Disgusted by school’s response to complaint about pervy teacher - Final Update

Too good looking. Because let's be honest, if the teacher had been gorgeous, OP wouldn't have been so quick to complain. The whole thing (even though I now think it's a wind up) smacks of "How dare something like him proposition someone like me."

I'm really glad of your outcome OP as I seemed to be in the minority when I backed you. For me the issue was that his inappropriate comments related back to an incident when he was interacting with you in a professional capacity. That is different from if he had not previously interacted with you or had not referenced seeing you at parents' evening. Am glad to see that common sense has prevailed. A verbal warning is a proprtionate response here.

John Simm

Tune in next week when someone parks three inches over the OP's driveway and the op spies that the driver works for Tesco, so off she marches to Tesco to raise hell at the customer service desk.

Apparently we are not allowed to use the K word on here but that is exactly what the op is.

She mustn't have much in her perfect life that she can waste so much time on this self-promotion thread! Hopefully there'll be a picture of her up in the gents' loo in the school, Avoid this one when she's out on the town!

What record would this go on?

How would it be phrased in such a way that it wouldn't get the school in to major trouble?

I can't even see how to vote, If I could it would definitely be you are being unreasonable.

"They’ve all gone very quiet now they have been proven wrong."

Are you deluded ?

I dont think they did. They just fobbed her off and she fell for it.
Either that or we're all pawns in her scheme to fill the last few days of her time.
Either way, I think it's best left here as the OP is enjoying it a little too much.

If you think this is potentially career-ending, you must agree this is not only a breach of his employment conditions but actually a pretty serious one.

How is that consistent with also believing this is a nothing?

The responses from OP, make this look like an absolute wind-up.

lots misogynistic women on this thread. Sad to see.

That’s because it’s a totally made up story for attention. This troll got you all.

Hilarious. You know that's bollocks and are definitely on the wind up now and that nobody is following your instructions regarding the vote. Everyone saying YABU just means YOU are being unreasonable.

They’ve all gone very quiet now they have been proven wrong.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 The delusion is real.

We're still all here. Still all eye rolling at you.

I do hope they use the same theme tune for the upcoming drama. In case you didn't know it was... Wonder if said teacher actually used an arab strap.

As I say, thats a point we aren't going to agree on. It can't be that professional standards/disrepute only apply in an ongoing relationship, or it would fail to apply to all sorts of scenarios where contact is episodic and perhaps never repeated (policeman, paramedic, conveyancer, could all do this with impunity. Your dentist could once you've moved practice, etc). I think employment codes of all four would catch this sort of scenario, and think that's right too.

If true it's absolutely disgusting of the school to take the word of someone when it was a he said she said matter outside of the school.

The term ‘tail between legs’ comes to mind for certain posters on here - I await your apologies with bated breath!

My tail is in exactly the same place, bless your naivety! I would love to have been a fly on the wall when the Head and the Chair of Governors talked, Thomas Becket springs to mind, Who will rid me of this troublesome priest?!

That’s what I voted too, love the hidden options OP to force the answer you want.

You must lead a very sad life OP.

Why what you gonna do?

You gonna turn up at said school to confirm that this bloke has been sacked?

Or are you just gonna have a glass of Prosecco “on ice” to “celebrate”?

Bollocks – people are voting you are BU regardless of how you skewed the poll to your own advantage!

One thing I don't think I saw in the original replies to this post is that - whilst this occurred outside of the workplace - teachers are (and should be) held to a high standard of behaviour both in and outside of the workplace. They teach our kids. It's a regulated area. As it should be. They shouldn't be behaving inappropriately outside the workplace. Not saying the guy should lose his job, but he needs reminding of that standard of expected behaviour. You can't be sexist creep to parents you've run into at a bar. Surely everyone agrees with this?
well done to the OP for taking him and the school to task.

I don't need to pick, thanks. It has the potential to be both. If the school does take her complaint about his comment – which was her original complaint after all – seriously, he'll be hauled before a disciplinary hearing. That's general school procedure. Or they could be satisfied the head's "off you fuck" speech has made her go away. My money would be on the latter if I didn't think that OP might not let it go. What if she's not happy with what the head puts in writing? She's clearly of a persistent vindictive nature.