that much and you can swing it, get it. You only live once! :)

I say this too. I’ve had a series of cheap rugs due to elderly dog and then puppy issues. When my current 10 month old golden gets out of his velociraptor phase I’m getting a good one! Bugger the money. Sometimes we need to have something nice that brings us joy in the house.

Butchyrestingface · 05/05/2025 13:27

gotmyknickersinatwist · 05/05/2025 13:21

It was so so easy to find! @Theyalwaysknewbest is the one who posted all the identifying information.
John Lewis, 200 x 300cm, £1,900.
I found it in seconds.

You're not being asked whether or not it was easy to FIND.

The question is about why anyone would POST it when the OP explicitly stated she didn't want this to happen.

gotmyknickersinatwist · 05/05/2025 13:21

76evie · 05/05/2025 07:41

Why would you do that when she said she didn’t want to post a picture?

It was so so easy to find! @Theyalwaysknewbest is the one who posted all the identifying information.
John Lewis, 200 x 300cm, £1,900.
I found it in seconds.

Walkingonmoss · 05/05/2025 13:04

About 30 years ago I spent £600 on a rug. I earnt about £16,000 a year at the time, so it was a lot for me.

That rug is still in my Living Room and I still love it. It is a very high quality rug though, it was made by a nomadic people. And was used by them until another was made by the family. It’s really thick and durable. It’ll last my lifetime, and then my kids can inherit it if they want.

Only you can decide if you can afford it.

80smonster · 05/05/2025 12:58

PiggyPigalle · 05/05/2025 12:41

Then you'll know Lots Road, Chelsea Auction house. Moved now to different premises. Not sure if under different ownership as well, they just aren't the same anymore.
In better times I bought some lovely mirrors and artifacts. They also used to have unusual things from film sets and theatre. If you wanted a life size Zebra for your hallway or a Dalek, that was the place to look.
Back then, I would have suggested them for your rug but looking on their website, they only have a total of six to offer.

Yes I know them well. I used to pop in on the way to DCCH, but as you say they have moved. They were always quite useful for propping, but everything seems so much more expensive, or maybe I have become more tight fisted? I will add Lots Road to my weekly web stalking of the clouds rugs, I bet if you were clearing a Chelsea town house you’d probably call them.

queenofthesuburbs · 05/05/2025 12:56

PiggyPigalle · 05/05/2025 12:05

OP's is the John Lewis one, link on first page.
I was referring to the Luke Irwin 10k rug not being of heritage standard, apparently!

ah thank you.
OP I think you will tire of the colour...

SnoozingFox · 05/05/2025 12:53

Look, @Theyalwaysknewbest. I am totally on board with the buy good, buy once ethos and very much agree that buying quality to last is the way to go.

But simply put you CANNOT AFFORD this rug. As someone else pointed out you have saved £500 over a year which us just over £40 a month - the 0% finance deal is over 18 months and you would be expected to pay £105 a month - which you cannot afford. You can't afford the finance on the smallest rug either, and that's assuming you are approved for credit in the first place and if money is as tight as you say, you may well not be.

So your options are:

  1. buy a cheaper new rug which you're not happy with because it's not 100% pure wool
  2. Buy a second hand rug
  3. Do without a rug
PiggyPigalle · 05/05/2025 12:41

80smonster · 05/05/2025 11:58

Yes I found the italics a bit patronising and unnecessary. I assumed they were talking about the JL rug, either way it doesn’t matter. I didn’t come onto this thread for @KilkennyCats interior style and trends advice - which is actually an area I specialise in.

Then you'll know Lots Road, Chelsea Auction house. Moved now to different premises. Not sure if under different ownership as well, they just aren't the same anymore.
In better times I bought some lovely mirrors and artifacts. They also used to have unusual things from film sets and theatre. If you wanted a life size Zebra for your hallway or a Dalek, that was the place to look.
Back then, I would have suggested them for your rug but looking on their website, they only have a total of six to offer.

Ossoduro2 · 05/05/2025 12:40

I think you shouldn’t buy it. However, if it were me and I loved it I would just keep an eye on eBay and all the second hand selling forums. These sorts of brands always come up as they do re-sell. Fingers crossed someone much wealthier than you buys it and changes their mind and you can pick it up for a fraction of the price second hand.

StScholastica · 05/05/2025 12:35

Oooh I'm torn on this one. Part of me says get what you love, do babysitting or get a job in a bar in the evenings to save quicker.
Another part thinks that a rug will just get ruined.
I've been known to treat myself to art and have been lucky that so far it's all gone up in value.
Is there a dupe?

AhBiscuits · 05/05/2025 12:35

You can't afford it. You don't have £1900. I'm surprised anyone would suggest getting into debt for an unnecessary item.

longtompot · 05/05/2025 12:27

@Theyalwaysknewbest I missed your post where you said it took you a year to save £500. Unless you can buy it on credit, I don't think you'll be able to afford it sadly.

I would love a rug from Margo Selby, but at over £2k for the larger sizes it will be a pipe dream for me

Margo Selby rugs

Gladstone Rug

Hand tufted in wool and Tencel, the Gladstone rug showcases a vibrant green geometric pattern. Designed by British artist Margo Selby.

https://www.margoselby.com/products/gladstone-rug?variant=43898674512027

terracelane23 · 05/05/2025 12:25

I wouldn’t go into debt for a rug.

Daisrose · 05/05/2025 12:20

@Theyalwaysknewbest if that was the rug (the one that was linked) I absolutely love it! If it'll make you happy, go for it

Bestfadeplans · 05/05/2025 12:20

Ryeman · 05/05/2025 11:51

It’s a lot, but then when you move you can take it with you. Unlike a carpet.

Plenty of people take carpets with them

Bestfadeplans · 05/05/2025 12:19

There's no way I'd be spending more on a rug than a family holiday and more than my monthly wage. But you do you.

Lnew · 05/05/2025 12:14

I’m sorry, but no I wouldn’t. You’ve been wanting it for a long time and I wonder whether the anticipation is going to mean that the reality of having it is actually doing to be a let down.

Rugs can easily be damaged. A bit of dogshit on someone’s shoe - can happen even in a shoes off house with visitors etc. Wool rugs can shed fibres as well. Any number of things could either make the rug less than brilliant.

I would only say get it if you had the £1900 sloshing around and it was peanuts to you. But it isn’t.

longtompot · 05/05/2025 12:13

@Theyalwaysknewbest If it is the pale blue rug that someone posted the link for then it is beautiful and I would buy it if I could afford it.
As you say, it will last. It's handmade and looks good quality and the reviews say as much. The fact you still love it a year on says to me you won't grow bored of it any time soon.
Do you have a birthday coming up? Could you ask for John Lewis vouchers from anyone who usually buys you a present. I would also start to save towards it. If you had started putting away money when you saw it last year you might have had enough to buy it now, though that would have been nearly £160 a month.
I did a Google lens search on the image and there is an importer who has it but I have no idea how easy that would be to do or how expensive it would be, and also if it's the exact same colour rug as it looks darker in their photo. If you can see the rug in person, you might be able to see any info on the label on the back of the rug. Who knows, might be imported by the same people!

PiggyPigalle · 05/05/2025 12:05

queenofthesuburbs · 05/05/2025 11:50

which rug is it?

OP's is the John Lewis one, link on first page.
I was referring to the Luke Irwin 10k rug not being of heritage standard, apparently!

80smonster · 05/05/2025 12:01

PiggyPigalle · 05/05/2025 11:48

Does it make you feel superior to be so nit picky?

At nearly 10k for the large size, I would leave a note to its worth for my family.

@80smonster Agree, it is a lovely rug.

It is isn’t it. I love the entire Luke Irwin clouds collection and regularly check ebay to see if someone is clearing out their Chelsea townhouse and selling one on. I live in hope @PiggyPigalle.