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Mumsnet during the beginning of the Pandemic - please tell me your stories of the maddest comments you saw

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mumofoneAlonebutokay · 23/04/2025 17:49

Inspired by chat on another thread - one woman was told not to pop to the shop for milk but to put butter in her coffee instead 😄

I wasn't on mumsnet then but would love to know the maddest comments you saw?

I myself went mad during the pandemic 🙈 and refused to leave the house and judged anybody that did, I'll admit 😬😄 - I wish I'd been calmer

Please share 🥰

Edit - I know how awful the pandemic was for those who lost loved ones, and how serious those losses are - this is just about the unnecessary hysteria and comments stemming from that, not to poke fun at those who lost someone or became ill. 💕

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Jadebanditchillipepper · 24/04/2025 00:05

Oh yes, and the Welsh Government also decided to have a lockdown for Christmas 2020 and announced it six hours before it started - suddenly, absolute hordes of people descended on every available shop to get supplies in for Christmas before they couldn't anymore - more than likely massively increasing transmission rather than reducing it!

And Boris, in his wisdom had English children going back to school for one day in January before closing schools again

MrsFrumble · 24/04/2025 00:03

Here you go @Jadebanditchillipepper !
One of my favourites too. The kids must be quite grown up now; I wonder how they feel about their “moment of fame”?

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countingthedays945 · 24/04/2025 00:02

I immediately got switched to working from home and running online courses in my university job. My husband ( also in his 50s) was told he had to keep teaching face to face with no PPE in a pupil referral unit where kids didn’t observe any behaviour control. Ludicrous and a death sentence for SEN teachers! I’m still angry about it.

Jadebanditchillipepper · 23/04/2025 23:57

The Welsh Government, who in their wisdom, decided that supermarkets could only sell "essential items" because it wasn't fair on other shops who weren't allowed to open.

Cue one Tesco removing access to the aisle that had the sanitary products and me, ordering knickers online and making a delivery driver deliver them, when I could have picked them up in the supermarket when I was there anyway buying food!

Slightly more amusing moments were the business men and women wearing smart shirts/ties/blouses on their top halves for teams etc meetings, whilst wearing Pyjama bottoms with fluffy socks and slippers on their bottom halves and also that hilarious clip of some high up person on a teams call, when his two toddlers who were also at home decided to go and visit Daddy at work! Then their Mum comes in and tries to shepherd them out while apologising for the interruption.

PandoraSoxx · 23/04/2025 23:54

@MrsFrumble I think I remember that poster who told you to carry a fortnight's worth of food.

It was mad.

MrsFrumble · 23/04/2025 23:38

😂😂😂 at “Fuck off Brian!”

An advantage of living in London, with all the aloofness and not knowing your neighbours, was that no one gave a shit who was clapping.

Confusedformer · 23/04/2025 23:38

Just….all the teachers who accused us of murderous thoughts if we dared to suggest that our children needed to go to school

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 23/04/2025 23:36

I used disinfectant wipes on all my shopping when I unpacked it

dontpunchtheplasticgorilla · 23/04/2025 23:35

Leaving out the more serious stuff because quite frankly it still traumatises me now. Having a child with complex SEND and absolutely bog all support during covid has left me with long term health issues.

On a more lighthearted note:

Fucking Joe Wicks. Sorry kids I subjected you to that. Niiiiiiiiicky, shaaaaaaaaaaaut awwwwwwwts

One of the neighbours on the street self appointed himself as some kind of covid monitor. And would post on the local FB page stuff like 'number xxx', I didn't see you clapping tonight. Someone posted underneath one of his posts 'fuck off Brian'- I never did find out who it was but what an absolute legend. His wife also had stickers all over her car with stuff like 'carer on call' and various other cutesy phrases. Strangely enough they've gone very quiet. Mainly because they managed to piss off pretty much everyone and the whole street hates them.

Moneyshmoney · 23/04/2025 23:33

GRCP · 23/04/2025 18:19

I remember people thinking they could catch it through the post and quarantining their mail for 48 hours. Also a guy I know would wipe all of his groceries over with an antibacterial wipe before putting them away.

Woman in my road had the front of her house covered in posters telling delivery people to go to side gate and leave shopping and parcels on tables provided. The front door would not be opened under any circumstances.
Every week she spent two hours cleaning her Tesco shop before taking it in the house. She didn’t quite wear a hazmat suit to do it but came pretty close. She thought I was very lax.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 23/04/2025 23:32

Dinosaurshoebox · 23/04/2025 17:51

I remember saying that DH and I wouldn't stop working in Hospitality (this is before furlough was announced) and I was accused of murdering people.

I asked how we would pay our bills and the answer was that lives were more important.

This went around and around.

In the end we had 2 (on and off) incredible years furloughed so I guess it all worked out.

So so jealous of people who were furloughed!

Ihateslugs · 23/04/2025 23:32

Megifer · 23/04/2025 18:22

I'm sure there was a poster who wiped her shopping down with bleach

I know someone who still does this!

AlteredStater · 23/04/2025 23:31

Quarantining your post for a week before it was safe to open it.

wizzbitt · 23/04/2025 23:30

I remember having a sleepless night because I had to go to a shop the next day to collect essentials. And while we’re on that subject of good shopping - disinfecting groceries!

newrubylane · 23/04/2025 23:30

WooleyMunky · 23/04/2025 18:31

Brioche..?

This post does not appear to have got the appreciation it deserves. Hats off to you @WooleyMunky- or maybe off with my head? 😆

MistressoftheDarkSide · 23/04/2025 23:30

Oh masks were surreal. I started wearing one because of visiting and caring for my Mum in the very beginning. My DS then 25, scoffed and ridiculed me, which I shrugged off with some good humour and just referred to it as my tiny security blanket. Had some doubts as to efficacy but hey, I was hedging my bets.

Few months down the line and I was beginning to really question mandatory masks etc, and my DS did a complete 180 and became pretty militant about wearing them at all times. I was like, who are you and what have you done with my non-conformist boy child.

An awful lot of my rule following was based not on the possible health related consequences, but more the fear of criminalisation and fines.

Incidentally I think it was several days at least into lockdown that our local rag headlined the first few cases of Covid in local hospitals.

Auroraloves · 23/04/2025 23:29

Actually I loved the family and friend zoom quizzes. There were some things I enjoyed about those times

MrsFrumble · 23/04/2025 23:27

I was an anti-dementor for a bit. I don’t remember the threads being explicitly political; there were some very vocal anti-lockdowners, but most - like me - just wanted a bit of a moan about how it was impacting our lives and our children without being accused of being selfish and wanting all CV people dead.

I get that everyone was scared at first. I remember reading a horrific account of a hospital in Italy during the first week of lockdown, which graphically described medics having to make awful decisions about who got the limited number of ventilators, and people foaming at the mouth as their lungs disintegrated. I sat on my bed and cried because I imagined DH or my children suffering like that. But as time went I was more struck by the solipsism and lack of empathy from people who couldn’t seem to grasp that people with different circumstances wouldn’t be able to follow “the rules” as stringently as the they could. Now it seems obvious that, as a family of 4 without a car and who weren’t eligible for deliveries, we’d need to go shopping more often and no one had the right to judge that, but I still remember feeling self-conscious about it and trying to defend myself on here from a poster who insisted I should be able to carry a fortnights-worth of food if only I was stronger.

Instead of becoming more empathic, viewing everyone around us as potential vectors has done so much damage.

BollickyBill · 23/04/2025 23:24

A family friend refusing point blank to be vaxxed as it was the government's way of controlling us and knowing what our every move was. Same person very prolific on social media and would post about her whereabouts all the time. Ean to have the vaccine when told she wouldn't be able to travel without it.

JandamiHash · 23/04/2025 23:24

BobbyBiscuits · 23/04/2025 19:45

The clapping was the most stupid thing I've ever seen. People banging saucepans together on their doorsteps, miles away from any NHS worker or hospital? I lost it at one point as someone close to me was treated very very badly by the NHS (not to do with COVID) and shouted out 'Fuck the NHS!'

I can't believe I yelled it on my own doorstep while my neighbours clapped and looked at me in horror...

Weird times.

Some nobhead in our village tooted into a French horn every week AngryDS was 3 and he’d wake up every single week and it was like be so hard to get him back to sleep - keeping him awake made him overtired. It was just a pissing contest and really put me off a lot of people in our village tooted into- especially when they would shame those of us who didn’t clap on the Facebook group.

Duckiess · 23/04/2025 23:23

Strictlymad · 23/04/2025 19:01

Hindsight is a wonderful thing and I’m yes I look back and smile at some of it. But at the time we had no idea how bad it was going to be, there were horror stories from Italy, perfectly healthy 20somwthings dropping dead, China refusing to give any info. Whilst I disagree with parts (parents separated from babies in nicu etc) I can see that the unknowns made it difficult if not impossible to plan correctly and to be cautious was wise til more was known. Imagine we had been blaze and the country was wiped out

Yes this. It’s easy to look back in hindsight.

I remember the tv footage of a man in China dropping down dead in the street and being carted away by people in hazmat suits being on repeat. And the daily death count was on the radio and tv. A couple of months into lockdown there were reports of children dying from a new strain.
Yes some people were probably over the top but it was fairly scary and surreal, especially in the early days

FleaBeeBob · 23/04/2025 23:22

We had to go back to work in a school in May 2020 and were told to face the wall when passing anyone in the corridor- we did not. We had to wear full PPE all day in the 30degree heat. Face mask and a visor, gloves and apron - it was crazy

JenniferBooth · 23/04/2025 23:17

Banana34 · 23/04/2025 22:55

People who moaned about having to wear a facemask in public. Try working in a hospital throughout Covid and the PPE we had to use…

People who objected to supermarket workers for moaning about wearing face masks when (unlike healthcare workers) they hadnt chosen a job that involved wearing them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Catrionablocke · 23/04/2025 23:15

MorrisseysMisery · 23/04/2025 23:04

My sister became obsessed with covid. She still wears masks and embarrassingly enough shrieks at people for coughing, even now to this day.
She's no longer speaking to her nephew, DM, me, and certain colleagues as they've refused to pander to her requests to wear PPE in her presence.
Covid has really really affected her mental health and I fear she will not recover.
She sits in establishments like cafes and say, Wetherspoons scowling at people and muttering "Why are we not still masking up, why don't people understand there is still danger!?"
It's caused extreme health anxiety in her and she's just not the same anymore.
She's an intelligent lady with a very responsible job, qualifications and a good work record.
She's hopelessly obsessed at this point.

That's so sad, it's no way to live, is it?

CamillaMacauley · 23/04/2025 23:06

I got my dog groomed all the way through lockdown, every 7 weeks. Found a groomer who facilitated distanced handovers. So ddog went into the garden kennel compound and I left, groomer got the dog and did the grooming and dog was put back in the compound and I picked up. I never actually met or even saw the groomer. Still didn’t dare confess this on here as I knew I’d be ripped a new arsehole. Grooming was allowed for welfare purposes so i decided it was welfare purposes. She knots easily 🤷‍♀️😁

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