Friend not talking to me because I shared a photo from her Wedding

you are both in the wrong here.

firstly - you’re complaining about her being precious about social media whilst you are simultaneously being precious about social media. Realistically you’re both prioritising social media facades and thinking what you want is more valid than the other. It’s obnoxious.

Ultimately you are more in the wrong because you said the couple asked people not to post on social media. Out of pure respect wouldn’t you want to check with her before posting anything - instead of assuming that their boundary was just the ceremony? The fact she made a request mentioning social media, would have prompted me to be mindful in any case. She’s your friend, that’s her wish, her wedding etc. I can totally see how this looks like you disregarded her request. You’re trying to muddy the waters by saying it wasn’t clear, when in reality if you were being a caring friend you would have checked in with her.

She’s such an upright precious fool. Seriously, been to weddings and no one gives a shit, the big reveal 😂 wtf.

she’s the loser, not you. Some people would rather lose a friendships over something so petty makes me wonder where we are at as humans. I mean hardly a crime

She is massively overestimating how much anyone cares about her dress.

People don't "own" news.

There's nothing wrong with the pp announcing to her FB followers that she has become a grandmother.

Aye anyone who cared enough about the ‘reveal’ would be at the wedding anyway.

I thought the big dress reveal was when you walked down the aisle.

You made a mistake but she’s being ridiculous.

Anyone close enough to her would have seen her on the day, anyone else probably won’t give a damn. The way people care so much about what their ‘Facebook friends’ think blows my mind. I’m sure she had enough attention for the reveal from her real friends on the day 🤷🏼‍♀️

She's a moron and a bad friend. Consider yourself rid of her.

She revealed her dress to anyone who would have a shred of interest when she approached the alter (or whatever) to be married.

Stagey social media displays are the refuge of the immature, self-centered mind.

I see her point but she’s taken it too far.
she is acting like some prima Donna whose gonna lose the ££££ deal from Hello magazine!
you can’t turn back time, you took them down as soon as you were asked and apologized, she needs to let it go, I wouldn’t keep groveling to her.

Tell her that nobody gives a shit about her "reveal". How ridiculous

Hmmmm, she sounds entitled and precious, and I don't understand her thinking BUT if it was that important to her that she made a specific request to guests then yabu for making an assumption and spoiling that for her. That said, is this someone you want to stay friends with if something so minor is worth more than friendship. So yabu but you also dodged yourself a bullet

The bride must have been in one of the photos? She was upset about spoiling the dress reveal?

To dump a friend over this?! Life's too short. As if people are waiting with bated breath for a 'big reveal.'

If she's a good friend other than this she will get over it. Friendship is worth more than hanging onto a resentment.

Beyond pathetic. You’re better off without this histrionic twit in your life.

There was an announcement not to upload anything to social media which I assumed related solely to the ceremony

Come off it, OP; "anything" means what it says, and while I agree with PPs that her approach is OTT you could at least have respected a simple request

I get where she’s coming from tbh. This was done to me before I had even managed to take my dress off after our ceremony. We had no desire to upload photos of mine and my husbands day and that choice was taken away from us. What would make anyone think to upload photos of someone else’s special day to the internet before you had seen the couple do so? They hadn’t even come back from their honeymoon yet! Why the rush to share someone else’s memories on social media?? Yes, she should maybe accept your apology but, people should understand that not everyone wants their special moments splashed all over the internet.

She might be being precious but she DID ask guests not to post pictures and you did anyway, which is a bit shit of you. It's fairly standard now for people not to post photos of the bride & groom until they have themselves, I thought.

Well it’s really not ok to announce the birth of someone else’s child so I can understand them being pissed off.

Just as I can see the bride being upset in this situation but she’s going really over the top now.

A bridal-dress-reveal? Please beam me up Scotty.

Why do people do this?Life is too short.

That she had t done anything wrong by the looks of it.

You posted before they'd announced the birth? 😲

Jeeze. What were you thinking?

The friend in the picture with the OP was the bride

I just thought it was an unspoken rule anyway not to post anything before the bride or groom does! I wouldn’t post anything (if I was going to, I’m not big on social media) until they have. Same goes with new/expectant parents. In my opinion you made an error, however all you can do is apologise. It’s up to her what she does with that.

I think she is being over the top but I don’t think you should have done it.

A friend of mine did something similar years ago except it was a new born baby as apposed to a wedding dress. And the mum of the new born was annoyed and the relationship with my friend cooled but they had patched things up by the christening.

I think your friend needs to get over herself and accept it was a misunderstanding.