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To spend £1,900 on a rug?

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Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 21:33

I love it so much.
I've been looking at it for over 1 year and I love it as much now as I did when I first saw it.
I've spent a year looking at rugs and haven't found any I particularly like.
This one, I love!
It's 3 metres x 2 metres.
Am I mad to spend this on a rug?
It would fill the floor space in our lounge.
Would sit on top of a wooden floor.
For context, I bring home £1,500 per month.
We are going camping in England for our family summer holiday.
We are not well off! At all!
But I love this rug and there is an option to pay it off monthly at zero % interest.....
I feel like it's wrong to spend this much on a rug but equally I really wish to have it!!

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Seamond · 04/05/2025 22:44

It may go in the sale, though this is more likely to happen after you have bought it. I bought one of the Morris ones when it when it was half price as it was a bit dear, I'm sure I enjoy it more because it was a bargain

VivIsBlonde · 04/05/2025 22:43

I clicked YABU because you should just buy it if you love it!
in the 12 months you’ve been pondering you could have saved up enough to buy it 🤣🤣

AnnaL94 · 04/05/2025 22:43

Fuck it.

If you want it. Buy it. Get it on Klarna.

Just make sure you have enough money to buy food and pay your bills.

BumWormFatigue · 04/05/2025 22:41

Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 21:39

I have managed to save up £500 towards it.
I don't have much money left at the end of each month.
It's taken me a year to save £500.

Sorry but no, if this is the case. I can't afford anything either, if it's any consolation.

Catchame · 04/05/2025 22:40

We spent £1800 on a JL rug nearly 20 years ago! It's still beautiful. We were ultra precious about it at first, and dreaded spilling the slightest drop of wine, but then had kids and a dog and stopped being precious. It still looks beautiful, it was a really good buy.

That said, we wouldn't spend that amount now (pre kids and well paid jobs) - I'd find a cheaper alternative!

GotToWearShades · 04/05/2025 22:40

KilkennyCats · 04/05/2025 21:43

Oh. I don’t like that.

It's timeless class and the price is very reasonable.

If instead you buy a swirly patterned rug rather than something classic like this you will just keep 'updating'.

DollydaydreamTheThird · 04/05/2025 22:39

Even if you said you earnt 15k a month, I'd still think you need your head feeling to spend that much on a rug. Given your earnings, I would say save the money and invest it instead. Get a cheaper rug.

FloatingSquirrel · 04/05/2025 22:38

minipie · 04/05/2025 21:51

This one is polyester not wool, very different in real life

But sometimes people can't always afford the very best without vastly compromising in other areas of life. I wouldn't say polyester and wool is a difference worth £1670 when it's taken her a year to save £500 and she has DC.

beetr00 · 04/05/2025 22:38

@Theyalwaysknewbest

I'd say you are being a wee bit unreasonable, especially if you have children or pets.

Won't you be on tenterhooks, all the while, in case someone spills something
etc..

You could hang it on the wall though (if you have children) 😉

nadine90 · 04/05/2025 22:36

If you could afford it, I’d have said go for it. But you really can’t op. Don’t get yourself bogged down with a debt over something you just like the look of. The £500 you’ve saved could no doubt get you a beautiful, thick rug in a similar style. Keep looking x

PrimalLass · 04/05/2025 22:36

I think it's beautiful. Keep saving and if you still want it when you've saved all the money then go for it.

TheJinxMinx · 04/05/2025 22:35

Unless u live in a pet free child free home i wouldn't trust me it will not stay perfect there will be crumbs, spillage, shoe marks etc no matter how long u keep up the whole no eating near the rug shoes off someone always sneaks by and ruins it. Also its very very expensive unless u are a celebrity. Given ur monthly total I personally wouldn't id just get one similar in colours if possible. BUT if you have savings there and u love and seldom treat urself then perhaps why not although if its on finance I wouldn't its a very expensive rug!

MadeleineAllbright · 04/05/2025 22:33

Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 21:39

I have managed to save up £500 towards it.
I don't have much money left at the end of each month.
It's taken me a year to save £500.

Kindly, you can’t afford the rug.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 04/05/2025 22:33

Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 21:39

I have managed to save up £500 towards it.
I don't have much money left at the end of each month.
It's taken me a year to save £500.

Oh then yeah yabu sorry x

BatchCookBabe · 04/05/2025 22:31

No rug from John Lewis is worth 2 grand sorry @Theyalwaysknewbest Especially if it's the one we all think it is.

And going into debt for it/paying it off monthly/on the never never.

No. Just no (sorry!)

Labraradabrador · 04/05/2025 22:31

a lovely rug can absolutely make a room, but I’ve never had a rug last more than 5 years due to kids, dogs and a clumsy red wine loving husband. As such, I look longingly at nicer rugs but only buy ones that can be readily washed, have colours and patterns that hide stains or are not so expensive that I would be upset if we needed to throw out.

Itsanewnameeveryday · 04/05/2025 22:27

I loved the Vivienne Westwood flag rug by the Rug Company.
Years later I saw it on marketplace for 1/3 the new price. After it sat there for a month I made a cheeky offer and bought it.
It’s like new as the previous owner was worried about damage and didn’t use it.
Have you looked on eBay, marketplace and Etsy? Might be worth doing a google image search or even asking the store if they ever do a display stock sale.
It’s taken years but my house furnished with the best of everything and I’ve never purchased anything full price.

LovingLimePeer · 04/05/2025 22:23

I think you can't afford this rug. I'm sure it's lovely and I'm very sorry.

You've only saved £500 in a whole year. I assume then that it would take you another 3 years to pay off the rug using all your spare money (and not including any money spent on interest).

This is assuming nothing goes wrong eg. Car or boiler issues, which could mean you would default on the loan.

I know some people get a bit sniffy about second hand house stuff but it can be a way of getting beautiful/expensive things for much less. (A case of champagne lifestyle, lemonade money working well!). Our household brings in c.£10000 each month and I bought my rug second hand on eBay and had it professionally cleaned. Looks beautiful and cost us about £150 all in.

I wouldn't even spend £1900 on a rug. If I had that spare money, I'd invest that in my 4 year Old's pension in the hope of an extra £28000 in today's money at retirement for him (or £1100 per year in retirement if he took our the recommended amount annually - enough to buy a fancy rug every year for the rest of his life!)

soupyspoon · 04/05/2025 22:23

Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 22:20

These rugs you're all linking to are all made of polyester! And they're all thin, with no thick pile to them!
The rug I love is wool and is luxurious and thick.
I'm not getting a polyester rug.

You're right not to entertain polyester, I saw the others and didnt post them

But have you thought about a thick cotton one or second hand wool?

JollyLilacBee · 04/05/2025 22:22

I wouldn’t, but last time I bought a new rug (nowhere near that price) it lasted a week. Ds came walking through the lounge to get his phone, Thai takeaway in his hand, tripped and tipped it all over my new rug. I scrubbed and scrubbed it, bought all kinds of carpet cleaner, eventually power washed it and hung it over the line for a month, and it STILL stunk of fish sauce….

godmum56 · 04/05/2025 22:22

We did this with a similar priced rug but were more able to afford it. It ended up in an unused room because it was just not suitable for family life. Honestly OP unless you are going to tiptoe around it in clean bare feet and never ever have anything but water in the room, don't do it. Also, as has been said, moths!

ManchesterGirl2 · 04/05/2025 22:21

I'm sorry, because I'd love to say yes, but it sounds like it's just not affordable in your financial situation. I think it's not sensible to go into debt for something non essential, particularly something that's hard to keep pristine and whose secondhand resale value will be much lower than what you paid. On your current trend it would take around three more years to pay it off. What happens if an unexpected and costly problem hits the family while you're still paying off the rug? In my view it's just not worth it.

DreamTheMoors · 04/05/2025 22:20

You only live once, @Theyalwaysknewbest
Yuu’ll regret it forever if you don’t get it and there’s nothing worse than thinking to yourself in 5, 10, 20 years - I wonder what it…
I hate it when that happens.

Theyalwaysknewbest · 04/05/2025 22:20

These rugs you're all linking to are all made of polyester! And they're all thin, with no thick pile to them!
The rug I love is wool and is luxurious and thick.
I'm not getting a polyester rug.

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SnorElla · 04/05/2025 22:16

If you want to get it then I think you should earn the rest of the money. Sell on Vinted. Do surveys. Can you make £14? Just do that 100 times for the rest

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