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To think video may have killed the radio star but the internet killed the pub!

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SullivanCh · 29/04/2025 19:50

What made me write this is my grandparents kept a town centre pub in the 40s and 50s. My dad grew up in the pub. My Dad said that his parents - who died before I was born - used to provide Xmas dinner every year for homeless men and cater for those at the margins of society. This has got me thinking lately.

It seems to me pubs at the time - the 40s/50s - then fulfilled one of functions that the internet now fills - helping marginalized people feel included and integrated.

i started drinking in pubs in 1990 - it’s been widely written about that pub attendance and culture have diminished since this time - I’ve seen it myself with pubs I grew up with in my local area closing etc etc .

People often suggest that pub culture declined a lot following the smoking ban - this may be right but personally I think the internet was more responsible for killing pub culture. Not just to help lonely or marginalised people like I mentioned above, but the internet helps people in general interact and connect from the comfort of their own homes - where drinks and snacks are cheaper, everything’s less hassle etc etc …,

So maybe you all disagree with me but I feel the internet has a lot to do with the demise of the pub - more than the smoking ban I think. Any thoughts?

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Ddakji · 29/04/2025 20:01

SullivanCh · 29/04/2025 19:57

im talking about Cardiff and Newport South Wales!

However I’m familiar with inner south east London as my mum is from there - all her family live around

Plumstead
Abbey Wood
Thamesmead
Charlton
Lee

Well, apart from Lee I wouldn’t call most of that inner 🤣. I’m zone 2 so more central than Lee. Abbey Wood is a world away from me, and I can imagine the pub scene is very different.

TranceNation · 29/04/2025 19:59

It's mainly the price I reckon. Everyone knows you can buy a four pack in the supermarket for the price of one pint in a pub. People tend to just around to eachother's houses on a Friday/Saturday night now.

SullivanCh · 29/04/2025 19:57

Ddakji · 29/04/2025 19:53

I would argue that the Internet killed the radio star more than video, but that’s not your question…🤣

I don’t know. In my neck of the woods (inner south east London) the pubs seem to be doing a pretty roaring trade. But I know that rural pubs struggle.

Where in the country are you talking about?

im talking about Cardiff and Newport South Wales!

However I’m familiar with inner south east London as my mum is from there - all her family live around

Plumstead
Abbey Wood
Thamesmead
Charlton
Lee

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SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 29/04/2025 19:55

I think that pubs are dying out because of larger economics. People can’t afford an alcohol habit or to go out to eat every week.

Ddakji · 29/04/2025 19:53

I would argue that the Internet killed the radio star more than video, but that’s not your question…🤣

I don’t know. In my neck of the woods (inner south east London) the pubs seem to be doing a pretty roaring trade. But I know that rural pubs struggle.

Where in the country are you talking about?