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Prince Harry and Brooklyn Beckham

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kindnessforthewin · 04/05/2025 20:33

Not a good look for our British families

The Beckhams’ once-flawless brand and PR machine have finally taken a dent.

Will Brooklyn be tempted to write a tell all or speak out, like Harry? Surely the Beckhams have their own skeletons, and you can bet the media will bait Brooklyn until he cracks.

Makes me feel somewhat better about my own dysfunctional family.

I feel for David though, his 50th will have been overshadowed by his son. Give, give, give and in return their first born cannot put differences aside to attend.

AIBU to think that parents who give their kids everything just end up creating entitled brats who are so detached from reality, add little to society and throw it all back in their poor parents faces. should there not be some kind of study, research or guidance on how to stop this happening. The world has enough problems.

OP posts:
thepariscrimefiles · 05/05/2025 07:05

kindnessforthewin · 04/05/2025 21:47

I have a terribly dysfunctional family. I even said it in my post.

It’s just amazing two very privileged young men in the same weekend have made front page news for being somewhat estranged from their families, incredible given the incredible wealth, luxuries, lack of jobs and real world problems they have been afforded.

Edited

Despite both families being extremely wealthy and in the public eye, I don't think that they are comparable. Brooklyn Beckham has obviously had a very loving and pampered existence with two parents who love him and he has had lots of opportunities due to his family connections, despite his obvious lack of talent.

No-one normal would really want Harry's life with the death of his mother and a very cold and distant father. They all seem quite fucked up to me and incapable of normal, human emotions. Does anyone ever look at any members of the Royal Family and wish that had been you?

thepariscrimefiles · 05/05/2025 06:53

CalleOcho · 04/05/2025 21:27

Kindly- you need to get a life.

Surely, any of us commenting on this also need to get a life, including you.

Welcometothewhitelotus · 05/05/2025 06:45

At another point, Beckham confirmed his own family’s attendance and provided their ages, guessing at 11-year-old sister Harper’s age, only for Peltz to step in and reply, “Do not trust Brooklyn with this,” before adding “U should be asking an assistant. He has no idea. And is guessing.”

Taken from the Rolling Stone article above. Maybe Brooklyn has no idea it’s David’s 50th?

CamillaMacauley · 05/05/2025 06:42

Viviennemary · 04/05/2025 23:59

The Beckhams are far too involved in their children's lives. I would say that's the problem.

Yes and I can imagine once you’re married your wife wouldn’t be too keen on having a MIL and possibly a FIL that want to be so involved. Which could cause problems. Saying that she’s meant to be very close to her parents so you’d have thought she wouldn’t mind him being close to his parents. 🤷‍♀️

No idea if it’s true or not but when they got married apparently VB was offended because Nicola didn’t want a VB designer dress. And that issue caused problems a while back but were then resolved.

Soonenough · 05/05/2025 05:51

The Beckhams have worked very hard to promote a Family brand. It must be hard to give up that control when your kids are old enough to not want to be part of it. They must be dreading Harper being old enough to start dating unsuitable boyfriends . Her brothers haven't done very well - isn't Romeo girlfriend years older than him ? Plus it must be worrying to never being sure that people aren't using their kids to enter the inner circle .
I don't think it's a coincidence that both Prince Harry and Brooklyn have married Americans . These women , especially Meghan have no interest in towing the accepted line with their in laws family. I think both women have given their men the back up and support to defy tradition that they found irksome. But Harry is pathetic publicly airing his grievances to gain attention and money .

SpryUmberZebra · 05/05/2025 04:04

ForeverPombear · 04/05/2025 20:45

If that's it then there's plenty of reasons for that and in that case you're being OTT OP. Maybe he wished him happy birthday privately and there might be something really personal going on.

Apparently there’s a rift concerning Brooklyn’s wife and Victoria.

QuaintShaker · 05/05/2025 03:27

Yeah my post was ridiculous, but I dont know that the "not a good look for our British families" comment in the OP was significantly less ridiculous (as if the Royals and the Beckhams are representative of a typical British family, or that family rifts are a uniquely British thing), and I'm not currently inclined to let any opportunity, no matter how ham-fisted and tenuous, to criticize the Trumps and the US pass me by.

Edit: Sorry that was @mathanxiety

Aur0raAustralis · 05/05/2025 02:31

kindnessforthewin · 04/05/2025 21:47

I have a terribly dysfunctional family. I even said it in my post.

It’s just amazing two very privileged young men in the same weekend have made front page news for being somewhat estranged from their families, incredible given the incredible wealth, luxuries, lack of jobs and real world problems they have been afforded.

Edited

I haven't read beyond this post, so others may have made the same point but...

I think the incredible wealth, luxuries, and lack of jobs and real-world problems is actually part of the root cause of their problems. They have too much time and global attention on everything they do. It's much easier to blame your family then look at yourself.

Calliopespa · 05/05/2025 02:05

HRTQueen · 05/05/2025 01:58

Maybe he is fed up with having his life always being so public and having to perform. I feel sorry for him like Harry he has been paraded around with no regard for his privacy

difference is he can step away and maybe he is now choosing to

I agree that I think it is easy for people to underestimate the downsides of being born into publicity. They look at the money etc and think no further. The same applies to Harry.

HRTQueen · 05/05/2025 01:58

Maybe he is fed up with having his life always being so public and having to perform. I feel sorry for him like Harry he has been paraded around with no regard for his privacy

difference is he can step away and maybe he is now choosing to

FrodoBiggins · 05/05/2025 01:45

@kindnessforthewin - "The Beckhams’ once-flawless brand and PR machine have finally taken a dent."

Didn't he famously fuck their nanny?

(Not to mention kicking Diego Simeone up the arse)

Calliopespa · 05/05/2025 01:40

Or Princess Leia buns …

Calliopespa · 05/05/2025 01:39

I thought his own shadow had got in it, wearing headphones.

Calliopespa · 05/05/2025 01:37

ElBandito · 04/05/2025 23:29

I think you will find he failed photography more than moderately

I’ve been a bit disgusted by the nastiness on this thread but I’m afraid I’m now going to have to join in because it actually took me about 30 seconds to find the elephant in that photo. Which is saying something, given it’s … well, an elephant.

GeorgiesCat · 05/05/2025 00:47

But back to brooklyn, actually personally, I feel more anyone growing up in the spotlight in the public eye, with famous parents
All the press want him to fail, seems like his wife and vb don't get on the best, just let him be, hopefully he wished his dad happy birthday privately

GeorgiesCat · 05/05/2025 00:44

Trickabrick · 04/05/2025 21:20

Oh give over, you can blame Trump for many things but it’s a massive stretch to blame him for any alleged estrangement within the Beckham family. Never mind their main family residence is in London, and has been for years!

I didn't know trump raped his wife and that his mum and sister said that? I knew about him admitting he just grabs women by the privates

mathanxiety · 05/05/2025 00:44

QuaintShaker · 04/05/2025 21:17

It probably speaks to the corrosive effect of American influence on family life.

Harry and the Beckhams have moved to a country ruled by a man who raped his ex-wife and buried her body in a barely-marked grave (since neglected and overgrown), whose current wife seems to go out of her way to show repulsed by him, whose neice has carved out a career as a prominent critic, whose mother asked "what kind of son have I created?" and whose sister labelled him unprincipled and cruel.

For some reason, Americans have really come to admire being hated by your own family. It's bound to rub off a bit.

And the boiled sweet prize for ridiculousness goes to...

Wackadaywideawake · 05/05/2025 00:39

Brefugee · 04/05/2025 20:34

what has Brooklyn Beckham done?

Nothing, which I think is the point

Viviennemary · 04/05/2025 23:59

The Beckhams are far too involved in their children's lives. I would say that's the problem.

Funkyblues101 · 04/05/2025 23:56

We have no knowledge of Brooklyn's life. He or his wife could be ill, pregnancy, extended family illness, we have no idea. Or he's decided he doesn't like everyone in cyberspace insulting him, so he's gone private.

stayathomer · 04/05/2025 23:53

He tried as a footballer - failed miserably. He tried as a musician - failed spectacularly. He tried as a photographer - failed moderately. He tried as a chef and almost succeeded.

What a horrible way to talk about another human being. Have you flown everything you’ve done in life? Is someone keeping a list on you?

TheAutumnCrow · 04/05/2025 23:39

It's the culture wars, nepo baby stylee.

Elephant photo book vs Spare

My dad's played for England vs my dad's the King

LittlePaintBox · 04/05/2025 23:34

Brefugee · 04/05/2025 20:34

what has Brooklyn Beckham done?

Yes, what has Brooklyn Beckham got to do with Prince Harry?

shuggles · 04/05/2025 23:33

@kindnessforthewin AIBU to think that parents who give their kids everything just end up creating entitled brats who are so detached from reality, add little to society and throw it all back in their poor parents faces. should there not be some kind of study, research or guidance on how to stop this happening. The world has enough problems.

Well yes, I agree. But when I suggested that it's not right for a minority of parents to buy cars for their children, I was on the receiving end of a lot of abuse.

ElBandito · 04/05/2025 23:33

It is real. From his book of photos wot he took.

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