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AIBU to move to Switzerland? (Language)

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LangoLanguage · 25/04/2025 18:11

Sorry for the long post. Myself and my husband have a 2 year old son and currently we live in London. I was born and raised in the UK and he was born and raised in Zurich and moved here for work.

We regularly go to Zurich often and have recently decided we would like to try and find jobs there and move there. In his industry this is quite common and he is a citizen so has all the passports etc, and for a while I’d be a SAHM. We have a lot of friends and nearly all family there.

We both naturally speak to my son in English, although we have been trying with German more and more. The state schools in Zurich are pretty great and we’d quite like to send him to one if we moved (as opposed to international school) and he’d start with a few days at age 3.

Is this a stupid idea? Sending him to school that speaks a language he doesn’t understand? Friends have said at this age they’re like sponges and absorb, but im
worried. This is also a future problem as we haven’t even moved!

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RichWithNoSelfControl · 25/04/2025 18:22

At his age he'll pick up the language quickly. It's a wonderful country and sounds great. Just ensure you future plan, don't be one of those families that moves abroad when the kids are young and then when they're older decide to move back, separating them from friends, routine, changing schools...etc.

LangoLanguage · 25/04/2025 18:21

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 25/04/2025 18:19

I've known many children that have come to the UK without a word of English. I’ve never known one that wasn’t mostly fluent by the end of a year.

Ah that’s very reassuring. Do you know if their parents do anything in particular to help? I’m worried he’ll go to school and be so confused and not understand anything.

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 25/04/2025 18:19

I've known many children that have come to the UK without a word of English. I’ve never known one that wasn’t mostly fluent by the end of a year.