So my partner planned a visit to see their parents over Easter weekend with our DC. It’s a VERY long drive (10+ hours) so I was already dreading the journey. As we packed the bags into the car, my partner says, oh, I had a high fever last night but I’m feeling ok today. I warned them we shouldn’t visit elderly parents if ill, but they convinced me they were ok. On the night we arrive, surprise, surprise, they’re feeling much, much worse. So the next day I’m the only one socialising with their parents and the DC. Turns out it’s flu. On our day to return, they’re too ill to drive back. I’m furious we made the trip in the first place. Surely I have every right to be cross? They are making me feel like a terrible person for being pissed off.