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To ask how to get DD off an escort agency?

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CKapron · 28/04/2025 18:41

Does anyone know how to fix this? DD(22) is being bombarded with phonecalls and WA messages from men asking what her rate is and if she's still working.
One of them said he'd found her number on a website so she googled her own number and found it on an escort agency. We're assuming it's a typo 😕 (she isn't an escort, she has a job).
She doesn't want to change her number, what else can she do?

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OctopusFriend · 28/04/2025 19:35

CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair · 28/04/2025 18:58

The number of people who come on here moaning about situations where they’re not prepared to do the most basic thing to change baffles me.

Oh dear lord, I was just thinking the same. It's like a wet lettuce pandemic.

Hufflemuff · 28/04/2025 19:34

Fucking Nora... how does she think this will magically resolve itself? She doesn't want to change her number, doesn't want to contact the agency - is wishing it away going to work?

EnjoythemoneyJane · 28/04/2025 19:30

Well if she won’t contact the agency, how the heck else does she think she’ll be able to get it taken down?!

Tell her to do the ridiculously obvious thing, OP - or if she’s shy or anxious, do it for her.

Justfreedom · 28/04/2025 19:23

Change her phone number.

Ihateboris · 28/04/2025 19:09

Why doesn't she want to contact the agency? Why does she think it would cause trouble for her? Surely they'd be grateful you got in touch as it must be affecting their business?

CultureAlienationBoredomandDespair · 28/04/2025 18:58

The number of people who come on here moaning about situations where they’re not prepared to do the most basic thing to change baffles me.

PinotDragon86 · 28/04/2025 18:56

Are you sure someone hasn't done it maliciously? Because if that's the case I'm pretty sure that's illegal. If its a genuine mistake then contact the agency and speak to them about the typo and have the number removed.
I know you said she doesn't want to change numbers but I would seriously reconsider as god knows how many people have now got access to her personal number....

purplecorkheart · 28/04/2025 18:52

Contact the site and ask them to remove her number. Mention GDPR.

Cloudyvibes · 28/04/2025 18:52

CKapron · 28/04/2025 18:48

She hasn't - that was my first instinct but she seems to think it will cause trouble for her. My view is there's some girl wondering why she isn't getting any work and will be glad to know why!

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cant see how it would cause trouble for her? She needs to contact them or change her number.

PonyPatter44 · 28/04/2025 18:51

CKapron · 28/04/2025 18:48

She hasn't - that was my first instinct but she seems to think it will cause trouble for her. My view is there's some girl wondering why she isn't getting any work and will be glad to know why!

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How could it cause trouble for her? They've just made a mistake on their website, she tells them to remove her number they do it. Noone is in trouble!

ACynicalDad · 28/04/2025 18:49

I'd contact them as fast as you can so it doesn't end up elsewhere.

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CKapron · 28/04/2025 18:48

Cloudyvibes · 28/04/2025 18:43

I take it you have contacted the agency to take the number down?

She hasn't - that was my first instinct but she seems to think it will cause trouble for her. My view is there's some girl wondering why she isn't getting any work and will be glad to know why!

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Cloudyvibes · 28/04/2025 18:43

I take it you have contacted the agency to take the number down?