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Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - you have blood on your hands

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Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:14

Am I being unreasonable to say that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - the Duke of York and member of the Royal Family has blood on his hands following the tragic suicide of Virginia Giuffre?

Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has faced zero consequences for his role in Virginia Giuffre‘s sexual abuse and trafficking because he’s rich and his powerful mummy paid off the victim and the British police failed to pursue charges against him. To be clear, while the age of consent in the UK is 17 years old this does not apply to trafficking victims and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has never faced criminal charges.

He probably thinks he’s got away with it now she’s gone.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14649791/Virginia-Giuffre-suicide-perth-mansion.html

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lizzyBennet08 · 26/04/2025 22:42

Honestly the poor woman was absolutley trafficked by Epstein and maxwell and pimped out to their friends among whom was Andrew.
what’s less clear is if they a) knew she was being trafficked orb) thought she was a groupie who was dying to sleep with a celebrity or royal.
Trying to lay the sole blame at just one or the these friends door simply because you dislike the royals is quite insulting to her and her family to be honest.
she clearly had struggled massively in recent years poor woman.

MethusalahsMum · 26/04/2025 22:39

Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:24

The age of consent is not aged 16 when a person is trafficked for sex.

I swear, the Firm must be paying for people to spread disinformation.

She was sex trafficked. She was under the age of 18 when she was trafficked so it was rape. He never faced charges.

IIRC the sex trafficking offence was not law at that time, so PA didn't break the law & the events cannot be back dated to be criminal. This applies across the board not as a get out for the few.

That he's sleazy, arrogant & many other unpleasant attributes is a given. His reputation is shot & he is rapidly irrelevant.

The case brought was a civil case & as often happens was settled out of court.

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 22:39

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 22:29

FFS. You are having a go at everyone on this thread about not being factual and yet you are saying this woman who was trafficked and a victim of sexual abuse probably slept with hundreds of men. Where are your facts for this,?

You are appalling

In fact, it wasn't even 'probably'. It was 'must have ' slept with hundreds of men.

I have never said this before on mumsnet, but you should be deeply ashamed of that comment.
I cannot believe what I have just read. A victim of suicide only yesterday - after sexual abuse and trafficking torn apart like this.
I am shocked

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 22:33

jamanbutter · 26/04/2025 22:31

He has a condition which means he cannot sweat. So he never met her.
🤐

And he was at Pizza Express 🤫

jamanbutter · 26/04/2025 22:31

He has a condition which means he cannot sweat. So he never met her.
🤐

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 22:29

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 19:57

I think that's a bit of an over-reaction. She must have slept with hundreds of men. I don't know why a single one is supposed to shoulder the blame!

FFS. You are having a go at everyone on this thread about not being factual and yet you are saying this woman who was trafficked and a victim of sexual abuse probably slept with hundreds of men. Where are your facts for this,?

You are appalling

Extiainoiapeial · 26/04/2025 22:25

I don't need you to instruct me on what I should read. I can decide that all by myself.

Maybe read some of those testimonies then

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 22:09

I don't think the RF would never have allowed Andrew to enter a witness box.

Not a hope. The Queen had a sudden flash of memory when Paul Burrell was about to take the stand in his theft trial to stop any embarrassing skeletons coming out. There was no way they'd let Andrew anywhere near, especially after proving himself as a total liability during the NN interview.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 26/04/2025 22:01

I have never seen any evidence that what she alleged was true

If Virginia was telling the truth I expect that's what a court case might have shown, @CantStopMoving, but she chose to take a payout instead, I don't think the RF would never have allowed Andrew to enter a witness box, and now we'll never know either way

Gymnopedie · 26/04/2025 21:39

I'm not for one minute suggesting there is anything dodgy about VG's death. But I bet there are quite a few rich, powerful and famous men sleeping easier tonight knowing that it's not going to be them next in the spotlight.

sofiamofia · 26/04/2025 21:29

they are very common, including employment law cases which are regularly settled with no liability accepted

So employment settlements where the complainant never actually worked for the company are common? Because Andrew maintained he never met VG.

But apologists don't care that he lied, they care about the "facts". Do you ever ask yourself if you have all the facts? The Andrew apologists who are far more intelligent than us and understand that Andrew and the head of state settled the case because they didn't want other information coming out. What was that other information? Presumably it would be very damaging, hence the settlement.

As for the people that say no crime was committed because VG was over the age of consent, do you understand consent? Do you know that a man is not allowed to have sex with any woman he likes as long as she's over the age of consent. She must consent to the sex, trafficked women cannot do that.

And while Andrew is not the only person to have harmed VG, he absolutely had the power to save her and other girls harmed by Epstein but he didn't do a thing. Imagine if he had used his power to help those girls.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 21:20

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:29

3rd I think after Chas and Willy.

Did she ever say she was after a big payout? I know she accepted one but she was also prepared to go to court.

I think the photo faking would have a lot more credit to it now with the rise of AI and whatnot but in 2001 when even the internet was so basic? Not that it matters as we all know Andy was at Pizza Express anyway!

Forgot that William hadn't been born then.

A payout would always have been on the cards. She said she was going to take it all the way but then didn't.

Futurehappiness · 26/04/2025 21:13

I don't know for sure any more than anyone else whether the photo is fake; but I note that the main people suggesting this are the others in the picture, ie PA and Maxwell. And they kind of would. Others are convinced it is genuine.

What still makes me angry is that at the time Buckingham Palace denied the allegations against PA. In their words: 'It is emphatically denied that the Duke of York had any form of sexual contact or relationship with Virginia Roberts. Any claim to the contrary is false and without foundation.'

So the representative of our Head of State effectively called VG - a trafficking victim - a liar in a public statement, presumably on the basis merely that PA said the accusations were untrue (because if they had unequivocal evidence of his innocence other than 'Pizza Express' and 'I don't sweat' they would have produced it). And this in the context of a lamentable conviction rate for sexual offences in this country where most offenders go unpunished.

I think that it is this more than anything, which has caused me to lose all respect for and faith in the Monarchy.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:29

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:24

He was a much bigger player back then! He was 2nd in line to the throne if I remember correctly!

VG was after a big payout so it's not beyond the bounds of reason for the photo not to be genuine? I'm not saying it's not. I am saying I don't know.

3rd I think after Chas and Willy.

Did she ever say she was after a big payout? I know she accepted one but she was also prepared to go to court.

I think the photo faking would have a lot more credit to it now with the rise of AI and whatnot but in 2001 when even the internet was so basic? Not that it matters as we all know Andy was at Pizza Express anyway!

LemonFinger · 26/04/2025 20:27

2dogsandabudgie · 26/04/2025 18:38

Her family have made a statement saying it was suicide.

If so then it could have been triggered by any number of things. That doesn't mean what Prince Andrew did was not disgusting of course. Vile, vile man. I'm glad it's not him on the throne.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:24

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:21

But who'd have something to gain by going to presumably a lot of trouble back then to Photoshop PA into a picture. He wasn't exactly a major VIP even in his own family.
Not being goady btw, just trying to make it make sense.

He was a much bigger player back then! He was 2nd in line to the throne if I remember correctly!

VG was after a big payout so it's not beyond the bounds of reason for the photo not to be genuine? I'm not saying it's not. I am saying I don't know.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:22

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:19

Believe me I do NOT view it as dismissive. It read to me that you didn't view it as someone having their breasts groped by PA as a big deal because it happened all the time.

Apologies if that's not the case.

Edited

I was setting the context. Of course it's not the case. Do you think I was happy at 16/17 (and from a sheltered background) for sleazy older married men with children decided to help themselves to mine?

It was every kind of wrong but it happened more than some people might imagine. I was subjected to it in my Saturday job in a shop. I was trying to make the point that the police would be unlikely to act on an allegation of this nature.

CantStopMoving · 26/04/2025 20:21

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:09

I suppose it was to 'prove' that Andrew met Virginia, when he said that he had never met her.

There is doubt over whether it's genuine, and in any case, as you've rightly said, it wasn't evidence of anything else.

He said he couldn’t remember meeting her. Not the same as never meeting her. He meets tonnes of people and we have zero context as to how the photo was taken. I have no idea. I don’t know how anyone else does.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:21

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:19

I don't have one. All I know is that doubt has been cast on its validity. I simply don't know whether it is real or not. Do you?

Someone with something to gain might very well fake a photo, but I have no idea. I don't think it's a 'gotcha' either way.

But who'd have something to gain by going to presumably a lot of trouble back then to Photoshop PA into a picture. He wasn't exactly a major VIP even in his own family.
Not being goady btw, just trying to make it make sense.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:19

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:15

@mainecooncatonahottinroof We don't know whether the photo was faked.
What's your problem with that? Or do you just want to not let facts get in the way of a good story?

My problem (and I use that word loosely) is that the last photo I can remember being faked was the Loch Ness monster one. It's certainly not a common occurrence.

What's your issue with believing it's real? As you've already established I'm not very bright so please don't use any long words!

Edited

I don't have one. All I know is that doubt has been cast on its validity. I simply don't know whether it is real or not. Do you?

Someone with something to gain might very well fake a photo, but I have no idea. I don't think it's a 'gotcha' either way.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:19

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:17

I don't know who is telling the truth or who is telling lies but I don't think either party is a particularly credible witness.

I don't know how you term my abuse as "dismissive" and you are supportive of someone else's allegations. Is the abuse I suffered less? Thanks for that.

Believe me I do NOT view it as dismissive. It read to me that you didn't view it as someone having their breasts groped by PA as a big deal because it happened all the time.

Apologies if that's not the case.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:17

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:10

I don't have one, I'm not convinced either side is fully telling the truth but there is far to much murkyness swirling around for me to say there's not a grain of truth in there somewhere and PA has really not helped his own cause on that front.

You said VG was the only accuser, I've found another one but it's still not enough so I think we have our answer. And as for the dismissive "well everyone was being groped years ago. It was just the norm". Women deserved better then and now and particularly from a member of the ruling class.

I don't know who is telling the truth or who is telling lies but I don't think either party is a particularly credible witness.

I don't know how you term my abuse as "dismissive" and you are supportive of someone else's allegations. Is the abuse I suffered less? Thanks for that.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:15

@mainecooncatonahottinroof We don't know whether the photo was faked.
What's your problem with that? Or do you just want to not let facts get in the way of a good story?

My problem (and I use that word loosely) is that the last photo I can remember being faked was the Loch Ness monster one. It's certainly not a common occurrence.

What's your issue with believing it's real? As you've already established I'm not very bright so please don't use any long words!

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 26/04/2025 20:13

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 26/04/2025 20:08

We don't know whether the photo was faked.

What's your problem with that? Or do you just want to not let facts get in the way of a good story?

I am neither a "cheerleader" nor am I "tearing into this woman"!!

If you think so, point these out to me?

The last point refers to Victoria Hervey, I refuse to call her a lady who bangs on about doctored photos and is gleeful about the news of VGs death.

saraclara · 26/04/2025 20:12

KenAdams · 26/04/2025 07:17

What is the correct number of years you should take to get over being trafficked and raped exactly?

To be strictly accurate, he didn't traffick her, nor has it ever been suggested that he did. I'm not sure why he, only he, and not the many others who had even more responsibility for the events of her youth, is the subject of this thread.

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