Hi all😃 I’ll try to make it this as brief as possible but forgive me if I don’t manage it. A while ago my wedding ring started to get damaged and I was worried that it would fall off my hand/go missing so my husband decided to keep it somewhere safe until we would decide to get it fixed. During this time I carried on as normal and didn’t think too much into it, of course I care about my wedding ring but it just completely left my mind and we also have other things going on in our lives also financially we weren’t able to afford an exact replacement or replica without it affecting our other expenses. Now and then my husband would bring it up and one time he even said he was thinking of buying me a completely new one. Then sometime ago he told me he couldn’t find the ring anymore, I was surprised as he had supposedly kept it safe for me and I was really shocked that he’d lost it. But I didn’t let it bother me and once again carried on as normal. Then very recently, I was at the shops and thought of buying my husband some alcohol as he likes to sometimes drink it chilled. I got to the till and the cashier basically refuses to sell it to me as I apparently look underage. obviously I was low-key flattered but a bit miffed as I am certainly not underage but I didn’t have any ID on me so didn’t end up getting it in the end. When I told my husband what happened he started overreacting and went back to the shop to try and confront the cashier (who thankfully must have left or something - so there was no drama that occurred) but DH then proceeded to say that it was my fault that it happened because I didn’t have my wedding ring on and that’s why he “disrespected me”. He then started to bang on about how I haven’t had my ring on for ages (okay, granted I just totally forgot to look into getting it fixed) but I would have made arrangements but I’ve just a lot going on and it’s genuinely not been in my mind at all. So out of spite he then took his ring off so that he could “feel what I was feeling” or whatever it was he said. I got really upset and started shouting at him saying “why did you take it off out of spite?” That’s what really upset me, because at the end of the day, rings can go missing or get stolen etc so it’s not what makes a marriage, but obviously it’s still an important symbol. Was his reaction fair? Was my shouting uncalled for? I’m not a shouty person at all but he just got me so riled up!