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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 19:31

RobertaFirmino · 23/04/2025 19:29

Bearing in mind this is the United Kingdom - a nation built on PG Tips, a poster was told teabags were not essential.

I think this is the worst one of all 😱

ZoggyStirdust · 23/04/2025 19:31

Strictlymad · 23/04/2025 19:01

Hindsight is a wonderful thing and I’m yes I look back and smile at some of it. But at the time we had no idea how bad it was going to be, there were horror stories from Italy, perfectly healthy 20somwthings dropping dead, China refusing to give any info. Whilst I disagree with parts (parents separated from babies in nicu etc) I can see that the unknowns made it difficult if not impossible to plan correctly and to be cautious was wise til more was known. Imagine we had been blaze and the country was wiped out

Yeah this. I have 2 young children with an underlying condition that, at the time, was thought to be very high risk. They isolated.

it turned out the risk wasn’t high, but I’d far rather have reacted to what was thought to be the risk, than have under-reacted and it turn out to have been serious.

Punzel · 23/04/2025 19:30

There was a brilliant one about an allotment - an MNer was wondering whether she could go there and cue loads of crying and shaking and tearful declamations of her as a murderer. Someone memorably wrote in all caps “WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR LETTUCE!!! LET IT ROT!!!!”

Generally there was an awful lot of use of the phrases “thrown under the bus” or “thrown to the wolves”. I think every single demographic on MN felt they’d been thrown somewhere. If not then they were on their knees. No one was was standing still normally.

JudgeJ · 23/04/2025 19:30

Megifer · 23/04/2025 18:22

I'm sure there was a poster who wiped her shopping down with bleach

It seemed that the majority were disinfecting their delivered shopping before allowing it through the door.

RobertaFirmino · 23/04/2025 19:29

Bearing in mind this is the United Kingdom - a nation built on PG Tips, a poster was told teabags were not essential.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/04/2025 19:29

Thepeopleversuswork · 23/04/2025 19:10

Not so much mad but the stuff that really made my blood boil were the smug posts from people who were either furloughed or didn't have to work wanging on about how wonderful their lives were, skipping through empty forests, growing marrows with their children and face-painting all day and how they had woken up to what a great way this was to live. And how they'd suddenly had this epiphany about how wonderful this life was and would never have to worry about trivial things like making a living or seeing other people.

While I was stuck in a one bedroom flat working (no exaggeration) from 5am to 8.30pm every night just to keep the lights on while also trying to home school my kid in the room next door and keep her off YouTube. And I was one of the relatively lucky ones who a) kept my job and b) didn't have to work in a COVID ward or a germ-infested supermarket.

And the really nauseating thing is how many people have taken this awful fantasy and strung it out for the next five years, still going on to everyone who will listen about how much they enjoy their simple lives without people.

I will murder anyone on sight who has the nerve to tell me they "loved lockdown".

For me lock down really was an eye opener, same for my sister. We both worked in management in different sectors of hospitality. 60-70 hour weeks, only at home to sleep. I ended up signed off with severe stress just before lockdown as the doctor said he would either have to sign me off or I would be in hospital with exhaustion within a month. I was, in hindsight, very ill.

That summer was amazing for us because it was the first time for years we had anything like a proper break and reset. I had been suffering weekly migraines for years and didnt know why. Never had a single one in lockdown but had 2 my first week after we reopened. So we both took a long hard look at our careers and decided to step down. We are both at non management level now and our health and mental health has imporved massively.

BUT we both know that we were very lucky to have that and that others didnt have it so good at all. Oh, and I agree about those fucking videos, I refused to do it in the end. Luckily our school was very relaxed about home schooling, just said to do what we could and not to worry too much if we couldnt. Again, I know how lucky I was to have that.

I think its not so much people who, for whatever reason, enjoyed lock down. Its the ones who think that we all should have done and if you didnt then you are a miserable bitch who didnt take advantage of the time and make the most of it.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/04/2025 19:28

It really did seem by the end of 2020 that the government were indulging in sadistic edge play.

People also forget that restrictions were still in place in some settings in 2022 - late DP tested positive for Covid after being rushed in for a brain bleed in late January. He got through the first operation, and I was able to have one call with him, but visiting was forbidden for 2 weeks. He deteriorated, had a second bleed that basically rendered him brain dead, and died in the third week, which meant I could sit by his unresponsive side while he breathed his last, but I would have done anything to see him in the few days he was lucid, worn a bloody hazmat suit if necessary. Still sore about that, as he was boosted a week before his collapse, and I'm not vulnerable. It was cancer, only discovered at post mortem that had metastasised, but for a while I lived with the anxiety that it was something to do with the booster.

Parker231 · 23/04/2025 19:28

I remember, will never forget or forgive, the stupid government thinking it was ok for DH, a doctor, to work on Covid wards without proper PPE.

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 19:28

MaloryJones · 23/04/2025 19:24

lmaoo

I remember posts like these

Easy to laugh now, but we didn’t really know back then. I didn’t do it, but next time we might not have the last laugh.

Lostcat · 23/04/2025 19:28

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 19:26

Before Christmas and before covid I do remember reading on MN many posters asking people if anyone knew if there was an illness going around with a horrible cough and feeling unusually ill. It did not feel like a normal flu. If it was just them feeling so ill for such a long time and what it was.
I told people at work that there seemed to be a new strain/flu in the UK, we are usually a few months after you in things like this. Then covid was confirmed. Weird.

Wow

OneMintWasp · 23/04/2025 19:27

I had to take my toddler daughter to the GP surgery. We parked 200m from the surgery at a car park which was on the same side of the road as the doctors. So a simple walk down a wide pavement with barriers to get to the surgery door.

But the council had decided to make that deserted strip of pavement into a one way path which ran the opposite way to where i needed to go. There were no people there and no houses so I ignored it and began to walk down the empty pavement the wrong way (60 second walk with no risk of passing anyone). I was accosted by a passing police car who made me walk 500m in the opposite direction to the next pedestrian crossing and then cross 5 side roads with a toddler and baby in order to cross the A road again (in front lorries) just to walk back on my self in the permitted direction to get to the surgery door.

I was told I was risking peoples lives but he had no answer when I explained that the risk of my children being run over crossing a busy A road 5 times in 10 minutes was greater than us giving someone covid on an empty pavement (we had all just done covid tests prior to leaving the house).

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 19:27

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 19:26

Before Christmas and before covid I do remember reading on MN many posters asking people if anyone knew if there was an illness going around with a horrible cough and feeling unusually ill. It did not feel like a normal flu. If it was just them feeling so ill for such a long time and what it was.
I told people at work that there seemed to be a new strain/flu in the UK, we are usually a few months after you in things like this. Then covid was confirmed. Weird.

I knew someone who is adamant he had Covid in September 2019.

HunnyPot · 23/04/2025 19:27

I deliberately avoided MN during the pandemic. I can’t take the stupidity on here at the best of times let alone during a global pandemic

lunaemma · 23/04/2025 19:26

My old cat came strolling back in, exactly as the clapping started. Naturally being a cat he assumed it was for him and happily paraded around the garden for the next few months, craning his neck to see who was clapping Blush
he was gutted when it stopped

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 19:26

MaloryJones · 23/04/2025 19:24

lmaoo

I remember posts like these

I sent a friend a parcel to cheer her up. Paid for First Class postage, only for her to have it sat in "quarantine" in her garage for 3 days.
She would also bleach all the loose veg from the supermarket too.

UnstableMonkey · 23/04/2025 19:26

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 19:12

@UnstableMonkey I still think Sweden had the best mindset about it from the offset - mind you there’s a lot more space, a lot more , and to be frank (on the whole ) a population that to me actually choose to go along with experts and not take the piss

Before Christmas and before covid I do remember reading on MN many posters asking people if anyone knew if there was an illness going around with a horrible cough and feeling unusually ill. It did not feel like a normal flu. If it was just them feeling so ill for such a long time and what it was.
I told people at work that there seemed to be a new strain/flu in the UK, we are usually a few months after you in things like this. Then covid was confirmed. Weird.

Assssofspades · 23/04/2025 19:26

The washing of all food items in bleach (no, not just the packaging)

Minus100 · 23/04/2025 19:26

I remember the poor mum who took her children to spend the night in their summerhouse in their garden and someone called the police on them.

Mudkipper · 23/04/2025 19:26

"I've just tested positive so I'm off to the supermarket to do a massive shop before we start self-isolating."

MaloryJones · 23/04/2025 19:24

GRCP · 23/04/2025 18:19

I remember people thinking they could catch it through the post and quarantining their mail for 48 hours. Also a guy I know would wipe all of his groceries over with an antibacterial wipe before putting them away.

lmaoo

I remember posts like these

DazedAndConfused321 · 23/04/2025 19:24

There was a thread about shortages in shops i.e. what's low in stock in your area. I commented a couple of things including that easter eggs were selling really quickly and early and that my local shop limited it to 2 eggs per customer, but we had 4 children so I had to wait a week to get the other eggs- it wasn't a moan just a comment! I was told I was putting my children's need for frivolous chocolate over the health of the nation, my kids were greedy to expect 1 egg each, shouldn't be going to shops just for easter eggs (I wasn't), and that by doing so I was killing people etc etc.

Hobbes8 · 23/04/2025 19:24

BangersAndGnash · 23/04/2025 18:26

During The Great Flour Shortage there were MNers proudly claiming that using flour to make home made play dough was more important than it being available for people who needed to make bread. I remember being told to eat something really bizarre in place of bread (but frustratingly I can’t remember what)

Cake?

DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 19:23

TooBigForMyBoots · 23/04/2025 18:02

You can read the exact posts, as they happened, here @mumofoneAlonebutokay.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/coronavirus?page=888

Thanks for posting.
My evening is sorted going through these 🤣🤣

I like the title of this one.
They obviously thought no one would get covid because they live in The SouthEast 🤣🤣👏

Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw
IHateRain76 · 23/04/2025 19:23

GRCP · 23/04/2025 18:19

I remember people thinking they could catch it through the post and quarantining their mail for 48 hours. Also a guy I know would wipe all of his groceries over with an antibacterial wipe before putting them away.

Hospitals in my area Oxon, once patients were allowed visitors for an hour a week, took any items off them eg biscuits, chocolate, shaving cream and quarantined them for 48 to 72 hours. This was on non Covid wards

aster10 · 23/04/2025 19:23

BangersAndGnash · 23/04/2025 18:26

During The Great Flour Shortage there were MNers proudly claiming that using flour to make home made play dough was more important than it being available for people who needed to make bread. I remember being told to eat something really bizarre in place of bread (but frustratingly I can’t remember what)

Probably cake? 🪓

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