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to think I should be able to park near the school?

218 replies

zagazig · 02/05/2025 15:19

Got a call from the school. DD had vomited so they asked me to come and pick her up. Got there about 2.30pm and had to park several streets away because so many parents had already taken the prime parkin spaces. Many of them were in their cars already with some younger children in the bank. Also quite a few with their engines idling to keep the AC on as it is warm.

Are parents really parking up an hour before to get the best nearest spaces? I had to walk poor DD several streets away to get her to the car. I normally walk her to school and walk back but I took the car as I was coming from work and she was unwell.

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RichWithNoSelfControl · 02/05/2025 17:18

Our local school finishes 15:25, parents start blocking the local area a good hour before. It's ridiculous.

The headteacher has sent out multiple letters about parking but unsurprisingly nobody cares, they can't possibly walk their child to school.

terracelane23 · 02/05/2025 17:11

This happens in a school near us too. It’s bonkers. Clearly these people have a lot of time on their hands.

mydamnfootstuckinthedoor · 02/05/2025 17:10

If you're picking up a sick child and can't get a parking space, use the staff car park - even if there are no spaces there and you have to clock someone in, they won't be leaving before the end of the school day anyway, and by the time they come in to ask you to move your car, you'll be leaving.

DinoLil · 02/05/2025 17:08

I walk my dog near a primary school. I try to avoid school chucking out time and aim to be home by 2pm, but, yes, there are parents sat in cars, doors open, on double yellow lines at 2pm. The school finishes at 3.10pm.

Whammyyammy · 02/05/2025 17:04

I see it in our village, parked up about 2.15, I think school finishes at 3.25, that's when the school clock/bell chimes.

Sad thing is you can identify the children that are walked to school and the ones driven.

Havanananana · 02/05/2025 17:04

"Yes, they sit with engines idling ..."

Stationary idling is an offence under Section 42 of the Road Traffic Act 1988. The act enforces Rule 123 of the Highway Code, that states: “You must not leave a vehicle’s engine running unnecessarily while that vehicle is stationary on a public road.” This applies even if you’re waiting for someone.

The obvious solution to this, and to the parents parking on zig-zags, double yellow lines etc., is more enforcement of the rules (otherwise there is really no point in having them).

krustykittens · 02/05/2025 17:03

We had one set of parent's at my DC's primary school whose house could actually be seen from the playground, it was so close. Yet they drove everyday and parked up on the hazard lines, engine idling, reversing into children once their own cherubs had got in the car. The school was constantly arguing with them, they didn't give a shit. They were pretty obnoxious and anti social in other areas of life as well.

Simonjt · 02/05/2025 17:02

noworklifebalance · 02/05/2025 16:44

I thought state school catchment areas were really small. If coming from work that early surely you would drive home, have a cuppa and the walk to school?

Lots are, our sons old primary had a very small catchment, rather than a size it was specific named street, the longest walk to school was maybe 8 minutes. Yet people would drive to school, the school road didn’t have parking restrictions but the adjoining roads did, the road was then turned into a school street, so now no one in catchment could park closer than their own home.

Some people were genuinely screaming in the street about it in the run up to the change, completely bonkers. One parent set up a petition for a pushchair park and access to free pushchairs as her year 2 able bodied child couldn’t possibly walk to or from school.

Happymomoftwo · 02/05/2025 16:59

I live in a street opposite a large secondary school. Without fail there are adults parked up waiting at least an hour before the end of school. Some sit there reading kindles, some listen to the radio or make loud calls using hands free. There is one ‘grandad’ who always parks up the earliest and falls asleep until the kid comes out. What a waste of life!

Gerbilboy · 02/05/2025 16:57

Engine idlers are the worst!!! Grrrrr

ChompandaGrazia · 02/05/2025 16:55

ExpressCheckout · 02/05/2025 16:23

@zagazig Are parents really parking up an hour before to get the best nearest spaces?

Yes, they do, and it's getting worse. They're a bloody nuisance near where I live, parking half on pavements, engines on, fumes spreading - it's selfish and lazy.

Most annoying is that most of them ignore the 'no parking 7-10AM' sign and even the 'no parking' signs that the school children have made themselves!

Schools and councils are missing a trick here. They need to bring in school parking permits and, with the money raised, pay someone to police the system.

Obviously the charge would need to be linked to postcode to ensure that wealthy drivers are penalised/punished proportionately.

Obviously blue badge holders would be exempt, and any money left over could be given directly to the school(s) concerned for essentials such as books etc.

Most annoying is that most of them ignore the 'no parking 7-10AM' sign and even the 'no parking' signs that the school children have made themselves!**

but that’s about other people and other people’s children. They aren’t important. Their child is special. (Spoiler alert: they are not)

tartyflette · 02/05/2025 16:55

Wahsingday · 02/05/2025 16:12

Yep. On my driveway, not just blocking it.

Bloody hell, these CFs take the whole packet of biscuits. Can you put up some penguin bollards or a lockable chain and posts across it?
What happens when you're out and return to find your drive blocked with cars already on it and you can't park? I presume the street is already blocked!
Camera phone at the ready next time?

Bonsaibaby · 02/05/2025 16:52

Mareleine · 02/05/2025 16:30

WTF?! Of course you shouldn't park on the hazard lines! They're there for a reason! You should never ever park on the hazard lines of a school, unless there's one somewhere with hours of operation (I've never seen one with hours of operation outside a school).

"Yellow zigzags without accompanying signs advise motorists not to wait or park there at any time for the safety of children and others. We can and do issue tickets for parking on them, based on causing an obstruction to other motorists or pedestrians." https://www.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/rs/road-safety/parking-outside-schools/

Edited

I obviously mean in accordance with the signage, calm down!

Christmasmorale · 02/05/2025 16:52

If the school has an carpark, they will normally be fine with a parent parking on school grounds to collect a sick or disabled child. I’ve always done so no problem.

Panda89 · 02/05/2025 16:52

I see the same at DD’s primary and it really baffles me!
We live a 5 min walk from the school so always walk, but every day I see probably 75% of children being driven in. It’s a medium sized town with loads of schools, we have 5 primary schools within 1 mile of our house so I just cannot comprehend why so many people are driving for the school run. Obviously there will be exceptions for blue badge holders and the odd person who has moved away but not changed school.
IMO it’s much quicker and a nicer start to the day to walk in. DH does pick up but again it takes 10 mins in total and he gets a nice little walk in.

samarrange · 02/05/2025 16:52

Eldermillennialmum · 02/05/2025 15:52

I had no idea people did this. Why?! I'd rather park further away and have to walk than give up an hour sitting on my car!

Because an hour on Facebook or Mumsnet in your car is not much different from an hour on Facebook or Mumsnet in your house.

(Obviously not everyone has the time for that, but cars are big. 80 of them parked up is a quarter of a mile in old money. So it doesn't take a big proportion of parents getting there early to appear to be a huge number.)

Simonjt · 02/05/2025 16:51

Groundhedgehogday · 02/05/2025 16:04

This happens outside our nearest secondary school. Parents parked up from 2pm onwards. I always wonder what jobs they do?!

Likely the majority are unemployed.

JLou08 · 02/05/2025 16:51

If the lazy parents have an hour spare to sit in the car they have time to walk.

pinotnow · 02/05/2025 16:48

I teach in a school in which the vast majority of students live nearby and could walk. Every day the car park just outside classrooms fills from around 2.15. Yes, they sit with engines idling and, in this weather, windows down and music playing, disturbing lessons. It's absolutely ridiculous.

UndermyShoeJoe · 02/05/2025 16:47

noworklifebalance · 02/05/2025 16:44

I thought state school catchment areas were really small. If coming from work that early surely you would drive home, have a cuppa and the walk to school?

Little jnr school here and my neighbour drives it’s not even quite 10 minutes walk as we live just down the lane with a footpath.

noworklifebalance · 02/05/2025 16:44

I thought state school catchment areas were really small. If coming from work that early surely you would drive home, have a cuppa and the walk to school?

frozendaisy · 02/05/2025 16:44

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 02/05/2025 16:36

One friend would drive her children to school and leave the car parked by the school all day before driving them home.

She could do this because they lived less than a mile from school, so she just walked home in the morning and back in the evening.

So why leave the car there? Because the children were too tired to walk the 10-15 minute walk home at the end of the school day, even though when they had to do it (eg car in for a service, she would carry all their bags🤣).

This is utterly insane

Joinedinhistory · 02/05/2025 16:44

HowDoYouSolveAProblemLikeMyRear · 02/05/2025 16:36

One friend would drive her children to school and leave the car parked by the school all day before driving them home.

She could do this because they lived less than a mile from school, so she just walked home in the morning and back in the evening.

So why leave the car there? Because the children were too tired to walk the 10-15 minute walk home at the end of the school day, even though when they had to do it (eg car in for a service, she would carry all their bags🤣).

So why leave the car there? Because the children were too tired to walk the 10-15 minute walk home at the end of the school day, even though when they had to do it (eg car in for a service, she would carry all their bags🤣).

What a shame!

My DC’s are older now, but our fondest memories are of walking home together.
We made friends with other families ( still my friends years later), bought ice creams, sometimes called for other shopping, played in the park and generally discussed our day as we walked.

Such great times.

IllustratedDictionaryOfTheDoldrums · 02/05/2025 16:43

I live one road up from a school. Parent parking perplexes me. Coming up to home time, my road and the school road are double parked, people on double yellows. There've been a few times when everything has been at a complete standstill, no one able to go in or out because of this.
And yet, one road up from us, there's 'one hour free' parking bays which are always free. It's around a minutes walk and avoids getting into all the little roads near the school. Hardly anyone parks there.
I don't get it at all.

TakingMyChancesWithTheRabbits · 02/05/2025 16:42

It's worse round here than it used to be, because of the "school street zone". If you drive into the road nearest the school in the 45 minutes around opening or closing time you get a ticket, so quite a few parents arrive early and park up in the afternoon.