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Paddleboarding tragedy (why did she do this?)

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PassingStranger · 25/04/2025 16:55

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/former-cops-grovelling-voice-note-35105323

Did anyone else see this on the news?
4 people died
Horrific, imagine their panic.

What was behind this desire to take them out, when she shouldn't have.
I'll presume it was money sadly.😢

I'm glad she got prison.

Fatal error by 'cowardly' ex-cop that killed four in paddleboarding tragedy

Former police officer Nerys Bethan Lloyd has been jailed for 10 years and six months over the deaths of four paddleboarders in Wales after the "avoidable tragedy"

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/uk-news/former-cops-grovelling-voice-note-35105323

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JustFeedMeCake · 25/04/2025 17:27

She’s a monster and the sentence was way too short. She really wasn’t bothered in the videos and she tried to blame her co worker that died. I hope she is eternally miserable and suffers for the rest of her life.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 25/04/2025 17:26

SwanOfThoseThings · 25/04/2025 17:22

Reading about her being sacked from the police and having a caution for fraud, I formed the impression she was a chancer - always assuming she would get away with reckless behaviour.

That was the impression I got. Rules were for other people. Arrogance, greed and stupidity are a dangerous combination

Liverpool52 · 25/04/2025 17:25

I volunteer in an activity where safety is key and the amount of other volunteers who are quite happy to take risks like this is quite shocking, even when guidelines quite clearly say stop in X circumstances. I've had people be utterly vitriolic to me when I've enforced those safety guidelines because they see it as spoiling fun.

CopperWhite · 25/04/2025 17:25

She got off lightly. 10 years is nothing for four people’s lives.

Apreslapluielesoleil · 25/04/2025 17:24

Could be arrogance, stupidity, laziness. When you run any activity or business that involves the safety of others you have to be 100% on the ball. Risk assessments, insurance, full information to everyone, Plan B in case something goes wrong, everything documented. It’s never worth or acceptable to cut corners.

I used to be called the H&S nightmare at work because everything was covered in minute detail. But I slept at night and no one died.

SwanOfThoseThings · 25/04/2025 17:22

Reading about her being sacked from the police and having a caution for fraud, I formed the impression she was a chancer - always assuming she would get away with reckless behaviour.

Withoutfearorfavour · 25/04/2025 17:22

Pure arrogance

TomatoSandwiches · 25/04/2025 17:18

I think 10yrs for 4 lives is shockingly low and let's be honest she won't serve the full sentence either, disgraceful.

BloodyHellBob · 25/04/2025 17:16

I read that the judge didn’t show video footage as it was extremely distressing. I think she deserves her sentence, in fact considering that 4 people died I think she got off lightly.

NImumconfused · 25/04/2025 17:14

JustAnInchident · 25/04/2025 17:08

He also tried to suggest they avoid that particular route that day as it was unsafe. Bloody awful. Can’t imagine the pain the victims families have gone through and will continue to go through.

Sounds like he knew a lot more about it than she did, ridiculous that she didn't listen to him.

MissyB1 · 25/04/2025 17:10

It's got to be arrogance and stupidity, a lethal mix! But she wasn't even qualified to take them out. And there was no safety briefing I think, and a suggestion about lack of safety equipment? Terrible 😢

JustAnInchident · 25/04/2025 17:08

NImumconfused · 25/04/2025 17:06

I feel less sympathetic given that one of the people who died was her fellow instructor who got out, but then returned to the water to try to rescue the others. She didn't even try.

He also tried to suggest they avoid that particular route that day as it was unsafe. Bloody awful. Can’t imagine the pain the victims families have gone through and will continue to go through.

NImumconfused · 25/04/2025 17:06

I feel less sympathetic given that one of the people who died was her fellow instructor who got out, but then returned to the water to try to rescue the others. She didn't even try.

Peacepleaselouise · 25/04/2025 17:02

Clearly it was very poor judgement. She should have known better but she obviously didn’t as she risked her own life too.

I personally felt 10years was a little harsh but my DH totally disagreed. So perhaps I am being overly sympathetic to her. It’s obviously appalling that 4 people died when they should never have been there in the conditions.

Arlanymor · 25/04/2025 17:00

Yes it was big news here two days ago when she was in court in Swansea. Reckless I think, she was out there too, so reckless with her own life and other people’s lives. I think it’s fitting that her sentence is at the upper end of the scale, but it’s hard to come up with a just sentence when four people are no longer alive.

DeedlessIndeed · 25/04/2025 16:59

I cannot understand how someone can be SO thoughtless with regards to others safety, especially when it comes to water.

I feel awful for the families of the victims who lost their loved ones in a completely pointless way. Stupid, stupid woman.

CamillaMacauley · 25/04/2025 16:58

I assume she thought it was safe otherwise she wouldn't have risked her own life. Crazy and reckless, she wasn't qualified for river trips I don't think, only lakes? Just arrogance that she knew better. Wasn't she also suspended from the police for suspected fraud at the time, so not a nice person.

I was surprised she got 10 years though, did not think she'd get that long.