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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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Jimmyneutronsforehead · 23/04/2025 20:17

Itsonlybridget1 · 23/04/2025 18:52

My friend lived in Doncaster and travelled to Sheffield to work (he was an essential worker) he got pulled over twice on the parkway by the police asking him where he was going

I used to live just off the parkway and there was a ridiculous amount of police presence.

Hardly any when stabbings or other crimes were being committed in the same area, but a concentrated amount just for focusing on people who were trying to get to work or the the supermarket.

mrschocolatte · 23/04/2025 20:17

@PyongyangKipperbang I remember a few Sunday mornings, me and DH starting on Bloody Mary’s at 9.30am while doing1000 piece jigsaw puzzles. I was drunk a lot. No regrets though as it got me through it!

StClabberts · 23/04/2025 20:17

WestwardHo1 · 23/04/2025 20:11

There were plenty of posters who enjoyed stirring up negativity and fear. They were clearly telling outright lies.

NannyAndJohn I remember with particular loathing. Her message was constantly things like "This isn't going to get better, I'm afraid. Get used to a quiet life at home, because that's going to be all there is."

That phrase "I'm afraid" made me feel stabby.

Wasn't there someone who claimed they had 3 previously healthy young colleagues who'd died of it?

Rivypike · 23/04/2025 20:17

RosesAndHellebores · 23/04/2025 20:10

It was completely and utterly ridiculous. The pounding of chests and the tearing of hair.

Covid was new and unknown. It killed a very small number of people who were particularly vulnerable to it at the beginning. The numbers did not stack up to make it a plague which would kill a high proportion of any society. Most died with not from Covid. The percentage of those who died even with covid was infinitesimal.

The scientists who questioned the propaganda were silenced. Whitty and Vallance, imo, shoukd have been stripped of all honours. The fabric of society, particularly the abused, the poor, the ill housed was ripped up and the act of doing so was reprehensible.

The cashiers at the supermarket did not disappear. They carried on despite seeing vast numbers of members of the public. The evidence was before our eyes. I know three people who died with covid: a gentleman who was terminally ill, a very elderly gentleman who caught it in hospital having been admitted afyer his third stroke and a neighbour who was on end of life care. They all would have been dead within weeks if they hadn't caught covid. I do appreciate that a tiny number of fit and well people died and some got long covid. It was not, however, equivalent to a plague.

Every time I pointed out the statistics I was told I was a murderer and wholly wrong. Time will prove that the lockdowns and propaganda did more harm than good.

We kept to the rules but didn't agree with them. I still don't.

The hysteria on a site that values its intellect was absurd.

You know absolutely fuck all about Covid I’m afraid.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/04/2025 20:15

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 20:11

@PyongyangKipperbang to be frank if I was trying to work from home in a too small house with several ‘home schooled kids’ plus a partner also WFH ( and possibly getting on nerves) and worried elderly parents phoning to discuss it every day , then wine o clock would be pretty understandable in the circumstances.

Oh I quite agree. It wasnt the drinking that was the issue as far as I was concerned it, it was (as other have mentioned) the sanctimonious and smug who posted in disgust at those us hitting the wine out of desperation, boredom or both.

DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 20:14

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 20:11

Omggg 😄

Did I mention this was outside a church. !

Needless to say we ran out of popcorn

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Anewdawnanewname · 23/04/2025 20:12

I can’t remember where I read about people putting their groceries in the bath to wash the tins etc.

Not online, but I work in a school and had to hand out covid testing kits to our students. One parent returned them to me with a very rangy message that the cotton wool bud things that we had to stick up our noses were a concern for causing cancer, and that I was endangering students by sending the kits home.

interestedwhy · 23/04/2025 20:12

unevenwalls · 23/04/2025 20:09

Ha, I do remember the people whose husbands either worked or knew someone who worked very high up in government and had some kind of scaremongering insider.

anyone that did know anything would have been silent anyway

Mrsdyna · 23/04/2025 20:11

I was reading these and finding them funny but then the anger and hatred for my fellow man started coming back so I can't read any further 😤

WestwardHo1 · 23/04/2025 20:11

unevenwalls · 23/04/2025 20:09

Ha, I do remember the people whose husbands either worked or knew someone who worked very high up in government and had some kind of scaremongering insider.

There were plenty of posters who enjoyed stirring up negativity and fear. They were clearly telling outright lies.

NannyAndJohn I remember with particular loathing. Her message was constantly things like "This isn't going to get better, I'm afraid. Get used to a quiet life at home, because that's going to be all there is."

That phrase "I'm afraid" made me feel stabby.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 20:11

DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 20:00

@SlightlyJaded
we walked the dog round and found the garden. We didn’t go further afield at all because everyone decided the fields near us was the place to take their dogs.

Then there’s the cars turning up at all hours down our country lane. Parking incognito. Two cars. One gets out of car A, goes into car B. Car B starts rocking, bit steamy. Everyone gets back into their own cars and drive off. And repeat.

I know everyone local that’s into dogging and having affairs after Covid lockdowns 🤣🤣🤣.

Omggg 😄

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Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 20:11

@PyongyangKipperbang to be frank if I was trying to work from home in a too small house with several ‘home schooled kids’ plus a partner also WFH ( and possibly getting on nerves) and worried elderly parents phoning to discuss it every day , then wine o clock would be pretty understandable in the circumstances.

SpringingIntoSummerLobelia · 23/04/2025 20:11

Abra1t · 23/04/2025 20:08

I remember the thread about the poor mother whose adult daughter was having a breakdown in London. The father wanted to drive up and bring her home—this was just before lockdown was formally introduced. She was told that it was selfish because they might need to stop and use motorway service station loos and infect them.

I hope she followed her instinct.

Oh i remember that one. It was awful.

TheKeatingFive · 23/04/2025 20:10

JasmineAllen · 23/04/2025 20:09

N&J was either a complete lunatic or a Troll.

There was something very unsettling about that poster, as if she knew exactly what she was doing to people's state of mind - and was really enjoying it.

RosesAndHellebores · 23/04/2025 20:10

It was completely and utterly ridiculous. The pounding of chests and the tearing of hair.

Covid was new and unknown. It killed a very small number of people who were particularly vulnerable to it at the beginning. The numbers did not stack up to make it a plague which would kill a high proportion of any society. Most died with not from Covid. The percentage of those who died even with covid was infinitesimal.

The scientists who questioned the propaganda were silenced. Whitty and Vallance, imo, shoukd have been stripped of all honours. The fabric of society, particularly the abused, the poor, the ill housed was ripped up and the act of doing so was reprehensible.

The cashiers at the supermarket did not disappear. They carried on despite seeing vast numbers of members of the public. The evidence was before our eyes. I know three people who died with covid: a gentleman who was terminally ill, a very elderly gentleman who caught it in hospital having been admitted afyer his third stroke and a neighbour who was on end of life care. They all would have been dead within weeks if they hadn't caught covid. I do appreciate that a tiny number of fit and well people died and some got long covid. It was not, however, equivalent to a plague.

Every time I pointed out the statistics I was told I was a murderer and wholly wrong. Time will prove that the lockdowns and propaganda did more harm than good.

We kept to the rules but didn't agree with them. I still don't.

The hysteria on a site that values its intellect was absurd.

mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 20:10

SlightlyJaded · 23/04/2025 20:00

Facebook covered in sanctimonious posts of people's profile pictures in a digital NHS rainbow frame with the words I'm Staying Home.

Fucking Hell. Smug as well as complicit.

ps. I did this.

I was reading feeling awkward, I did this too 😅

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SeaSwim5 · 23/04/2025 20:09

The uproar around nurseries remaining open in January 2021 was also bonkers. The media were breathlessly salivating that under 5s mixing was going to result in millions of deaths.

Starmer campaigned to get them closed.

JasmineAllen · 23/04/2025 20:09

bookworm14 · 23/04/2025 20:04

I do find it interesting that all the most hysterical pro-lockdown posters (NannyandJohn, Hooves, PrincessNutNuts et al) have since vanished entirely. Although NandJ did briefly show up again during the Monkeypox panic.

N&J was either a complete lunatic or a Troll.

unevenwalls · 23/04/2025 20:09

Ha, I do remember the people whose husbands either worked or knew someone who worked very high up in government and had some kind of scaremongering insider.

bookworm14 · 23/04/2025 20:09

Thing is, we DIDN’T know

We did know a lot fairly early on, though. We knew who was at most risk and who wasn’t. We also knew that outdoor spread was very limited. In light of that, it’s indefensible that children’s lives were restricted so severely and for so long.

cramptramp · 23/04/2025 20:08

I thought the vast majority of it was absolutely mental at the time. I could have worked from home but chose not to and I quietly broke lots of rules. Reading some of these is making me cross all over again.

Abra1t · 23/04/2025 20:08

I remember the thread about the poor mother whose adult daughter was having a breakdown in London. The father wanted to drive up and bring her home—this was just before lockdown was formally introduced. She was told that it was selfish because they might need to stop and use motorway service station loos and infect them.

I hope she followed her instinct.

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 20:07

@StClabberts I confess that we took to actually having an every 2 week delivery from majestic

XenoBitch · 23/04/2025 20:06

StClabberts · 23/04/2025 20:05

I remember some incredibly smug and ignorant posts complaining about continued availability of alcohol and off licences. Also B and M!

The people concerned clearly had no idea that quick alcohol detox can be life threatening and that some people's only shop in walking distance is an offy that sells basic groceries too. Or that B and M sells a looooot of cheap food.

My local big Tesco would force people to queue to get in, and queue again inside... starting in the alcohol aisle.

PyongyangKipperbang · 23/04/2025 20:06

The main thing I remember from lockdown was how pissed everyone was, me included. I posted my espresso martini recipe, with iirc, the suggestion to drink it lying on the lounge floor as that where you will end up anyway.

Seemed that the crazy got crazier the more alcohol had been consumed. Wine oclock got earlier and earlier and the words "Fuck it, got the wine out, nothing else to do" seemed to be common. It also increased the sneering about people who cant cope without a drink or suggesting that someone who had a glass of wine at 5pm was a problem drinker.