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To think that having a mammogram carried out by a man is preferable to a long wait for an appointment.

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JudithOnHolidayAgain · 29/04/2025 08:29

I know many people who wouldn't be here now without early detection of breast cancer due to the screening programme.
I have had a few myself.
It's not something I look forward to but it's a few minutes of discomfort that could save my life so I put up with it.
Given the choice I would prefer a woman carry it out as it is quite intrusive but as there is a shortage of female staff I would be ok with a male member of staff as long as there was a chaperone and Iwas told in advance.
If they do change the rules I think there should be a choice.

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DollydaydreamTheThird · 29/04/2025 22:05

ThisWOMANWontWheesht · 29/04/2025 21:55

There are also women who would have a problem for religious reasons, as well as those other groups you mentioned. And also the “I just don’t feel comfortable with it” group.

As others have pointed out, when men start doing mammograms the NHS line will be along the lines of “You may request a female or male practitioner and we will try to fulfill this, but there are no guarantees, and your procedure may be delayed”

i.e. not much choice at all for women who don’t want their breasts hauled and manhandled by men.

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Exactly there are so many reasons for not wanting a man to do it. My initial reaction when I heard the news was I hope it doesn't happen anytime soon as mum already procrastinates as it is. She'd never go again. I'm not old enough yet but I wouldn't be comfortable with a man doing it if I'm totally honest. It is so intimate. I appreciate there are male breast surgeons and oncologists but this horrible bit should be done by a woman I think. Someone who can appreciate how it feels and the vulnerability you experience in that situation.

WaryCrow · 29/04/2025 22:03

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 21:26

Males tend not to mind so much ime.

Males are not at risk from women. It's also quite possible that male patients quite like the attention from women as staff, although that is a bucket of worms that has yet to be opened. Sexual harassment of women staff in the NHS is rife.

ThisWOMANWontWheesht · 29/04/2025 21:55

DollydaydreamTheThird · 29/04/2025 21:04

I don't think a lot of you are being nice about this. Plenty of women will not go if a man is doing it, my mum included who I already have to strong arm to go to the bloody things! You're not thinking about survivors of SA, people with extreme body issues and low self esteem. It's fine to bring this in with the caveat that you can request a woman if you aren't comfortable with a man doing it. A lot of people struggle to go as it is.

There are also women who would have a problem for religious reasons, as well as those other groups you mentioned. And also the “I just don’t feel comfortable with it” group.

As others have pointed out, when men start doing mammograms the NHS line will be along the lines of “You may request a female or male practitioner and we will try to fulfill this, but there are no guarantees, and your procedure may be delayed”

i.e. not much choice at all for women who don’t want their breasts hauled and manhandled by men.

BundleBoogie · 29/04/2025 21:54

I find it sad how many women are keen to give up their comfort and potentially safety so easily. So many are effectively saying, ‘I wouldn’t choose a man but I will suffer the discomfort. But why?

We need to question WHY there is a shortage of mammographers?

And why, if conditions are preventing recruitment, are we assuming that the solution is to recruit men instead of improving conditions?

What sort of man might be happy to put up with poor work conditions in order to look at and handle women’s breasts all day?

Do you know how many sexual assaults and rapes are carried out in hospitals every year BY MALE STAFF?

There was a recruitment drive to get more men into midwifery a while ago. Several of those men now have convictions for sexual assault or possessing images of CSA.

Why do we want to give more men privileged access to women when vulnerable?

Lots of women are saying that they wouldn’t have a mammogram if a man did it. Surely we shouldn’t be doing things that reduces the number of women screened? Or do you think it’s just our tough luck if we die?

Abracadabra12345 · 29/04/2025 21:39

HesDeadBenYouCanStopNow · 29/04/2025 14:59

It would be interesting to poll the number of people that object to males undertaking their mammograms and whether they are survivors of sexual assault. The ‘can’t understand the drama’ crew may be a lucky group that haven’t suffered abuse, humiliation and degradation from males. In which case I’m happy for you, but please don’t describe my views as drama,

Or how many “ can’t understand the drama” crew have actually experienced a mammogram

mumda · 29/04/2025 21:39

The answer is more women radiographers.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 29/04/2025 21:37

Abracadabra12345 · 29/04/2025 21:33

Thank you! I’ve had smear tests and such examinations done by men and while it’s not fun, it’s only a spatula going inside briefly. Mammograms are 100% different and far more intimate - yes, really. Your breasts are held and pulled around and manipulated and like another pp upthread, I found it quite shocking and painful. The thought of a male doing this is terrible. Fgs is no female space ours? That’s how I feel about it

Sorry… but your post did make me giggle. Speculum I’m guessing is what you meant instead of spatula

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 21:37

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 29/04/2025 21:33

They are not just just bundling breasts into a vice like machine all day long.

Way to go describing a highly trained radiographer positioning the anatomy to capture the optimum imaging and potentially save your life in doing so.

It is how the procedure is carried out, I'm not insulting the staff.

mumda · 29/04/2025 21:34

Picklechicken · 29/04/2025 08:44

Almost every single post has said there should be a choice, that IS being kind.

A choice is not kind. It's forcing people to accept a man. Because we have been conditioned to be kind you can't see a choice is not a choice in these circumstances.

It's not a real choice.

Abracadabra12345 · 29/04/2025 21:33

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 10:20

Yes please come back and comment when you've had someone squeeze and manipulate your breasts painfully for 10mins. There is not a chance men should be doing this highly hands on test.

Is this a serious proposal?

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Thank you! I’ve had smear tests and such examinations done by men and while it’s not fun, it’s only a spatula going inside briefly. Mammograms are 100% different and far more intimate - yes, really. Your breasts are held and pulled around and manipulated and like another pp upthread, I found it quite shocking and painful. The thought of a male doing this is terrible. Fgs is no female space ours? That’s how I feel about it

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 29/04/2025 21:33

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 21:12

'You could say the same about male gynaecologists surely?'

No. Male gynae's job covers a massive range from tests to treatment and different surgery. They are not just just bundling breasts into a vice like machine all day long.

They are not just just bundling breasts into a vice like machine all day long.

Way to go describing a highly trained radiographer positioning the anatomy to capture the optimum imaging and potentially save your life in doing so.

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 29/04/2025 21:28

FOJN · 29/04/2025 20:37

What do people mean when they say being seen earlier will reduce their risk of dying?
Why do people willingly submit themselves to routine screening without having the faintest idea about its purpose and limits?

Do posters realise that a mammogram is not a diagnostic test for cancer? It's a routine screening procedure which detects changes in breast tissue which could POTENTIALLY be cancer.

Changes in breast tissue can occur for reasons that are not cancer. It's more effective than breast self examination because it can detect changes before a lump is palpable, early detection means early treatment. In my area you are invited for screening once every 3 years, they are pretty bloody efficient, I had my first mammogram when I was 49 and my second at 52. If changes are detected you will be referred to clinic for further investigation the same as if you found a breast lump at home.

If you detect a lump between mammograms your GP will refer you to a breast lump clinic where you will be examined, have an ultrasound and a fine needle aspiration. The cells from the FNA will be analysed whilst you are in clinic and you will be given results and information about any follow up on the day. This should take place within 2 weeks of your visit to the GP.

Male radiographers have not previously done mammograms so will need training. Why choose to train men instead of women when 70% of radiographers are female?

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Not my experience. The mammogram for which l had a recall showed an area of tissue which had changed when compared to the previous screening. The consultant radiographer did the biopsies and inserted the wire marker under local anaesthetic. Then she asked if l wanted her opinion on what the change was. I did. She told me she was certain that what she was looking at was a large, invasive lobular cancer. She was spot on.

My mammogram was delayed for just shy of ten weeks because of staffing problems. Cancelled twice in that time. I now know that had my cancer been more aggressive or faster growing, I would almost certainly have received a later stage diagnosis, necessitating more aggressive treatment and impacting survival time.

And not all cancers can be detected by the patient. Lobular cancer doesn’t present with lumps - there was nothing to indicate it was even there until the mammogram detected it. Routine screening it may be, but there is no doubt that it saves lives.

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 21:26

Itsjustgonenoonhalfpastmonsoon · 29/04/2025 21:18

My dad recently had a very intimate examination carried out by a female consultant urologist. He didn’t have the opportunity to object and request a male doctor.

Males tend not to mind so much ime.

Itsjustgonenoonhalfpastmonsoon · 29/04/2025 21:18

My dad recently had a very intimate examination carried out by a female consultant urologist. He didn’t have the opportunity to object and request a male doctor.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 29/04/2025 21:14

Flakeypastry · 29/04/2025 21:04

Sorry bit confused about what you are asking. Are you proposing that female radiographers would not be allowed to work in other imaging modalities if vacancies existed in the female only mammography modality? If so then no, I wouldn’t support this. You can’t tell people where they have to work- and many areas of radiography have high vacancy rates- it would also be terrible to receive a mammogram from a radiographer that hated their job and was only there because they had no choice.

Yup, that’s what I was asking.

FTR, I agree with you and it came from the question why would men want to specialize in mammography vs. other areas. I was thinking to myself ‘well there could be a lot of reasons’ (including maybe their local hospital only has openings in mammography) which then opened up the question in my mind.

More of a thought exercise on my part vs a real suggestion.

Gloriia · 29/04/2025 21:12

'You could say the same about male gynaecologists surely?'

No. Male gynae's job covers a massive range from tests to treatment and different surgery. They are not just just bundling breasts into a vice like machine all day long.

Lovelysausagedogscrumpy · 29/04/2025 21:08

Soontobe60 · 29/04/2025 19:42

The point is, women are NOT having late diagnoses of breast cancer due to a lack of female radiographers.
I would like to see the statistics on how many women are not having mammograms within the NHS timescales because theres a shortage of staff, plus how many women do have their mammograms within the NHS timescales and are diagnosed with cancer.
The whole - “men should be trained up because theres not enough radiographers to carry out screening” is a complete red herring.

I had a mammogram cancelled twice because of staffing issues. Delay in total was ten weeks. Subsequently diagnosed with breast cancer.

DollydaydreamTheThird · 29/04/2025 21:04

Fr33asaB1rd · 29/04/2025 08:39

Because breast cancer kills and many women who could have been saved by earlier detection would take a man doing it over dying in a heart beat.

I don't think a lot of you are being nice about this. Plenty of women will not go if a man is doing it, my mum included who I already have to strong arm to go to the bloody things! You're not thinking about survivors of SA, people with extreme body issues and low self esteem. It's fine to bring this in with the caveat that you can request a woman if you aren't comfortable with a man doing it. A lot of people struggle to go as it is.

Flakeypastry · 29/04/2025 21:04

saltinesandcoffeecups · 29/04/2025 20:49

So here’s a question would you (global you… or anyone who wants to answer) support rules that would not allow women to apply for or be in non mammogram radiography roles if there are open positions that need to be filled? That would solve the vacancies.

This comes from @BobbleHatsRule question but looking for any responses really.

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Sorry bit confused about what you are asking. Are you proposing that female radiographers would not be allowed to work in other imaging modalities if vacancies existed in the female only mammography modality? If so then no, I wouldn’t support this. You can’t tell people where they have to work- and many areas of radiography have high vacancy rates- it would also be terrible to receive a mammogram from a radiographer that hated their job and was only there because they had no choice.

NorthWestToWest · 29/04/2025 21:01

terracelane23 · 29/04/2025 20:54

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

Have you had a mammogram?

Can you appreciate that male doctors have chaperones for reason? To protect them from accusations and you from abuse.

NorthWestToWest · 29/04/2025 20:58

BobbleHatsRule · 29/04/2025 20:44

There are more female radiographers than male.

To perform mammos you choose to specialise in this.

I'd question why any male radiographer would choose mammos over MRI, ultrasound, CT, nuclear medicine etc etc

The uptake of breast screening is low. This would not help one jot

You could say the same about male gynaecologists surely?

The difference is that gynaecologists or male drs have to offer you a chaperone. Radiographers don't so that needs to change if it's a man.

There is a lot of touching with mammograms.

I have the impression that many posters here are either not over 50 (age mammograms are started) or have not had a mammogram for other reasons so don't appreciate what it's like.

Boobs are 'manhandled' and placed in the machine with a lot of lifting and positioning of them.

terracelane23 · 29/04/2025 20:54

It wouldn’t bother me at all.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 29/04/2025 20:49

So here’s a question would you (global you… or anyone who wants to answer) support rules that would not allow women to apply for or be in non mammogram radiography roles if there are open positions that need to be filled? That would solve the vacancies.

This comes from @BobbleHatsRule question but looking for any responses really.

BobbleHatsRule · 29/04/2025 20:44

There are more female radiographers than male.

To perform mammos you choose to specialise in this.

I'd question why any male radiographer would choose mammos over MRI, ultrasound, CT, nuclear medicine etc etc

The uptake of breast screening is low. This would not help one jot

C8H10N4O2 · 29/04/2025 20:44

Shwish · 29/04/2025 18:16

But why should your opinion mean other women have to wait longer and potentially get their cancer picked up at a later stage if they're happy to be seen by man?

I haven’t expressed my own preference anywhere in my post. I was pointing out that the PP was being very dismissive of women describing good and clear reasons for finding mammograms more intimate and potentially embarrassing/uncomfortable than smear tests.

I’ve also pointed out that there is no choice for women if male mammographers enter the service. As other PP have pointed out from their own workplaces - you can request a particular sex of HCP but you have no right to it. The nearest women actually get to a choice is “take it or leave it”.

Bearing in mind that male mammographers will also need a chaperone (although the society notably makes no mention of this provision) there will be additional costs as well as reductions in screening update. How about using that to offer female radiographers a hot skills bonus in this area to attract more staff in areas of shortage?

As @Soontobe60 says - lets see the data and the actual evidence on take up, reasons for non attendance, capacity in different areas and if there is a shortage of female radiographers lets look at expanding the female capacity first. Just because a union for a group of workers says “do this” doesn’t make them automatically correct.

The NHS has generally provided a second class service to women, especially minority and disadvantaged women. How about instead of blaming women wanting intimate and intrusive screening done by women you point the ammunition at the organisations charged with delivering the service to find ways to meet screening targets without forcing women to accept men in this area or opt out?