So… my husband has previously cheated with a work colleague. This was over a decade ago, but I only found out in the last couple of years. Although I always had my suspicions. There have also been several inappropriate messages to several women, and he has visited a sex worker at least once but I suspect several times. Since the big reveal he’s vowed to change.
Most days he’ll come home from work and vent to me about his day, mentioning the same names.
I have now discovered that he has been arranging to meet and drive a colleague to work. He has never mentioned her name before or anything about giving her lifts. Previously he has picked up a male colleague but has always told me about that. This feels sneaky and suspicious. Am I being unreasonable? Or a complete fucking mug?