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Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - you have blood on your hands

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Muffinmam · 26/04/2025 07:14

Am I being unreasonable to say that Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor - the Duke of York and member of the Royal Family has blood on his hands following the tragic suicide of Virginia Giuffre?

Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has faced zero consequences for his role in Virginia Giuffre‘s sexual abuse and trafficking because he’s rich and his powerful mummy paid off the victim and the British police failed to pursue charges against him. To be clear, while the age of consent in the UK is 17 years old this does not apply to trafficking victims and Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor has never faced criminal charges.

He probably thinks he’s got away with it now she’s gone.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14649791/Virginia-Giuffre-suicide-perth-mansion.html

OP posts:
mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:47

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:45

He has access to the best lawyers in the world. He could’ve cleared his name definitively and left it at that. He paid her off instead.

Still bollocks. It's been explained enough times on the thread, check back.

How exactly was he going to "clear his name definitively"?? She said he did it, he said he didn't. Evidence???

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:46

Ukisgaslit · 27/04/2025 12:37

@RosesAndHellebores

Sure you do.

So it’s all in my head isn’t it ? Epstein just wanted a pint and a catch up ?
Christ this thread is sickening

You can say that again!!

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:45

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:44

Bullshit. It happens all the time. You just don't understand settlements.

He has access to the best lawyers in the world. He could’ve cleared his name definitively and left it at that. He paid her off instead.

LindorDoubleChoc · 27/04/2025 14:44

Have any of the men who had sex with trafficked girls, organised by Epstein, ever seen the inside of a court?

Afaik the only people ever charged have been Epstein and Maxwell. None of the punters. Or am I wrong?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:44

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:42

Because you don’t pay someone off if you’re innocent.

Bullshit. It happens all the time. You just don't understand settlements.

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:43

Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 10:46

I am hoping that decent people can see those posts for what they are. Victim blaming. Straight up. And saying continually that they are just posting facts doesn't take away from that. Let's give Andrew the benefit of the doubt. But not do the same for victims of sex trafficking.

She was 17
She knew what she was doing
Where were her parents? (that is laughable to say that)
How come she didn't walk away? (sex trafficked individuals aren't chained up in a basement. It's all coercion, manipulation and empty promises of a better life)

Nobody is saying "give Andrew the benefit of the doubt"???

I despair.

Yes, she was 17, still basically a child.
She was groomed by Epstein and Maxwell, and had access to riches beyond her imagination.
Her parents - well they were dire. How many of us would let their 17 year fly off on private jets and spend time in mansions with older men? But they did.
Obviously she couldn't just "walk away" - groomed children often can't.
Anyone arguing with any of those points just doesn't have a clue.

HOWEVER, none of that means that the blame all rests with Andrew! Epstein and Maxwell have barely been criticised! If it hadn't been for them, Virginia would never have met Andrew! But no, blame the stupid, arrogant royal because of your hatred for the royal family! That's what a lot of this boils down to, and why you condemn him out of hand for something that we just don't know whether he's guilty of!

By all means, condemn him for the things we know that he's done, there's quite enough of them!

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 14:42

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:37

Why? It was a pragmatic decision?

Because you don’t pay someone off if you’re innocent.

Ukisgaslit · 27/04/2025 14:37

Futurehappiness · 27/04/2025 13:43

There is evidence, so these are not just assumptions and they are not groundless. VG's statements were evidence if not conclusive; but otoh we all saw at his interview (the stated purpose of which was to enable him to put his case) how flimsy Andrew's position appeared and how shifty and untrustworthy he seemed.

And speaking of assumptions: as I have said upthread, our Head of State no less was happy to make assumptions when Buckingham Palace issued a statement which branded VG as a liar. I don't know why anyone else isn't as ashamed as I am that our establishment was happy to publicly injure a victim of sex trafficking all over again.

You make an extremely important here re: the head of state further injuring a victim of sex trafficking in order to protect one of their own ‘firm’

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:37

mummytoonetryingfortwo · 27/04/2025 10:36

Her “own money” all can be traced back to the tax payer in one way or another. I lost all respect for the royal family when they paid Virginia off.

Why? It was a pragmatic decision?

mainecooncatonahottinroof · 27/04/2025 14:32

Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 07:37

Because of what you post, that's why. This troubled woman has only just committed suicide, yet you think it's OK to put up a post that smacks of 'so what! she must have slept with hundreds of men, why should poor Andrew get blamed'. You are not pointing out the brutality she may have suffered at all. You are dismissive of her.

If you can't see how your posts look, there is absolutely no point in trying to explain to you.

Of course I'm OK. I don't need your pathetic scoffing laughing emoji reactions on my posts or your faux concern.

I don't need your rudeness either, and it's persistent. I am sick of it at this point.

That's not what my post says at all - it's what you want it to say! I don't want your "explanations" - I am not interested! It's your failure to comprehend here that is the issue.

You're bemoaning the awfulness of being trafficked - which it absolutely and unequivocably is! - but denying the reasonable assumption that the reality is that she was forced to sleep with a lot of men! I don't know if she ever put a figure on it. It's totally unreasonable to blame everything she suffered on one man!

I don't have "faux concern" tbh - I don't have any concern. I'm laughing at the sheer ridiculousness.

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:23

Nobody is saying that

They quite clearly did.

Extiainoiapeial · 27/04/2025 14:14

RosesAndHellebores · 27/04/2025 12:21

It isn't unusual for people if Andrew's age, my age, to refer to meeting up with friends as "going out to play". It refers to not working and seeing friends. I often say to DH that I'm going out to play with the girls. I often ask thebDC if they have been out for a play with any of their old school friends.

It does not refer or relate to anything sexual. That, I am afraid, is your mind.

Nobody is saying that. It could be playing golf for all we know. It's the fact he lied about cutting contact when court papers have proved otherwise . He kept up contact and probably imagined it would all blow over

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:14

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:06

Its still not 'breaking all contact' though. Which is what he said he did. What can he 'play' if not face to face? Online chess? The man has the intelligence of an amoeba.

Edited

You edited your post - I was replying to;

Its still not 'breaking all contact' though. Which is what he said he did.

CantStopMoving · 27/04/2025 14:12

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:03

There will never, ever be that evidence though, because Andrew will never see the inside of a court, even as a witness. He gets that privilege because he is a member of the Royal Family, and the establishment will go to the ends of the earth to protect them.

There are so many people involved- evidence always comes out. VD had every opportunity to release everything she had.

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:10

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:07

I agree but that's not the point I was making.

Pressed send too soon - corresponding/chatting can be viewed in terms of 'playing' I think.

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:07

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:06

Its still not 'breaking all contact' though. Which is what he said he did. What can he 'play' if not face to face? Online chess? The man has the intelligence of an amoeba.

Edited

I agree but that's not the point I was making.

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:06

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:04

'play some more soon' could also refer to another exchange of emails/correspondence in the near future rather than planning a face to face meeting.

Its still not 'breaking all contact' though. Which is what he said he did. What can he 'play' if not face to face? Online chess? The man has the intelligence of an amoeba.

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 14:04

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 13:48

Well we now know he didn't, because we know he was still in touch with him months later, even trying to organise another meet up to 'play'.

'play some more soon' could also refer to another exchange of emails/correspondence in the near future rather than planning a face to face meeting.

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:03

CantStopMoving · 27/04/2025 13:59

In my mind I am not trying to exonerate him at all, I just want some verifiable evidence to base my views on rather than conjecture and innuendo. So far I’ve not seen anything to suggest he even knew what was going on. He was a ‘useful idiot’ as the saying goes. Naive and easily manipulated.

There will never, ever be that evidence though, because Andrew will never see the inside of a court, even as a witness. He gets that privilege because he is a member of the Royal Family, and the establishment will go to the ends of the earth to protect them.

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 14:01

Clavinova · 27/04/2025 13:27

Did Epstein play golf? Andrew is a keen golfer.

Doesnt sound much like anyone who had the slightest intention of cutting contact. Even if he just wanted an innocent round of golf with a convicted sex offender, that makes him a liar. He was so desperate to stay in touch with a sex offender, even though he claimed he was only really friends with the other sex offender, Ghislaine Maxwell, that even after the avalanche of bad publicity and being told to cease all contact with Epstein, he went round to his house, stayed for a week, didn't put 2 and 2 together about the convictions for sex trafficking, the young girls hanging around the house and the pictures of naked very young girls on the walls, went home to his own teenage daughters, then sat down and wrote an email to Epstein asking him to 'keep in touch'? If he was even remotely a decent person in any sense of the word, he would have at the very least decided Epstein wasn't the type of person he wanted to be friends with. Are we really meant to be looking up to a family who can produce people so monumentally ignorant, naive and easily manipulated, at best?

CantStopMoving · 27/04/2025 13:59

Futurehappiness · 27/04/2025 12:54

I am a few years older than Andrew and I have never heard that expression.

And you are being absurdly disingenuous to claim that any suspicion that it related to something sexual is 'in your mind' when we know the extent of Andrew's connections to Epstein & Maxwell; it is completely reasonable to suspect it may be a reference to something sinister.

Again, I don't know for sure whether Andrew is guilty. What I do know (and every woman in particular should know) is that there is a huge amount of sexual misconduct against women & girls the overwhelming majority of which goes unpunished. And we know that regardless of whether or not A is guilty, he will be protected anyway.

In the context of all that, this thread - on MN of all places - in its victim blaming and determination to exonerate Andrew - is deeply disappointing

In my mind I am not trying to exonerate him at all, I just want some verifiable evidence to base my views on rather than conjecture and innuendo. So far I’ve not seen anything to suggest he even knew what was going on. He was a ‘useful idiot’ as the saying goes. Naive and easily manipulated.

Tomatotater · 27/04/2025 13:48

Puzzledandpissedoff · 27/04/2025 10:22

What's to say Andrew ever actually told Epstein they could no longer be in touch, considering he lied about continued contact too?

It couldn't be more obvious that he'll say whatever suits at any given time, and to hell with his various victims of whatever stripe. All that seems to matter is him and maybe whoever's currently holding the purse strings, which is why I said there's reason enough to loathe him already even without any conviction

Well we now know he didn't, because we know he was still in touch with him months later, even trying to organise another meet up to 'play'.

JudgeJ · 27/04/2025 13:46

whippy1981 · 26/04/2025 14:22

Most do have proof but the quota prevents them from getting to court.

What proof? Their own testimony is hardly proof.

Futurehappiness · 27/04/2025 13:43

RosesAndHellebores · 27/04/2025 13:31

The point I am making is that fa ts rather than assumptions have to be the key factors. Assumptions are being made here, and assumptions are not hard evidence.

There is evidence, so these are not just assumptions and they are not groundless. VG's statements were evidence if not conclusive; but otoh we all saw at his interview (the stated purpose of which was to enable him to put his case) how flimsy Andrew's position appeared and how shifty and untrustworthy he seemed.

And speaking of assumptions: as I have said upthread, our Head of State no less was happy to make assumptions when Buckingham Palace issued a statement which branded VG as a liar. I don't know why anyone else isn't as ashamed as I am that our establishment was happy to publicly injure a victim of sex trafficking all over again.

RosesAndHellebores · 27/04/2025 13:31

The point I am making is that fa ts rather than assumptions have to be the key factors. Assumptions are being made here, and assumptions are not hard evidence.

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