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Romesh Ranganathan - School Places & Entitlement

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FightingFish · 25/04/2025 17:39

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cewgj1ry9x7o.amp

I’ve seen this story popping up a lot on social media and we are only seeing one side of the story. Schools publish their allocations policy and apparently RR has moved house since his older children were allocated a place. He obviously didn’t consider the implications of moving outside of catchment at that point. There are only so many places, AIBU to wish that he would acknowledge that? I also feel sorry for the kid, if my father was a multi millionaire, I’d rather he shelled out on a place at a private school instead of bleat on about how hard done by he is!

Romesh Ranganathan looks on from the grid during the F1 Grand Prix of Monaco at Circuit de Monaco

Romesh Ranganathan criticises West Sussex council over son's school place - BBC News

He says his son's allocated school is "on the other side of town" to the one his siblings attend.

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cewgj1ry9x7o.amp

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Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:42

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:40

-it happened once for us- one child at one school, a diabetes event, and at the other school we had a broken ankle both on the same day. Fortunately my husband was in the country, as he travelled a lot otherwise what are you supposed to do!

But that's surely an unusual scenario?

Totally but if my husband hadn't been there we would not have been able to turn up at both schools to deal with the emergencies. Obviously the diabetes issue was the most important but then who would have been looking after the year 7 11 year old with the broken ankle exactly?

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:41

It's not really logistically possible for parents to do the school run to two schools in many cases.

Is it really not normal for secondary dc to travel themselves? How do parents with some in secondary & some still in primary manage?

Sofiewoo · 25/04/2025 19:41

May be he will decide to help the poor and instead pay for a private school place, by not clogging a state school place that could have gone to a child more in need of a place.

Hard disagree.
Parents with money should not feel obligated to pay for private education, nor should state education be seen as a less than option for those with more money. The best thing for state education is a wider range of economic backgrounds.

LimitedBrightSpots · 25/04/2025 19:40

The council should have to provide transport for children where parents have children in different schools. It's not really logistically possible for parents to do the school run to two schools in many cases.

CurlewKate · 25/04/2025 19:40

Do we actually know that he moved house?

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:40

-it happened once for us- one child at one school, a diabetes event, and at the other school we had a broken ankle both on the same day. Fortunately my husband was in the country, as he travelled a lot otherwise what are you supposed to do!

But that's surely an unusual scenario?

tothelefttotheleft · 25/04/2025 19:39

FightingFish · 25/04/2025 18:04

He definitely moved house in 2021, he talked about it in interviews/on podcasts and even wrote an article for a newspaper about it.

I don't think he mentioned this on the post I saw him talking about it. Not good to leave out key information.

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:39

fashionqueen0123 · 25/04/2025 19:35

I thought it was very strange his youngest didn’t get in - until now reading here he moved house! Well what did he expect?! It’s pretty common for out of catchment with siblings to be lower down than catchment.

But did he move before his older children went through the process? No one seems to be able to prove this is the case? If he moved in 2021 which is what is alleged, he could have children in year 8/9 who went through the process after he moved?

Gilead · 25/04/2025 19:39

I lived 300 yards over the border for our preferred school, I appealed and fortunately won, had I not I’d have to juggle between two schools, ten miles apart.

Xenia · 25/04/2025 19:38

We had three teenagers at 3 schools at one point (private schools), Habs, NLCS and Merchant Taylor's but the teenagers could use coaches so it was fine. Even our 2 girls did not get into the same private school right through to age 18. I think he will manage.

May be he will decide to help the poor and instead pay for a private school place, by not clogging a state school place that could have gone to a child more in need of a place.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:37

@privatenonamegiven I travelled an hour, knew dc who travelled longer.

I think of DoE considers 75mins acceptable....

Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:36

PS just FYI we never moved, the policies changed

Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:36

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:31

And completely normal to travel for 45mins or longer to get too.

Yes and the basis of our appeal was it was 35 mins in one direction and 35 mins in the other for the two schools so an emergency at both created huge drama -it happened once for us- one child at one school, a diabetes event, and at the other school we had a broken ankle both on the same day. Fortunately my husband was in the country, as he travelled a lot otherwise what are you supposed to do!

Iloveshoes123 · 25/04/2025 19:35

HopingForTheBest25 · 25/04/2025 17:45

I'm torn. I think it's true that he ought to have considered catchment rules when moving house and obviously, as a wealthy person he had more options than many parents when it comes to education. OTOH, it's not that unreasonable to expect to send siblings to the same school - it's also not his fault that education is in the state it's in. The real fault lies with successive governments who haven't invested as they ought to have done in our schools, so that they are both plentiful and good!

I think it's very fair that kids in the catchment get priority over siblings outside the catchment. Otherwise you can have someone move to a catchment for a short period and then get multiple siblings into the school.
I don't agree he should have to send his kids to private school, he is as entitled as anyone else to use the state system but I don't think his criticism is fair.

fashionqueen0123 · 25/04/2025 19:35

I thought it was very strange his youngest didn’t get in - until now reading here he moved house! Well what did he expect?! It’s pretty common for out of catchment with siblings to be lower down than catchment.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:35

He thought he could continue to signify his luvvie left wing credentials by using state school.

that's unfair, plenty of successful people who went to state school aren't scared of it for their dc.

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:34

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:31

And completely normal to travel for 45mins or longer to get too.

Wow 45 minutes!!! Not normal in my experience...

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:34

different holidays would annoy me

samarrange · 25/04/2025 19:34

RipleyJones · 25/04/2025 18:25

Boo hoo. He thought for some reason his kid would not be subject to normal admission procedures. He thought he could continue to signify his luvvie left wing credentials by using state school. But only the state school /s He wanted. They’re all full, he got bumped to the one available. As do thousands of others. Using state funds when he could easily pay for it himself. But couldn’t do that god no the optics the optics! 🙄 heart bleeds.

He thought he could continue to signify his luvvie left wing credentials by using state school.

So, you think he should have sent them to a private school? Or might you just possibly also have expressed an opinion about the hypocrisy of luvvie lefties had he done that?

AmIHumanOrAmIAYeti · 25/04/2025 19:34

FightingFish · 25/04/2025 19:16

Sounds like an excuse. I’ve got 3 children myself and have always managed to organise them to get to school on time. At one point I had one at secondary, one at primary and one at nursery. Currently I have one at primary, one at secondary and one at a different secondary in sixth form. Once they are 10 + they can walk, bike or get on a bus themselves. Not difficult.

My daughter’s school is at the other end of a NSL country road with no lighting or pavements. Not far enough away for a school bus. No suitable service bus. Not safe to cycle or walk at 11 in the dark/rain. (It’s just under 3 miles each way.)

privatenonamegiven · 25/04/2025 19:33

clary · 25/04/2025 19:27

I agree that you might want your DC to go to the same secondary (mine did actually) but you equally might not. We have a very academic secondary near us which would have suited one, maybe two of my DC but certainly not the other. And getting them to school for secondary should not be an issue (tho I live near a secondary school and OMG the cars at 3pm!).

Those who say "well he should be able to send them to the same school" – at the expense of a local child getting that pace though? If he did move and was no longer in catchment then that's on him. It needs to be considered.

And while I am sure people have had issues with different holidays at different schools, it’s not that common surely. Our city and county has holidays that match. You'd have to go 15 miles away to Nottinghamshire to have different holidays. Secondary school age DC do not need so much in the way of childcare. I agree this would be a PITA at primary but that's not what we are talking about.

With regards to the holidays being different it really does depend where you live.. and you would be surprised it happens a lot.. and inset days are often different.

Obviously, in his case money is not an issue but many families would like to hand down school uniforms which is not possible when they go to different schools..

Again do we know for sure he actually moved since his older children went through the system?

gerul · 25/04/2025 19:33

RipleyJones · 25/04/2025 18:25

Boo hoo. He thought for some reason his kid would not be subject to normal admission procedures. He thought he could continue to signify his luvvie left wing credentials by using state school. But only the state school /s He wanted. They’re all full, he got bumped to the one available. As do thousands of others. Using state funds when he could easily pay for it himself. But couldn’t do that god no the optics the optics! 🙄 heart bleeds.

Good God imagine going through life this bitter for others

Catsandcheese · 25/04/2025 19:32

Anyway if any of you have had this situation you will know it is really hard to manage over a long period of time which it was for us (6 years).
We got there I am pleased to say but I'd really rather not have had to juggle no holidays because of half terms not coinciding meaning no time left for summer holidays.
Good for Romesh speaking out, it is a very difficult situation to find yourself in.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:31

And completely normal to travel for 45mins or longer to get too.

sofasoda · 25/04/2025 19:31

Maybe because i'm a Londoner and it's quite normal to go to different schools (many are single sex for one) I don't think it's that big a deal.