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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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AdoraBell · 23/04/2025 19:02

The day before the first lockdown, I was working in a jewellery shop and a woman came in, deliberately coughed onto the counter and said “ I suppose you’re going to clean now”

Fizbosshoes · 23/04/2025 19:01

I remember being really pleased when a shop near me had eggs....but slightly less pleased that there were no boxes for said eggs, they just put them loose into a carrier bag, which obviously went well, on the 15 minute walk home....🤣

Orangemintcream · 23/04/2025 19:01

I can remember when the government announced the first couple of cases and suggested no need for concern and that the risk to the general public was very low.

Strictlymad · 23/04/2025 19:01

RedHelenB · 23/04/2025 18:15

Way ott , but we didn't know what could happen. I still look at those 2 m marks outside the local supermarket and it all seems surreal But we had to lock down until the vaccines started to take effect.

Hindsight is a wonderful thing and I’m yes I look back and smile at some of it. But at the time we had no idea how bad it was going to be, there were horror stories from Italy, perfectly healthy 20somwthings dropping dead, China refusing to give any info. Whilst I disagree with parts (parents separated from babies in nicu etc) I can see that the unknowns made it difficult if not impossible to plan correctly and to be cautious was wise til more was known. Imagine we had been blaze and the country was wiped out

MrsClatterbuck · 23/04/2025 19:01

Not on mumsnet but I remember one police officer not sure but a high up rank saying that they would be policing people's shopping basket so no buying Easter Eggs which were already on the shelves. Then I think he got a phone call from Priti Patel and next day had to eat humble pie or his own words that no policing of shopping baskets would be happening. Would loved to have listened into that phone call. No fan of Priti Patel but at least common sense prevailed.

OnlyFannys · 23/04/2025 19:00

Not on mumsnet but I once had my neighbours call the police because I had 2 friends round during the second lockdown. I was a single parent with only a 2 year old for company and going through serious mental health issues at the time having spent about a year on my own by that point and the police came knocking on to break up a "party" and give us a warning letter (i was already asleep at the time and my friend was brushing her teeth). The batshittery was rife

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 19:00

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/04/2025 18:58

I also remember that the summer the local beach was properly opened, (Bournemouth) it was so overwhelmed by visitors the council had to declare a state of emergency. There was a thread in chat that went on for ages, with plenty scoffing about the "over reaction" . I was like, yep, council dropped the ball but it was absolutely necessary - I live here and my FB was full of the absolute chaos and carnage.

State of emergency is so funny but i feel like I remember things being really bad and overrun with people

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ShaunaSadeki · 23/04/2025 19:00

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/04/2025 18:58

I also remember that the summer the local beach was properly opened, (Bournemouth) it was so overwhelmed by visitors the council had to declare a state of emergency. There was a thread in chat that went on for ages, with plenty scoffing about the "over reaction" . I was like, yep, council dropped the ball but it was absolutely necessary - I live here and my FB was full of the absolute chaos and carnage.

The tents and the rubbish 😱, it was awful

JoyousEagle · 23/04/2025 18:59

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 18:20

I remember someone isolating their young daughter (8 is in my head) for ten days in her room, including over her birthday. I think she made her a cupcake to eat in her isolation 😵

Oh yes, the isolating in their bedrooms of fairly young children was horrible.

Dhxusksgxuks · 23/04/2025 18:58

I remember a lot of mentalists smugly asserting that they had been stocking up on loo roll and tinned goods for years in preparation for the apocalypse, and acting like those of us who hadn’t were actually the lunatics.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/04/2025 18:58

I also remember that the summer the local beach was properly opened, (Bournemouth) it was so overwhelmed by visitors the council had to declare a state of emergency. There was a thread in chat that went on for ages, with plenty scoffing about the "over reaction" . I was like, yep, council dropped the ball but it was absolutely necessary - I live here and my FB was full of the absolute chaos and carnage.

MugsyBalonz · 23/04/2025 18:58

I remember a school getting slated in the press when schools had to reopen to everyone because they posted photos of hoops on the ground and taped off desks and stuff, total OTT stuff. Thread on here about the article was a total bunfight between those who agreed with the Head Teacher and those who didn't.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:58

Longleggedblond · 23/04/2025 18:56

well here's mine - when you could meet outside DS and fiance came over. I'd managed to get two huge packs of loo rolls. They were short of them so I insisted on putting them in a huge bag to disguise them in case he was mugged!!! He's a strapping lad but was taking no chances. I am a sensible retired nurse and couldn't believe my luck when morrisons let you have 2 packs of 12 loo rolls. He kept saying " Mum I'll be fine" but I got my own way.

You weren't unreasonable, toilet paper wars were a real thing then 😄

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ThatsNotMyTeen · 23/04/2025 18:58

Hanging shopping on the line or giving it a light toasting in the oven
quarantining post
pensioners being called selfish cunts for taking a daily walk to buy a paper

Karmakamelion · 23/04/2025 18:58

ComtesseDeSpair · 23/04/2025 18:02

I remember some absolute nonsense-monger claiming that their DH “worked very high up in government policy” and insisting that he’d been given official instruction right from the top to (secretly, so as not to alarm anyone) start the widescale compulsory purchasing of nightclubs, arenas, music venues etc because they were never ever going to be allowed to open back up again, Covid was going to be far more lethal than any of us were being told, and he’d been advised we’d all be in full strict lockdown for at least the next two decades. It was delightfully bonkers.

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Wasn't delightfully anything was bloody terrifying

Allaboardtheraveytrain · 23/04/2025 18:57

In our city we had stickers on bins that said take your dog poo home with you to save dustmen having to empty them more often and therefore expose themselves to covid

Redglitter · 23/04/2025 18:57

I work in a Polics control room. It was absolutely depressing seeing what covid turned people into. The things people reported their neighbours for was awful

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 18:56

bookworm14 · 23/04/2025 18:31

I remember people being berated for the following:

Taking their child with SEN for a walk on a deserted beach because they would have to drive to get there

Allowing their Covid-positive child to make fudge

There was also the poster who queried whether she should make her 10-year-old isolate within the house - lots of people seemed to think the child would suffer no ill effects from this (there was talk of ‘creating a wind tunnel’ by opening doors and windows).

Not to mention the reaction to those of us who dared to suggest prolonged school closures might have negative effects…

I’m not in the UK, and our schools etc kept being open. I remember writing a comment about it and I was absolutely slammed. It was basically my country’s fault if the world ended. But, in the end our children didn’t end up with MH problems and our economy is fine.

Although, nobody knew what the outcome was going to be back then and as I was watching the UK news I had a sinking feeling when everything closed down in the UK and we..just kept going nearly as usual. UK rules was terrifying, like a bad film.

Our Government took a huge step back during this time, and let our state epidemiologist take charge.

Longleggedblond · 23/04/2025 18:56

well here's mine - when you could meet outside DS and fiance came over. I'd managed to get two huge packs of loo rolls. They were short of them so I insisted on putting them in a huge bag to disguise them in case he was mugged!!! He's a strapping lad but was taking no chances. I am a sensible retired nurse and couldn't believe my luck when morrisons let you have 2 packs of 12 loo rolls. He kept saying " Mum I'll be fine" but I got my own way.

Feelingleftoutagain · 23/04/2025 18:56

My son worked for a supermarket and he did home deliveries, he had a woman threaten to report him as he had a haircut during lockdown, he tried to explain that I had done it but she wouldn't stop, called the supermarket to complain too lol

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:55

Fizbosshoes · 23/04/2025 18:28

Lots of ascertaining that it was definitely the people in B and M and the Range spreading covid rather than waitrose Confused

Not on here, but was on FB.
A chap in one of my local FB groups (and oh my god, they lost their collective minds during Covid) lived opposite The Range, and developed a hobby of watching what people were putting into their cars, making a note of their car model etc and posting it online to "shame" them... because he deemed their shopping non-essential. Said nothing in The Range is essential.

I do wonder what people like him do with their free time now.

AmazingBouncingFerret · 23/04/2025 18:55

My husband had to keep working all over the country and often slept in his car due to lack of accommodation, I remember I used to make him strip off at the door and get into a dettol bath!
He loved it, the roads were quiet.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:55

CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:54

The maddest thing I saw was the police in Sainsburys car park at 8am the first day of lock down searching people’s bags to see if their shopping was essential or not.

Omgg

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CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:54

The maddest thing I saw was the police in Sainsburys car park at 8am the first day of lock down searching people’s bags to see if their shopping was essential or not.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 18:54

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 18:51

I remember a thread where OP was worried about "Covid bubbles" being blown into her garden from the kids next door.

😄😄

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