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To think manager is taking the p*ss?

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Mooey89 · 24/04/2025 12:53

Work in a very small team within a large organisation - manager, me, one person below me. This means when one of us is off, the other (usually me) picks up the work to cover.
Within the organisation you can apply to purchase additional leave and if it meets business need, you can purchase 5 days extra (maximum).

manager has decided that in addition to this, he will work additional Mondays (he works condensed hours Tues-Fri) to enable him to take ‘in advance toil’. These Mondays are admin days at home.

once every 4-6 weeks, he announces that he has holiday booked. He is so impressed with how clever he is being to be able to do this.
he doesn’t pay any regard to his work diary and during this leave and so it falls to me to pick it up. It’s often booked last minute. He’s essentially ‘banking’ an additional day every week meaning 40ish additional days leave on top of A/L entitlements and the purchased leave.

I am heavily pregnant and it is really causing additional strain having to cover but they feel they are doing nothing wrong. Big boss is very hands off and their stance is they don’t care as long as the work is being done - which it is, by me.

AIBU?!

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WorldMap24 · 24/04/2025 13:08

He is taking the piss. One day a week probably means you don't have to 'cover' as such as he will pick up the work the next day? But when he is off for a week then obviously you will need to cover. I would explain the impact to him and tell him your boundaries going forwards

2024onwardsandup · 24/04/2025 13:07

Don’t do the work

HoskinsChoice · 24/04/2025 13:05

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 24/04/2025 12:59

Stop covering for him - “you’ve taken so much leave it’s impossible for me to cover your work as well as doing my own tasks”.

But he hasn't taken any additional time off. He's taken the right amount of time off, just in big blocks rather than small weekly times off.

HoskinsChoice · 24/04/2025 13:04

It's an interesting one. I would love to do what he's doing. I'm not particularly bothered about shorter working weeks but I would love to have c10 weeks holiday. He's working the right number of hours across a year, he's just found a loophole which works for him. I suppose it depends on whether it affects the business and his staff. Why does it make life harder for you to pick up his work in blocks than it would if you had to do it one day pet week every week?

NoSoapJustUseShowerGel · 24/04/2025 12:59

Stop covering for him - “you’ve taken so much leave it’s impossible for me to cover your work as well as doing my own tasks”.

NeringaCS · 24/04/2025 12:58

Work your hours and nothing more. If stuff doesn’t get done, it doesn’t get done, and you can explain to the big boss why that is.

Screamingabdabz · 24/04/2025 12:58

YANBU. In a similar situation. There are no easy solutions here. Just see it out until maternity leave and when the time comes to think again about employment see what else is out there. Or pray he thinks he’s so clever that he leaves and you get the promotion and can do the same!

RealEagle · 24/04/2025 12:57

Can’t you play him at his own game

Motnight · 24/04/2025 12:55

Drop the rope.