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To think voluntourism needs to be called out?

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icreaminbarnsley · 03/05/2025 07:29

I've had numerous requests this year by parents of teen dc who are going to various African countries to contribute to their crowdfunding "to help the people in [insert country]". They further explain that said child will be building schools/wells, teaching English, designing sanitation projects....but the latest I received was that their child would be "advising locals on how to set up a business". This in particular has really annoyed me, as the child is doing A Levels, has no business of their own, and no business acumen that I'm aware of. How can you be so brass necked and unaware to be spouting stuff like this? I totally get going to a different country is going to be a fantastic experience for the dc, but who is dressing it up to make it sound like these teens have something important to offer and are needed abroad, in areas that they have absolutely zero experience? I also get that the locals might benefit from the money that the dc need to pay to undertake such an experience, but is it really the locals who benefit, or is it the mainly the 'charitable' organizations that are based in the UK?

AIBU to feel we need to call this a unique opportunity to experience life in [insert country] and not delude ourselves into thinking the locals are benefitting from groups of western teens, who are not builders, engineers or business advisers?

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Todaywillbeok · 26/10/2025 09:03

It’s made very, very clear that what you suggest is not allowed.
I mean, people can steal if they want, but the majority of people aren’t like that.

Digdongdoo · 26/10/2025 08:54

Todaywillbeok · 26/10/2025 08:35

Flights for the Hope foundation trips, as well as insurance, visas etc are paid for separately out of the teens own pocket. In reality this usually means parents pay for the trip, or the teen earns money from a part-time job, or a combination. But donations made from fundraising certainly don’t go towards covering this, nor should they.

It would be interesting to know how this works in practice. It would surprise me if there really is a separate fundraising pot most of the time.

Annoyeddd · 26/10/2025 08:51

I decided against any of my DC's going on these trips while at school - helping build a school when they hadn't got the foggiest idea of the construction industry. The people who went on these trips were those least suited (had always been driven to school, never been away from parents ie no scouts or guides).
Different matter for medical, architectural and similar students they actually have something to offer in some communities whether it be abroad or in this country.

Acommonreader · 26/10/2025 08:38

pyzaz · 03/05/2025 08:32

I lived in a very poor Africa country for a couple of years, probably one of the ones these students are visiting, and I can safely say that there are a lot of very savvy business people out there and anyone trying to tell them how to run a business would make themselves look like an idiot. In fact, I would argue that African business owners are better at running businesses that many people in the UK, because there is no government help (the government is probably a hindrance) and the corruption all make it more difficult to run a business, so they have to be extra good at it.

They'll give the locals something to laugh about at least.

My biggest concern is that these kids are being taught extreme racist thoughts at such a young age - someone is putting it into their heads that westerners with no knowledge of anything, are better than Africans with extensive knowledge. I really thought we'd moved on from this kind of thinking.

Totally agree. Having spent a couple of years in Africa,I found that the genuine local charities and NGOs find these schemes at best laughable and at worst damaging and patronising. I’m amazed they still go on.

Todaywillbeok · 26/10/2025 08:35

Flights for the Hope foundation trips, as well as insurance, visas etc are paid for separately out of the teens own pocket. In reality this usually means parents pay for the trip, or the teen earns money from a part-time job, or a combination. But donations made from fundraising certainly don’t go towards covering this, nor should they.

marcopront · 26/10/2025 07:53

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 20:52

I'm not sure which facts you believe were misleading.

The impression given on this thread that the fundraised sum invariably covers expenses such as flights, for example. That’s not true in the case I outlined above re the Hope Foundation.

So how do people pay for flights?

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 20:52

I'm not sure which facts you believe were misleading.

The impression given on this thread that the fundraised sum invariably covers expenses such as flights, for example. That’s not true in the case I outlined above re the Hope Foundation.

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 18:18

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 18:09

Yes, just not sure what to believe as some of the facts posted on the thread were misleading as I’ve already said. Will do my own research though, thanks for the heads up.

I'm not sure which facts you believe were misleading. But I do hope you do some research.
Safeguarding should always be paramount. Particularly so when dealing with the most vulnerable and disadvantaged children. No child should be collateral for fundraising goals.

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 18:09

Yes, just not sure what to believe as some of the facts posted on the thread were misleading as I’ve already said. Will do my own research though, thanks for the heads up.

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 18:06

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 18:01

But are you saying the charity do not know or care about the people they are helping then? Their aim is to help the children.

Part of their stated aim also is education of students who may then continue to fundraise/help long into the future. Get them to really see the inequality between their lives and other’s and to change their lives accordingly. I think that might not happen with the donating and going on holiday model.

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I'm not saying they don't care.
I am saying that these fundraising models are problematic. It's been done to death on this thread, so I'm not going to rehash it all. If you were open to learning there is an abundance of information already.

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 18:01

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:45

It's not MN that knows better. It's anyone who knows anything about children (or people in general) knows better.
Why can't people just donate to charity and go on holiday? Why must they spend time with and take photos with poor brown children?

But are you saying the charity do not know or care about the people they are helping then? Their aim is to help the children.

Part of their stated aim also is education of students who may then continue to fundraise/help long into the future. Get them to really see the inequality between their lives and other’s and to change their lives accordingly. I think that might not happen with the donating and going on holiday model.

Almondflour · 25/10/2025 17:58

I completely agree with OP. A teenage family member went on one of those volunteer trips in the summer and had to fundraiser £5k. I refused to donate because I don’t support the idea but also because he wouldn’t lift a finger to actually do anything to raise the money. Nearly all adults in the family were hassled by mum to help him raise money and organise all sort of fundraising activities for him. His mum ended up creating some crafts which he then sold as his work to public. In the end he raised less than a third of the required amount and the rest had to come from parents’ savings.
The only person who benefited from this goodwill holiday was him. I think he spent about 5 days of the month -long expedition doing any work and even that was of questionable value to the local population.
Im surprised schools sign up to these things.

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:45

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:38

The students donate €2500 each, minimum, that they have fundraised. €400 of that covers their accommodation and partial board. They purchase other food while there. There are evening activities that also come at extra cost to the students. Presumably there are overheads and staff expenses and transportation costs (bus) to be factored in, but I think the charity is making a lot here or they wouldn’t do it. They must think it worth it and they are the ones on the ground working with people who need help and managing these projects so why does MN know better?

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It's not MN that knows better. It's anyone who knows anything about children (or people in general) knows better.
Why can't people just donate to charity and go on holiday? Why must they spend time with and take photos with poor brown children?

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:41

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:29

Actually many of the same teens (same year group) do work experience in Irish primary schools, care homes, creches etc (as well as many other placements) at this stage in their education.

Bus loads at a time, no checks beforehand and one visit to each with no follow up and photographs of the children plastered all over social media? That sounds unlikely.

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:38

The students donate €2500 each, minimum, that they have fundraised. €400 of that covers their accommodation and partial board. They purchase other food while there. There are evening activities that also come at extra cost to the students. Presumably there are overheads and staff expenses and transportation costs (bus) to be factored in, but I think the charity is making a lot here or they wouldn’t do it. They must think it worth it and they are the ones on the ground working with people who need help and managing these projects so why does MN know better?

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:37

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:29

Actually many of the same teens (same year group) do work experience in Irish primary schools, care homes, creches etc (as well as many other placements) at this stage in their education.

Do Irish primary schools really invite in a different large group of teenagers every week or so?
Not really the same thing is it?

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:35

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:24

Not keen on defending in general but I do know some of the points made upthread are (in the particular example I’m talking about at least) wrong.

The money people donate isn’t being spent on flights etc as pp have said or implied. It’s going directly to the charity and the majority is spent on their various projects. That does matter and to present it as otherwise is misleading.

Leaving to one side the community / individual harm, to know whether this was true or not, we would need to see the breakdown of how the €2100 (the €2500 less the €400 for accommodation) is spent.

It doesn’t matter whether the voluntourist’s costs are paid by donation or are self-funded. It’s still money that only benefits the person travelling and not the charity beneficiaries.

How much of the rest goes to pay for the fund raising programme? That’s not just the immediate costs - there will be administrators just for the voluntourism programme, advertising in Western countries and probably other costs I’ve not thought of.

I’m not saying the Hope Foundation is unique in any way - there are multiple similar organisations making money out of Western teenagers who genuinely think they are helping.

None are explicit about how much of the money is actually spent on the charitable aim. At best, as with this organisation, they say how much goes to the charity with no breakdown of expenses that result from the programme itself.

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:30

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:24

Not keen on defending in general but I do know some of the points made upthread are (in the particular example I’m talking about at least) wrong.

The money people donate isn’t being spent on flights etc as pp have said or implied. It’s going directly to the charity and the majority is spent on their various projects. That does matter and to present it as otherwise is misleading.

I'm not convinced they are wrong though. You have made assumptions, but they are unfounded and naive in my opinion. If you had some actual information, it would be a different conversation. The total lack of transparency is a major red flag.

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:29

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:23

There is at least one post online from teenagers who have been on such a trip. Lots of mention of playing with orphanage children interspersed with tourist activity. I’m not going to post a link because while the descriptions make me cringe, I do think the teenagers in question meant well. I hold their teachers / parents far more responsible.

No consideration at all in the post of the effect of repeated random visitors on young children and no mention of the level / extent of supervision.

Even if there is careful supervision (and this would be unusual for this model of voluntourism), the children are still being treated like entertainment for the visitors.

Think about this happening in the nursery / crèche down the road from you. Would you be happy for multiple bus loads of Indian teenagers being brought in to play with your 4 year old? If not, why is it OK in reverse?

Actually many of the same teens (same year group) do work experience in Irish primary schools, care homes, creches etc (as well as many other placements) at this stage in their education.

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:24

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:12

Hundreds of schools kids every year, plus an undetermined number of adults of the numerous other trips they sell. Do you honestly beleive this stream of tourists can ever be good for vulnerable, disadvantaged children? You don't appear to actually know anything about the trip at all, beyond the very vague information online. So I'm not sure why you're so keen to defend it honestly. Based upon what?

Not keen on defending in general but I do know some of the points made upthread are (in the particular example I’m talking about at least) wrong.

The money people donate isn’t being spent on flights etc as pp have said or implied. It’s going directly to the charity and the majority is spent on their various projects. That does matter and to present it as otherwise is misleading.

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:23

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:07

I think you’re wrong in that they’re ‘turned loose on children’, yes. Why would a charity helping the children do that? Supervised meet-ups do happen I would think.

There is at least one post online from teenagers who have been on such a trip. Lots of mention of playing with orphanage children interspersed with tourist activity. I’m not going to post a link because while the descriptions make me cringe, I do think the teenagers in question meant well. I hold their teachers / parents far more responsible.

No consideration at all in the post of the effect of repeated random visitors on young children and no mention of the level / extent of supervision.

Even if there is careful supervision (and this would be unusual for this model of voluntourism), the children are still being treated like entertainment for the visitors.

Think about this happening in the nursery / crèche down the road from you. Would you be happy for multiple bus loads of Indian teenagers being brought in to play with your 4 year old? If not, why is it OK in reverse?

Digdongdoo · 25/10/2025 17:12

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 17:07

I think you’re wrong in that they’re ‘turned loose on children’, yes. Why would a charity helping the children do that? Supervised meet-ups do happen I would think.

Hundreds of schools kids every year, plus an undetermined number of adults of the numerous other trips they sell. Do you honestly beleive this stream of tourists can ever be good for vulnerable, disadvantaged children? You don't appear to actually know anything about the trip at all, beyond the very vague information online. So I'm not sure why you're so keen to defend it honestly. Based upon what?

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:08

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 16:56

@CandidHedgehog
You are right in that I don’t know much about what happens on the trips so I can’t address those points.

I don’t know why you mention the costs of the flights, visas etc. Why are they relevant? Individuals pay for these themselves out of their own pocket.

Many of the posts upthread — and yours— seemed to assume that these costs are covered by fundraising, but in this instance at least that’s simply not true.
That does make me doubt the veracity of some of the other points being made here but it’s something I’ll look into, thanks.

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It doesn’t matter if it’s fundraising or not. It’s still money being spent on the entertainment of the Western teenager not on the supposed purpose of the trip.

If instead of going, the teenager in question donated say €500, it would probably benefit the charity more with none of the problematic elements.

The fact is, with the voluntourist model, most of the money spent (whether from fundraising or self-paid) is for the benefit of the voluntourist and to facilitate activities that actively harm the people / communities they claim to be helping.

CandidHedgehog · 25/10/2025 17:08

Todaywillbeok · 25/10/2025 16:56

@CandidHedgehog
You are right in that I don’t know much about what happens on the trips so I can’t address those points.

I don’t know why you mention the costs of the flights, visas etc. Why are they relevant? Individuals pay for these themselves out of their own pocket.

Many of the posts upthread — and yours— seemed to assume that these costs are covered by fundraising, but in this instance at least that’s simply not true.
That does make me doubt the veracity of some of the other points being made here but it’s something I’ll look into, thanks.

Edited

It doesn’t matter if it’s fundraising or not. It’s still money being spent on the entertainment of the Western teenager not on the supposed purpose of the trip.

If instead of going, the teenager in question donated say €500, it would probably benefit the charity more with none of the problematic elements.

The fact is, with the voluntourist model, most of the money spent (whether from fundraising or self-paid) is for the benefit of the voluntourist and to facilitate activities that actively harm the people / communities they claim to be helping.