Report this women or mind my own business?

I lost a friend recently to anorexia so quite biased here but I would say report her. As someone else said, it's similar to calling emergency services if you see someone on a ledge. We all have a responsibility to help others whose lives are at risk, and this is one of those times even if its different as its remote.

The suppliers often have no clue, unfortunately, that they are being de-frauded. I think this supplier is good in asking for a video call. Most suppliers ask for pictures only and get you to fill.on an online form. Plenty of people lie about their weight on the form and it's v v easy to send fake pictures of make yourself appear bigger in a picture, or send a picture of someone else...

I don't blame the supplier on this case since they seem responsible on asking for a video call.

I think it would be best if people had to go in person to collect medication. Even if they order online, they should have to collect from a partnering pharmacy and get the pharmacist to sign off their weight. This would eliminate a lot of people accessing these drugs that shouldn't be accessing them

I've heard positive things about Oushk so maybe it is worth telling them because they seem to be one of the few providers with relatively decent ethics and it's good to know they asked for a video call.

I would look at ways to report the supplier rather than the user. If they were prepared to sell to her in the first place, I doubt you reporting her would change that.

The fact her GP felt they had to intervene so she was banned from getting Mounjaro says a lot.

And yes she’ll probably find a way to get it anyway. That ED fur you.

You can report her. I’d start with TikTok (she should fall into these ‘anorexia positive’ posts that aren’t allowed.)
But dint make it your responsibility. 1- because it isn’t but also because 2- there are many of them around and you’ll exhaust yourself if you try and tackle every single one of them.

And yet they still do need reporting.

Maybe don't post details of what this woman is doing - this thread may be attracting those who want to misuse the drugs.

The only thing I would do is report it to tik tok. I don't use tik tok, but have reported many things in Instagram. They sometimes get removed, but often not. I don't think they care enough.

While you have no responsibility for this unwell woman, you can try and prevent such posts being seen by vulnerable, impressionable people.

"Just take the easy route" is the message from this and other posters who say don't get involved. Of course we are involved. We are all humans together, and need to care about each other.

The supplier doesn't ask for video calls or contact GPs, so why would they care?

You don't put your name on it 🙃 or reply. You can go as far as to block them if you really don't want to get drawn into it

How do you send an anonymous email?

I don't know.

It's a v tricky position to be in OP.

What supplier is it?

My main concern would be that if she is banned again from this new online supplier she may feel she can no longer get the prescription from a licensed online pharmacy and instead she may be forced to turn to black market dealers which could b a lot lot worse.

So I'm a bit conflicted. Gosh, poor women.

I actually really really worry about the impact of glp1's on people with EDs ...

From a supplier who does not do the type of checks which would prevent people with eating disorders obtaining the product. There are plenty of unscrupulous people out there. You could report her and this supplier might stop sending her the drug but she will find another who is willing to sell to her.

I'm not sure about whether a SM company would ban her for what is essentially
pro-ana content which would at least stop other people with eating disorders learning about how to access weight loss drugs. Although there is a young women with a very severe eating disorder who has had a big SM presence on multiple platforms for several years despite being reported many times.

I would say stop following her. You do realise that every person who follows her, views or comments is providing her with an income to buy her mounjaro and continue on her path to destruction.
Maybe start there.

No I don't use TikTok.

The OP says she's following this woman, so are you saying she's liking her videos?

You clearly don’t use TikTok! Thats not how TikTok works. Random videos come up on your ‘feed’ (For You Page) and if you like their videos then you choose to follow them. So no, you don’t have to be a follower to come across their content

How can you possibly know that?

As someone who has suffered from anorexia in the past, I find the "let her die" responses quite upsetting. Anorexia isnt just a bad decision. I would send an anonymous email to the supplier and then step back.

Yes, I absolutely would. It could save her life. Too many people in society take the ‘mind your own business’ approach to everything and I don’t think that’s always correct. Sometimes somebody needs to step in, even if it is a stranger/Good Samaritan. If someone was stood on the railings of a bridge, surely you’d stop and try to encourage them away or at the very least, call 999? Yes the situation is very different but the principle is the same in my opinion. She may not be actively trying to kill herself but that’s absolutely what is happening. Moral obligation. 100%

Report her.

I wouldn't leave someone in the street bleeding or refuse to do CPR on a stranger.

I wouldn't stand by if someone was about to jump off a bridge either.

So, I'm not up with the 'let her kill herself' messages above

None of your business.

SM is full of them just leave them to it.

There's a woman I follow on tiktok that takes Mounjaro. I also take mounjaro so that's probably why she came up on my feed.

Surely she came up on your feed because you've chosen to follow her?

She clearly has mental health issues and the best thing any complete stranger could do about that, would be to stop giving her attention on SM.

But you'll never stop her buying Mounjaro on the black market.