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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 19:23

Moonlightdust · 23/04/2025 19:21

Being on this crazed mission to find antibacterial hand wash as it had sold out everywhere!

Things like toilet rolls and pasta being depleted in shops.

My local shop was selling the tiny bottles of anti-bac gel for £7 each!
Nowadays they have them on the counter for free 😅

toffeeappleturnip · 23/04/2025 19:23

Auroraloves · 23/04/2025 19:05

I enjoy looking at the photos of what people used in place of face masks. The party hat and the washing up sponge sticks in my mind!

OMG I'd forgotten about those.

They are still hilarious.

The cabbage people! 😄

MrsFrumble · 23/04/2025 19:22

There was one particular poster who I will never forget (stripey animal…) who was everywhere, and furious at everyone and everything. On a thread about too many people in parks, I mentioned that I had to walk through one to get to the nearest big supermarket (London, no car) and apparently even that wasn’t a good enough excuse according to them 🙄 They kept saying “but is it worth the risk?” when I pointed out that my family needed to eat.

There was another really horrible one early on where a poster lived in an upstairs flat and had to take her dog outside to the grass verge to relieve itself. This, according to some, was not acceptable and I think someone even suggested that the dog should be PTS. Awful.

TheNightingalesStarling · 23/04/2025 19:22

I got some horrid comments in real life after I took my children to the supermarket.

DH was working 8-7, 6 days a week, in the office. The one day off was random.
We needed food, after having to isolate as DH had returned from France just before lockdown (he basically isolated, then straight into that working pattern. He was working from home those first few days).

The comments...
I should have left them at home alone.
I should have left them on the village green so people could watch them from a distance.
I should have got a food delivery.
They should be in school as their father was a keyworker.

They were 7&8.

Moonlightdust · 23/04/2025 19:21

Being on this crazed mission to find antibacterial hand wash as it had sold out everywhere!

Things like toilet rolls and pasta being depleted in shops.

TheNameIsDickDarlington · 23/04/2025 19:21

CrispieCake · 23/04/2025 19:12

When things opened up a bit, birthday cakes were cling filmed or a "stunt cake" used to blow out the candles (and sealed cupcakes handed out). Wish we'd kept that one - it's nice not to have to eat cake that's been breathed over or worse 😂.

Omg I still do this! A small birthday cake for blowing out candles and then i make tiny cupcake versions of the birthday cake to hand out!

I say it's because it's easier to store multiple cupcakes in the fridge than 1 large cake but actually kids are just gross and I don't want to eat their Germy breath with my delicious chocolate cake.

forgotmyusername1 · 23/04/2025 19:21

Pasta became a means of currency.

Hoppinggreen · 23/04/2025 19:21

When I suggested some skepticism around the stories of sad looking elderly men spotted in the supermarket clutching a shopping list with one item on I was told that obviously I hate old people and want them all to die.
I also got my arse totally handed to me when I espressed I was a bit worried about dropping some things off to my Mum in hospital (not for covid) when I had been warned by a nurse at the hospital not to do it. My sdad was going anyway but apparently my Mum was going to starve to death while wearing dirty clothes if i didn't go. There were many "cancel the check" type comments saying I could leave her some stuff at Reception when I had said many times that wasn't allowed.

PaintYourAssLikeRembrandt · 23/04/2025 19:20

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 19:13

Oh God, that must've been a challenge 😳

Glad she got chased away. I remember a WhatsApp voice note being sent around about the army being deployed, from someone apparently high up - and nothing happened 😄

I hope that you are firmly in recovery from the cancer now? 💕

I saw loads of those, leaked voicemails and emails 🤣 that was the thing that finally got me to leave FB, I couldn't cope, as if top government officials tell their wife's friend all the details of their confidential meetings.

My treatment was delayed by quite a few months so I did have a stroke and have lost the use of one of my arms now due to the delay, however I was very fortunate that I made a full recovery from the cancer, I know 2 people who weren't so fortunate and died within a few months due to the delays they had, which is heartbreaking, both parents, and both a decade younger than me as well. I didn't feel lucky at the time, but I do now.

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 19:19

Dingalingalong · 23/04/2025 19:19

I know it sounds stupid, but I still feel deep sadness when thinking about Christmas 2020. I just had my 1st baby a few weeks before and I was desperate to finally spend time with family and have some support. When the government "cancelled" Christmas, I was devastated, and I descended into pretty deep PPD 💔

Oh god I'm so sorry

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 19:19

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 19:12

@UnstableMonkey I still think Sweden had the best mindset about it from the offset - mind you there’s a lot more space, a lot more , and to be frank (on the whole ) a population that to me actually choose to go along with experts and not take the piss

I also believe this is true. We basically heard nothing from our politicans. It was all Anders Tegnell’s doing. But back then there was a time I shook my head watching him speak to the nation.
My DH is not Swedish and he had to take so much shit from relatives and friends. They were really angry with him for even mentioning he thought Sweden’s approach might be a good one.
But, next time who knows which approach will be right. Maybe new different virus, and our view would be a disaster.

Coldbacon · 23/04/2025 19:19

All the ones about the terribly dangerous heavy breathing runners were doing.

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 19:19

I remember some teachers on here suggesting it was perfectly reasonable to move all secondary school teaching online permanently.

And if your 11 year old had no one at home 9-5 to supervise them, they'd just have to fend for themselves in an empty house all day.

Dingalingalong · 23/04/2025 19:19

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 18:08

Oh also the poster who thought the army should be mobilised to stop people visiting their loved ones at Christmas.

I know it sounds stupid, but I still feel deep sadness when thinking about Christmas 2020. I just had my 1st baby a few weeks before and I was desperate to finally spend time with family and have some support. When the government "cancelled" Christmas, I was devastated, and I descended into pretty deep PPD 💔

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 19:18

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/04/2025 19:10

Not so much mad but the stuff that really made my blood boil were the smug posts from people who were either furloughed or didn't have to work wanging on about how wonderful their lives were, skipping through empty forests, growing marrows with their children and face-painting all day and how they had woken up to what a great way this was to live. And how they'd suddenly had this epiphany about how wonderful this life was and would never have to worry about trivial things like making a living or seeing other people.

While I was stuck in a one bedroom flat working (no exaggeration) from 5am to 8.30pm every night just to keep the lights on while also trying to home school my kid in the room next door and keep her off YouTube. And I was one of the relatively lucky ones who a) kept my job and b) didn't have to work in a COVID ward or a germ-infested supermarket.

And the really nauseating thing is how many people have taken this awful fantasy and strung it out for the next five years, still going on to everyone who will listen about how much they enjoy their simple lives without people.

I will murder anyone on sight who has the nerve to tell me they "loved lockdown".

Oop

You're right though, people should be sensitive when talking about how much they enjoyed the pandemic tbh, most people didn't have it easy x

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JustGoClickLikeALightSwitch · 23/04/2025 19:18

Not on MN but I remember pulling in to Sainsb's one day and noticing that people had social distanced their cars impromptu; leaving one parking space between each, all the way through the car park. Just collective madness really.

Moonlightdust · 23/04/2025 19:18

Washing hands singing happy birthday! 🤣

Goodadvice1980 · 23/04/2025 19:17

BagOfBollocks · 23/04/2025 18:16

A Mumsnetter getting ripped to shreds because she started a thread moaning about how she wasn't allowed to visit her holiday home, at a time when women were having to give birth alone and elderly people in homes were looking at their families through windows.

Someone being told they should be arrested for Mumsnetting in their back garden 🤣

Yes I recall that MNetter getting their arse handed to them on a plate 😂 about the second home.

Lostcat · 23/04/2025 19:17

Love this thread. It’s funny how everyone got over it as quickly as they became obsessed. People are so fickle

Spangers · 23/04/2025 19:15

I wiped my shopping down for a bit Blush I had literally just given birth so was not in my right mind.

I could never understand the people who wore their masks pulled down on their chin, just why?!

So much batshittery around.

Moonlightdust · 23/04/2025 19:15

So many. The ridiculous clapping - although I recall we did it from the upstairs velux window so couldn’t be seen as on our doorstep seemed mega cringe!
Antibaccing the food shopping. For months.
My husband stockpiling cans of food in the very early days before official lockdown.
Individual infected members of the house isolating in their rooms as other family members didn’t want to catch it.
Getting irate at extended family members breaking rules by visiting each other.
The ridiculous homeschooling. The constant juggling between 3 kids uploading pictures of their work on google classrooms, watching never ending oak academy videos (there was one particular teacher who drove me to insanity).
Attending a friend’s 40th zoom party with a bunch of people I’d never met. Excruciating.
Dropping shopping off for my mum and feeling like we were criminals for sitting 10 metres away from each other on deckchairs on her drive just to talk!
Crossing the road to avoid people on the pavement! 😂
Not sitting on a public bench as it was forbidden.
Leaving post to ‘air’ for a few days!
The list is endless. It was such a bonkers time!

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 19:13

PaintYourAssLikeRembrandt · 23/04/2025 19:06

I started a thread on here, I was a single parent, 5 dc in the house (and 1 adult dc who came back), 2 with SEN, and had just been diagnosed with cancer and was still wfh with no time or space.

I was having a bit of a moan about being cooped up, didn't have time to get my head around having cancer, was supporting the kids with the news while being bloody scared myself, and everything else to deal with too.

A grandmother came on and told me that I should be grateful, she hadn't seen her grandkids in 3 months and I should simply cherish the time I had in lockdown, with 5 kids, and cancer as she had it worse.

Thankfully half the thread chased her away (everyone else was coming on to moan about their circumstances too, it was quite cathartic).

Her feelings were valid, and I would have sympathised if she started her own thread about missing her grandkid, but to come onto a thread of Mums, lots with health problems and kids with SEN and berate us all for nit appreciating it was a bit much.

There were also tonnes of threads with people who had husbands/friends/ kids/hamsters who had top secret government information and told us all 🤣 I think what they all meant was they saw a post on FB and took it as gospel.

Oh God, that must've been a challenge 😳

Glad she got chased away. I remember a WhatsApp voice note being sent around about the army being deployed, from someone apparently high up - and nothing happened 😄

I hope that you are firmly in recovery from the cancer now? 💕

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Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 19:12

@UnstableMonkey I still think Sweden had the best mindset about it from the offset - mind you there’s a lot more space, a lot more , and to be frank (on the whole ) a population that to me actually choose to go along with experts and not take the piss

CrispieCake · 23/04/2025 19:12

When things opened up a bit, birthday cakes were cling filmed or a "stunt cake" used to blow out the candles (and sealed cupcakes handed out). Wish we'd kept that one - it's nice not to have to eat cake that's been breathed over or worse 😂.

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 19:12

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/04/2025 19:10

Not so much mad but the stuff that really made my blood boil were the smug posts from people who were either furloughed or didn't have to work wanging on about how wonderful their lives were, skipping through empty forests, growing marrows with their children and face-painting all day and how they had woken up to what a great way this was to live. And how they'd suddenly had this epiphany about how wonderful this life was and would never have to worry about trivial things like making a living or seeing other people.

While I was stuck in a one bedroom flat working (no exaggeration) from 5am to 8.30pm every night just to keep the lights on while also trying to home school my kid in the room next door and keep her off YouTube. And I was one of the relatively lucky ones who a) kept my job and b) didn't have to work in a COVID ward or a germ-infested supermarket.

And the really nauseating thing is how many people have taken this awful fantasy and strung it out for the next five years, still going on to everyone who will listen about how much they enjoy their simple lives without people.

I will murder anyone on sight who has the nerve to tell me they "loved lockdown".

It was unutterably shit, I agree

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