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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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DrPrunesqualer · 23/04/2025 23:06

Papercup · 23/04/2025 22:42

DS and I watched an old lady physically attack a young woman on Clapham Common for jogging past her too closely.

We were sat on a park bench (risking getting caught by the police but after a tough morning of homeschooling, what did we care), old lady toddling along when young female jogger jogged past. Old lady went berserk, chased her down and hit her across the back of the head! Young woman stopped, shocked. They both started shouting then old lady started pushing and hitting young one some more. It was mental. People were just standing, watching. Keeping to the 2m rule.

Young woman called police from her mobile and old lady scarpered. Next thing we knew, a riot van was steaming across the common and 6 police officers jumped out. 2 went running off after the old lady, the rest taking statements from all us bystanders. Old lady got taken off in the van.

I was sitting there the whole time wondering what sort of dystopian world I was now living in!

Blimey I’m amazed that didn’t make the papers 🤣

MorrisseysMisery · 23/04/2025 23:04

Catrionablocke · 23/04/2025 18:22

My friend is an experienced nurse but works in theatre on elective surgery which was all cancelled so volunteered to work on a covid ward. She mentioned on FB that someone got too close to her in the supermarket and one of her FB "friends" went on a rant about how she shouldn't be going to the supermarket and spreading covid and how she should be ashamed of herself! My friend lives alone so how was she supposed to eat if she couldn't go shopping? Also she had 2 showers before leaving hospital so was probably more sterile than the mad friend

My sister became obsessed with covid. She still wears masks and embarrassingly enough shrieks at people for coughing, even now to this day.
She's no longer speaking to her nephew, DM, me, and certain colleagues as they've refused to pander to her requests to wear PPE in her presence.
Covid has really really affected her mental health and I fear she will not recover.
She sits in establishments like cafes and say, Wetherspoons scowling at people and muttering "Why are we not still masking up, why don't people understand there is still danger!?"
It's caused extreme health anxiety in her and she's just not the same anymore.
She's an intelligent lady with a very responsible job, qualifications and a good work record.
She's hopelessly obsessed at this point.

Crikeyalmighty · 23/04/2025 23:03

@Idontjetwashthefucker lady across the road - woman on her own probably late 60s , very glam - stopping me coming out onto the pavement and asking ‘why are both not out clapping - ‘

Aichek · 23/04/2025 22:56

I think I've actually got PTSD from how batshit people behaved. I find that far more frightening than another virus.

But yes we were also murderers for sending the kids back to school and nursery as soon as humanly possible. Even though we were essential occupations, needed on site and one of the kids has SN and was impossible to home school.

Banana34 · 23/04/2025 22:55

People who moaned about having to wear a facemask in public. Try working in a hospital throughout Covid and the PPE we had to use…

sofasoda · 23/04/2025 22:52

@OFHelp that's the part I thought was unbelievable. Who would abandon their dc ffs! The fact parents couldn't be with dying children in hospital is disgusting

MrsRuthFisher · 23/04/2025 22:50

My dss was with us for contact time when the first lockdown happened, and he stayed with us for a couple of weeks, until they decided the rules for kids between families.

One day I sent him and my da to the shop with a list - they got stopped by the police and had to provide the shopping list to the officers 🙄

OFHelp · 23/04/2025 22:46

I didn't post this at the time but reading all of these has just reminded me of when my ds who would have been 6 at the time had covid during the fairly early stages of the pandemic. We couldn't get his temperature down so rang 111 for advice and they told me to isolate from him within our own home!!. Literally put him in his bedroom with the window on the latch and the door closed and only go into him if it was absolutely essential and an emergency. I kept on repeating to the person on the phone that he was only 6 years old and actually very poorly and I refused to even consider their ridiculous suggestion. The operator said they had noted my objections on their system and would have to escalate as I was refusing to follow covid guidelines and i was a risk to myself and society!!! In the end I hung up on them. I received a few calls from an unknown number over the following days which I didn't answer and I can only assume was a a follow up to my phone call to check whether I was isolating from him. You honestly couldn't make it up!

sofasoda · 23/04/2025 22:46

Didn't someone moan on here about cucumbers not being essential?

Papercup · 23/04/2025 22:44

JenniferBooth · 23/04/2025 22:33

Their behaviour during the vigil for Sarah Everard

We were there. It was fucking appalling.

sofasoda · 23/04/2025 22:43

The ones who knew who it was coming 4 years prior 🤔

All the comments along the lines of "I'm driving to work, the roads are choca, don't people realise we are in lockdown" etc

People who said you shouldn't have
had dc if you didn't like working & homeschooling.

Someone said they couldn't sit in their garden because a neighbour was coughing.

I didn't realise how stupid most of the population was until covid...

Papercup · 23/04/2025 22:42

DS and I watched an old lady physically attack a young woman on Clapham Common for jogging past her too closely.

We were sat on a park bench (risking getting caught by the police but after a tough morning of homeschooling, what did we care), old lady toddling along when young female jogger jogged past. Old lady went berserk, chased her down and hit her across the back of the head! Young woman stopped, shocked. They both started shouting then old lady started pushing and hitting young one some more. It was mental. People were just standing, watching. Keeping to the 2m rule.

Young woman called police from her mobile and old lady scarpered. Next thing we knew, a riot van was steaming across the common and 6 police officers jumped out. 2 went running off after the old lady, the rest taking statements from all us bystanders. Old lady got taken off in the van.

I was sitting there the whole time wondering what sort of dystopian world I was now living in!

Gardenbumblebee · 23/04/2025 22:39

This wasn't on mumsnet but a local man had a 2m long stick that he would take out on walks with him. If you came close he would wield the stick at you to keep you at bay.

ChocHotolate · 23/04/2025 22:38

I just remember the complete lack of empathy (kind of normal from some I guess).
The fact that one MNer maybe able to WFH or enjoy furlough whilst the kids received home schooling and could play in the garden meant that anyone stuck in a God forsaken tower block or inner city dump with no green visible anywhere and no devices for the kids were perceived as some to be equal in lockdown

FrangipaniBlue · 23/04/2025 22:38

SnoozingFox · 23/04/2025 18:14

It was all the bile thrown at those of us who questioned whether you were actually going to murder a granny by sitting on a bench with a packet of crisps. All the posters who were so horrible to people who broke their own version of the "roolz" by going out too long, or too often, or buying what some posters considered non-essentials.

People being told that they absolutely could not go to deal with a parent with dementia, or teenager isolated in uni halls, or any other sort of emergency because "what part of stay at home don't you understand"?

Some people were frightened and I get that. A large percentage though just revelled in being completely nasty and vile to other posters, patronising and mocking them, refusing to believe that they were actually exempt from wearing a mask or whatever and being backed up on threads by their fellow dementors.

I'd like to think that 5 years on they look back and think that actually they were pretty mean and awful. But I don't think they do.

I had forgotten about the anti-dementor threads - bloody loved those!!!!!

JenniferBooth · 23/04/2025 22:35

YES i remember the PO who told a man he wasnt allowed in his own front garden

Birdwordie · 23/04/2025 22:34

Not a thread but I worked in my local hospital during the pandemic in the scorching heat I think it was May, no air con or fans due to possible 'blowing' round the infection and windows that opened with the smallest gap it was an absolute killer. I was working on a dementia bay, one who tested positive so they had to 'close' the bay and patients could not leave. 12 hours on my own of creating entertainment for patients going stir crazy in the dripping heat was something else!😂 poor buggers

JenniferBooth · 23/04/2025 22:33

JandamiHash · 23/04/2025 22:31

Police forces owe the general public a huge apology for allowing their officers to be such controlling wankers. I remember the video where a police officer was telling people they weren’t allowed in their front garden shouting “1000 people died yesterday!!”

Their behaviour during the vigil for Sarah Everard

JandamiHash · 23/04/2025 22:31

CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 18:54

The maddest thing I saw was the police in Sainsburys car park at 8am the first day of lock down searching people’s bags to see if their shopping was essential or not.

Police forces owe the general public a huge apology for allowing their officers to be such controlling wankers. I remember the video where a police officer was telling people they weren’t allowed in their front garden shouting “1000 people died yesterday!!”

JenniferBooth · 23/04/2025 22:31

Silversixpenny · 23/04/2025 22:27

It meant I knew when 8pm on a Thursday was every week.

We certainly knew it The neighbours were blasting Michael Jacksons Heal The World at full volume at 8pm every Thursday

mindingmyown37 · 23/04/2025 22:30

People just lost thier heads a bit I think, media didn’t help. Yes it was diabolical, I know people that were hospitalised because of it. Some of the comments I saw on socials was crazy. I didn’t join mumsnet until end of 20 if I remember rightly. One thing that puzzled me was people only buying hand sanitizer or talking about washing thier hands because of Covid… I’ve been carrying hand sanitizer since I was about 16, washing my hand as you should… it was like a revelation to wash your hands all of a sudden 🤭

bookworm14 · 23/04/2025 22:28

The AD threads (and subsequent spin off group) kept me sane.

Silversixpenny · 23/04/2025 22:27

Lascivious · 23/04/2025 19:35

I had enough lunacy in rl to remember it on MN. I had a friend who was wiping down her post and putting it in the garage for some sort of quarantine 😂 She was also stripping off in the hall and washing her clothes before she entered the rest of the house.

She was out weekly clapping too. I’ll admit I thought this was the cringiest, sheepiest thing anyone did.

It meant I knew when 8pm on a Thursday was every week.

Changedusernameforthis2 · 23/04/2025 22:27

I have a friend who is in the NHS and he told me to prep about 4 weeks before as he could see it coming.
I shared this with a couple of people and they really mocked me. I didn't listen and went to the supermarket each day and filled my car boot with essentials. I wasn't stupid and never took loads of any one thing but I felt very smug when DH (one of the mockers) saw how I had prepped

Wimbledonmum1985 · 23/04/2025 22:27

I remember seeing benches on Wimbledon Common with tape around them preventing people using them. And then, a little later, the same benches covered with stickers warning the unsuspecting public that said benches had not been disinfected.

I still remember the clapping. I am mortified.

In fact, I never went as far as some of the die hards described here - and definitely broke some of the rules - but I was definitely harsh on people and judged a lot.

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