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Lovely smelling homes

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ToysRus56 · 26/04/2025 23:38

How do some homes smell so nice! Sort of across between clean laundry and freshly baked cakes?! I hate anything scented so don't like buying diffusers etc. We do washing several times a week and our home never smells like this!

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AliceMcK · 28/04/2025 22:43

I would agree this is where you are going wrong.

I grew up in an home with 2 parents smoking and a cat but it never smelt, windows were opened as soon as my DF woke up (3/4am). Back bedroom windows left open all day. Every Sunday my DF would have all the curtains washed and rehung before anyone woke up, cushion and seat covers washed, carpet was hoovered twice a day, cat only allowed on certain furniture. Kitchen was scrubbed clean every night, we were a fry up family and had the old chip pan on the go most nights but all cooking was with the windows open and everything cleaned with hot soapy water.

I’ve carried on some of these habits, mainly open windows as much as possible. I very rarely close certain windows in the house and our back door is open most of the time even in winter. Keep house clean. We have a dog and I worried we’d become a dog smelling house but we haven’t. We keep her bed and blankets clean. The area I fall down on is keeping on top of keeping coats/bags clean, there is also always a collection of muddy shoes by the back door but no one has really smelly feet so I don’t worry too much about that.

TicTac80 · 28/04/2025 22:36

@Leafy3....check this out...
www.mobilezerowasteshop.co.uk/blog/diy-post-poo-drops

Oatflat24 · 28/04/2025 22:35

My DH gets really annoyed about having windows open. I'll have to show him this thread. Even in summer he doesn't like doors and windows open!!

TicTac80 · 28/04/2025 22:34

@Leafy3 this is a great idea! I'm going to google and see if there's any "recipes"

Leafy3 · 28/04/2025 22:26

@TicTac80 I'm thinking about making my own loo drops. They're just essential oils! Easy enough to pair lemongrass and lime (hello purdy & figg).

Just working out which is the best carrier oil to use because I'm wary about clogging pipes. I also want to check if any of the aromatherapy essential oils are likely to react badly with bleach. If anyone knows please say!

TicTac80 · 28/04/2025 22:16

This thread gave me the reminder/kick up the bum that it's actually time to sort curtains, sofa covers, throws etc, particularly now that weather is getting better :) Quilt washing is also underway. Laundry pile is mountainous, but I'll work my way through it. I wish I had a larger place...with a massive laundrette style washing machine and dryer!

Talking of home fragrances....does anyone know of any (reed diffuser or maybe oil burner) ones that are ok for cats? I don't really use anything as I don't want the cats affected but it is nice to have something like that in use every so often. Also...I checked out the Aesop toilet fragrance stuff....it's ££!! Does anyone have a good alternative? I know Purdy and Fig do one.

Thinking on stinky houses...in my case, it's less the cats (unless they chuck up hairballs or bring in lovely things) and more the teenage boy (who actually showers daily and is pretty fastidious about personal hygiene, but weirdly his room still reeks, despite windows being open etc).

Doggymummar · 28/04/2025 22:16

I shampooed the carpets sofa and curtains this weekend and it smells great. Mattresses are for it this weekend.

August1980 · 28/04/2025 21:59

We have a clean house (everyone says so). I have a lab and a baby and do the housework myself. Dog beds, towel, toys, rugs washed weekly. Floors hooved and wiped daily (with the pet friendly flash) I open windows first thing - everyday. I also take out recycling and rubbish every night. Clean the kitchen and put the dishwasher on as we set off to bed.
in the bedrooms (3 guests ones) and the main living room - I am impartial to Chloe jade scents.
use the white company diffusers and hand wash and hand cream in the bathrooms - towels and bath mats washed weekly.
i do a ‘deep clean’ on one room a week. To stay on top on cob webs, dust, wiping the skirting, radiators etc.
love a clean home!

ShockedandStunnedRepeatedly · 28/04/2025 21:52

Do not just open the windows a crack and leave them all day. That doesn’t air the house and wastes heat.

no - what you must do is open a back and a front door or window at the same time and let the air blow through for about 5-7 mins (shorter if it’s windy!)

then close it all up again (if you need to conserve heat)

Fourpawsblack · 28/04/2025 21:49

Notellinganyone · 28/04/2025 18:05

You mop the floors every day!

We mop daily too. The curse of a stinky dog!

Cel77 · 28/04/2025 21:46

I'm definitely led by my nose too! I spend too much money on St Eval candles, Norfolk Natural room sprays and my essential oils diffuser (Neals Yard Remedies). I'm as skint as they come but I love my house to smell nice. It really affects my mood. I open windows and doors a lot; even in winter. Cleaning hard floors with a lovely smelling cleaner seems to work well too.

I've even tried to let lemon ,orange peel and cinnamon simmer in a pot of boiling water to scent the air during Christmas time.

I can't stand the cold curry or fish smells the morning after the dinner the night before.

Donsyb · 28/04/2025 21:27

Good ventilation, clean house, lack of carpets, non smoking, clean soft furnishings.

Terrible1s · 28/04/2025 20:54

bibliotek · 27/04/2025 01:52

I really wish there was an upmarket plug in diffuser which diffused essential oil aromas. I find the water/steam diffusers draw too much attention and the aroma doesn’t persist.

The essence vault

Ilovecleaning · 28/04/2025 19:38

ToysRus56 · 27/04/2025 07:14

Ive woken up to this hive of absolute gems!! We never purposefully open our windows so this will definitely help. I feel I clean all the time but I don't tend to clean rugs that sort of thing...I did once buy a reed defuser but it was just horrible - it was a pretty nice one which I hid in a corner in the hall but that precise corner ended up smelling like a teenage boy about to go on a date and had just discovered deodorant. Not exactly subtle. Interesting, would never occur to me to wash coats or cushions covers. We went into a friend's home yesterday and it just smelt wonderful. I even peaked to see if I could see what washing detergent they were using 😂 I don't think our home smells bad, just not like that

I sympathise. When I was much younger I wouldn’t even think about washing cushion covers but I do now. 2 tips: remove cushion covers and wash in machine. While they are washing peg the cushion inners on the washing line in the sun for a few hours.
I buy M& S Clothes Freshening Mist. Wonderful! Spray on towels, cushions, bedding when they are nearly dry on the line. Good luck 😉

Ilovecleaning · 28/04/2025 19:31

HiRen · 27/04/2025 03:09

Clean everything: carpets, curtains, sofas, cushions, bedding. Everything washed regularly and replaced when necessary. Housework kept on top of. Laundry not piling up. Cooking smells banished. Buns emptied. And yes windows open as much as possible.

I agree. Buying nice smells won’t cover up lack of deep cleaning and regularly washing cushion covers, throws, towels and dishcloths. Plus washing roasting pans and grill pans.
Unfortunately , my DS and partner ( + 2 under 5s) don’t do this so their house often smells funky - they have loads of cushions and throws but I honestly think they never wash them. I daren’t say anything of course lol 😀

CoffeeCantata · 28/04/2025 18:16

I agree with lots of pps here. The key things are:

lots of ventilation/fresh air - even in winter
clean textiles
general hygienic habits
no pets
minimise strong cooking smells (eg we only have things like steak on a BBQ or when we go out - I don't think you can fry meat etc or make chips frequently and not have the smell permeate the house)
flowers around the house

You have to compromise a bit on personal freedom to have a non-smelly house!

DilemmaDelilah · 28/04/2025 18:09

I can't bear air fresheners, reed diffusers, scented candles etc, but my grandson says he loves the smell of our house. I put it down to clean clothes- we use lightly scented laundry detergent and no fabric softeners or fragrances, we wash our sofa throws and cushion covers frequently, I open our windows to freshen the air, neither of us use very strong perfumes/aftershaves or deodorants, but we do use them lightly. I also try to have scented plants in the garden, and I make my own bath salts with essential oils.

Notellinganyone · 28/04/2025 18:05

faerietales · 27/04/2025 10:41

I've been told a few times our home smells really nice.

We open the windows and air the house for at least an hour a day, often 24-7 in the warmer months. We have two open now, for example.
I vacuum and mop the floors daily.
We have blankets on our sofas that are washed at least once a week.
We have a wax burner and burn scented soy melts constantly when we're at home and awake.
Beds are changed every week with fresh linen.
No damp clothes lying about - we either line-dry or use the tumble dryer.
We don't use fabric conditioner - just supermarket own brand non-bio washing liquid.
Toilet is cleaned twice a day and we have nice-scented cleaning sprays that we use in the bathroom and kitchen everyday.

We have three cats and a dog, but no DC. Litter trays are emptied regularly and no pet food is left lying around. All the dirty dog towels and bedding etc. are washed regularly so nothing is left sat around.

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You mop the floors every day!

Barbarasmum · 28/04/2025 17:43

Yes to - you can always smell when a dog is resident and open the windows!

I've always hated air fresheners but got a free reed diffuser when ordering perfume from Gallivant. It's 'East end boys, West End girls' and despite the terrible name is exactly how I want my house to smell.

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 28/04/2025 14:38

lunalovegood25 · 27/04/2025 01:27

Same here. I have a few of those diffusers
If I give people a card or present they always comment how nice it smells
I also burn wax melts which I know some people hate, and I have windows open most of the day

wash coats, throws, cushion covers often to get rid of any cooking smells (open plan)
Hoover and clean regularly
method rhubarb floor cleaner

Method Rhubarb anything reminds me of lockdown. It was the only thing left in the supermarket...

ScribblingPixie · 28/04/2025 13:45

When I'm cleaning I wipe surfaces with a damp cloth with a couple of drops of essential oil dripped on it.

Oakmilkwanker · 28/04/2025 12:55

Tallow and ash washing liquids and fabric sprays are amazing 😍

spiderlight · 28/04/2025 12:18

I had a loo-cleaning revelation a few months back and started giving ours a good spray with Simple Solution every few days. It's for cleaning up dog wee and it has enzymes specifically to break down urine, as well as being a disinfectant. Total game-changer for a lovely clean-smelling bathroom!

Applesonthelawn · 28/04/2025 11:39

I don't dust, I wash down everything with hot water and fairy liquid and polish dry. Polish smells pretty horrible and just builds up. I think that makes a big difference. Windows, tops of wardrobes, inside wardrobes, skirting boards, doors and handles. Massive fan of hot soapy water.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 28/04/2025 11:21

Airing your home, even in Winter. When I do the weekly clean, I open all windows throughout the whole house and leave them open for at least half hour-all morning (weather dependent). I give everywhere a good spray of air freshener as well during this airing.

We don’t have pets, but my Mum does, she’s always airing her home and I think this really helps (hers doesn’t smell with the pets).

Also washing throws/bedding/curtains and wiping any spills round ovens, bins, etc.