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People visit beaches on warm days - crowds, hell

85 replies

TunaMayoP · 30/04/2025 20:12

Never understood this thing when we have warm weather, people think “ooh let’s go to the seaside”.

Roads get clogged, parking is a struggle, massive queues to buy ice cream, food and to
use what few toilets the beach has and super crowded. This is my hell.

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Eminybob · 30/04/2025 20:22

You don’t understand why people want to go to the beach when it’s sunny?

If you don’t want to, that’s fine, go when it’s lashing down if you prefer, I imagine it’s much quieter.

RabbitsRock · 30/04/2025 20:18

Lucky enough to live in Cornwall so am able to beat the crowds at certain times of the year. I actually tend not to go to the beach very much & got put off swimming last summer because of all the sewage being dumped in the sea, although I’ve been recommended a clean place to go which is very close by & beautiful too.

Endofdaya · 30/04/2025 20:15

Do you live near a beach? I did and it got crowded as you say but I knew I didn’t own the beach

CaptainFuture · 30/04/2025 20:15

Don't go then? My personal hell would be something like ibiza party boat foam party... so I don't go!

MereNoelle · 30/04/2025 20:15

Because who wants to go to the seaside in shit weather?

CatamaranViper · 30/04/2025 20:15

Yeah that sounds nothing like my local beaches

ItsCalledAConversation · 30/04/2025 20:14

Most people don’t have much choice. Annual leave of 20 days a year, about 2 of which are sunny. You takes your chances when you can. Grab life!

andtheworldrollson · 30/04/2025 20:14

Going to the wrong beach then

Jc2001 · 30/04/2025 20:13

Not my idea of fun but people obviously think it's worth the hassle for a day by the sea with the kids.

bridgetreilly · 30/04/2025 20:13

So don’t go?