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Discussion about Jesus’s death which now encompasses creationism and the second coming. Thread 2

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ZoggyStirdust · 23/04/2025 16:00

Continues from here if anyone wants to

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5318577-to-not-understand-why-christians-think-jesus-died-for-our-sins?page=40&reply=143772264

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KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 12:16

Parker231 · 25/04/2025 08:44

I can’t think of any examples where god has done things in people’s best interest.

No wonder people don’t believe he exists

Would healing pain, disease or injury count in your view?

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 12:09

anytipswelcome · 25/04/2025 11:44

@KeepHopeful

I find it quite offensive that someone would think my scars need to be removed for me to be an ‘improved’ version of myself.

I would hope a kind and loving god wouldn’t be so focused on looks.

Surely he would just create a heaven where looks don’t matter as nobody is judgmental, rather than ‘improving’ people’s looks.

Why would he need to do that in your opinion? What would the motivation or benefit be in a heaven full of good people, free of judgment and ‘sin’?

My understanding is that people accepted in Heaven are given new bodies which are replicas of their old ones but without sickness, injury or damage. I don't think they are otherwise improved in an artificial sort of way.

Man/humankind was intended to live by feeling, giving and receiving love. People wanting to achieve that can only do so completely with Jesus's help. Everybody is invited. Nobody who doesn't want that is forced into it.

(My impression, not a precise interpretation of the Bible).

SorcererGaheris · 25/04/2025 11:53

BunnyLake · 24/04/2025 13:18

I really don't like the sound of your god. Sounds very unpleasant. Could you explain why unwavering adoration, worship and faith in god is so very very important to him?

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@BunnyLake

While I do believe the Christian God exists, as a polytheist, I see him as one of many, and I have no interest in engaging with or worshipping him. Other deities have grabbed my interest.

This is one of the things that I find agreeable about pagan polytheism. First it's the theistic inclusivity (while there may be particular deities/pantheons that we attach ourselves to, polytheism sees no limit to the number of gods/goddesses, so we don't deny the existence of others, the way monotheists do.)

Secondly, there is no demand or order to worship the gods in pagan polytheism. People can believe they exist, but choose not to worship, honour or engage with any at all. Engaging and venerating the deities is - almost always - a personal choice, rather than a requirement. (I say almost always, because there have been accounts from some contemporary pagan polytheists of a deities making themselves present to them and pretty much insisting on some kind of engagement, but those circumstances are very few and far between.)

If pagan polytheism, there is also no punishment for those who either ignore or do not believe in the deities.

anytipswelcome · 25/04/2025 11:44

@KeepHopeful

I find it quite offensive that someone would think my scars need to be removed for me to be an ‘improved’ version of myself.

I would hope a kind and loving god wouldn’t be so focused on looks.

Surely he would just create a heaven where looks don’t matter as nobody is judgmental, rather than ‘improving’ people’s looks.

Why would he need to do that in your opinion? What would the motivation or benefit be in a heaven full of good people, free of judgment and ‘sin’?

Tryingtokeepgoing · 25/04/2025 11:32

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 11:30

Seems heaven even has its beauty standards.

Destined to be judged for eternity… It is like mumsnet 🤣

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 11:30

Puzzled4 · 25/04/2025 11:00

A lot of people don’t have a problem with their scars and blemishes. These things are often symbolic of things that they have experienced and had to over come. Also, why is being seen to be young the perceived best version of our selves? I am middle aged now, with many, many flaws, but I am still a much better version of myself at this age. It would be maddening to remain in this youthful state, in perpetuity. Is there any further kind of soul and spirit evolution?

Seems heaven even has its beauty standards.

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 11:28

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 10:32

Tbf, recent Catholic teaching from the Vatican has said cremation is an option, purely due to lack of space in cemeteries!

Love how the goalposts change in religion.😆

Puzzled4 · 25/04/2025 11:00

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 00:50

At our best. Recognisable as ourselves but without blemishes like scars or skin conditions. Without disease. I would guess we'll look like an improved version of ourselves as young adults, but that's only a guess.

https://www.gotquestions.org/look-like-in-Heaven.html

A lot of people don’t have a problem with their scars and blemishes. These things are often symbolic of things that they have experienced and had to over come. Also, why is being seen to be young the perceived best version of our selves? I am middle aged now, with many, many flaws, but I am still a much better version of myself at this age. It would be maddening to remain in this youthful state, in perpetuity. Is there any further kind of soul and spirit evolution?

Tryingtokeepgoing · 25/04/2025 10:49

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 10:32

Tbf, recent Catholic teaching from the Vatican has said cremation is an option, purely due to lack of space in cemeteries!

About 80% of the deceased are cremated in the UK nowadays, so at least heaven shouldn’t be too crowded :)

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 10:32

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 10:32

All my deceased catholic family members were cremated, even the most religious one.

Tbf, recent Catholic teaching from the Vatican has said cremation is an option, purely due to lack of space in cemeteries!

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 10:32

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 10:24

Catholics don't agree with cremation as they believe you need your physical body. Protestants believe it's only your soul, so cremation is fine.

All my deceased catholic family members were cremated, even the most religious one.

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 10:24

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 10:23

But what if we’ve been cremated?

I don’t really want to look like myself if I’ve got to have it for eternity. I want to look like my idea of perfection and it’s not me. Even when younger, slimmer and prettier that isn’t good enough for me for eternity.

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Catholics don't agree with cremation as they believe you need your physical body. Protestants believe it's only your soul, so cremation is fine.

BunnyLake · 25/04/2025 10:23

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 00:50

At our best. Recognisable as ourselves but without blemishes like scars or skin conditions. Without disease. I would guess we'll look like an improved version of ourselves as young adults, but that's only a guess.

https://www.gotquestions.org/look-like-in-Heaven.html

But what if we’ve been cremated?

I don’t really want to look like myself if I’ve got to have it for eternity. I want to look like my idea of perfection and it’s not me. Even when younger, slimmer and prettier that isn’t good enough for me for eternity.

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 09:03

anytipswelcome · 25/04/2025 08:45

I know you answered me previously, I was asking that poster their personal thoughts on it.

Sorry! I was catching up and saw your question :)

anytipswelcome · 25/04/2025 08:50

And it’s not that I don’t find the theological answer ‘acceptable’ as such, I am not so uneducated that I don’t understand the concept of ‘we just don’t know’.

I am interested in how an individual can simultaneously confidently say god is omnipotent, is capable of answering prayers, is kind and loving AND refuses to answer the prayers specifically of a child victim of rape desperately begging him for help.

There’s a logical fallacy and cognitive dissonance required that to me falls outside of ‘just’ faith as it requires such a huge leap.

He can, but he doesn’t want to. I could not describe such an entity as kind and loving so I’m interested in how people who do justify it individually.

I find it fascinating, especially as someone who grew up in the church but never believed for reasons like that.

anytipswelcome · 25/04/2025 08:45

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 08:31

I have answered this question, multiple times! But as I have said before, atheists don't find the answer acceptable - we cannot understand the decisions that God makes.

To us, they may seem arbitrary or even cruel, as in your example. Our place as humans isn't to try and understand why God makes these decisions, simply to believe that he has our best interests at heart even if we don't fully understand it at the time.

I'm not saying its the right or wrong way to think, but it's the theologically accepted answer for billions of religious believers the world over.

I know you answered me previously, I was asking that poster their personal thoughts on it.

Parker231 · 25/04/2025 08:44

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 08:31

I have answered this question, multiple times! But as I have said before, atheists don't find the answer acceptable - we cannot understand the decisions that God makes.

To us, they may seem arbitrary or even cruel, as in your example. Our place as humans isn't to try and understand why God makes these decisions, simply to believe that he has our best interests at heart even if we don't fully understand it at the time.

I'm not saying its the right or wrong way to think, but it's the theologically accepted answer for billions of religious believers the world over.

I can’t think of any examples where god has done things in people’s best interest.

No wonder people don’t believe he exists

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 08:34

MistressoftheDarkSide · 24/04/2025 22:31

It strikes me as ironic that other writings exist that were excluded from the Bible, such as the gospel of Thomas and apparently even a bit of Mary Magdalenes musings have been recovered. What makes the ones included in the New Testament better than the others, or more "authentic" aside from the preference of those who chose them?

Also, all this stuff about men and women that overlooks Lilith in favour of the fallen trad wife? Never mind apples, religious cherry picking is quite dizzying....

This has a simple answer - the early Church Fathers didn't want to include them. There are many reasons why; the Gospel of Thomas isn't a narrative, like the 4 Gospels included in the canon. It's just a list of things Jesus said and they thought people would find it boring!

The Gospel of Mary Magdalene has never been found completed, so they didn't want to include it as they didn't have all the pieces.

The 4 Gospels mostly back each other up, or fill in gaps for each other. The ones that were missed out were outliers/anomalies, so were missed out.

The Biblical Canon was created by humans, who are fallible - it's highly possible (and likely) that there are mistakes.

HonestAquaMember · 25/04/2025 08:31

anytipswelcome · 24/04/2025 17:15

You believe he does answer some prayers, don’t you?

So if he is capable of doing so then why does he answer some but not those of thousands of religious children every year who pray to god (who they wholeheartedly believe in) to stop the sexual abuse they are being subjected to?

Why does allowing the free will of the person raping the child take priority over the prayers of the child, if god is omnipotent and does answer some prayers?

It’s a genuine questions as nobody has actually answered this on here I don’t think.

I have answered this question, multiple times! But as I have said before, atheists don't find the answer acceptable - we cannot understand the decisions that God makes.

To us, they may seem arbitrary or even cruel, as in your example. Our place as humans isn't to try and understand why God makes these decisions, simply to believe that he has our best interests at heart even if we don't fully understand it at the time.

I'm not saying its the right or wrong way to think, but it's the theologically accepted answer for billions of religious believers the world over.

Parker231 · 25/04/2025 07:09

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 01:07

Yes it applies to me like everyone else. I believe Jesus when He says

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me".

I have seen and heard enough to know that God is the one real God. No other supernatural being could do what He does.

I’m sure other religions would say their god is the only real god.

Puzzled4 · 25/04/2025 05:56

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 01:07

Yes it applies to me like everyone else. I believe Jesus when He says

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me".

I have seen and heard enough to know that God is the one real God. No other supernatural being could do what He does.

But what has “he” done?

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 01:07

Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/04/2025 22:09

Isn’t that also the case for you though? And what if there is a good, but out of all the gods and religions to chose you’ve chosen the wrong one and the true one is one of the others? Because surely you don’t think every believer of every other religion is going to end up in your version of heaven?

Yes it applies to me like everyone else. I believe Jesus when He says

“I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me".

I have seen and heard enough to know that God is the one real God. No other supernatural being could do what He does.

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 00:56

Tryingtokeepgoing · 24/04/2025 22:36

To be fair, the vicars I know are the biggest gossips of them all!!

Most of my church experience is free church, so I have known vicars but not that well. I hope they know when to stop. 😁

KeepHopeful · 25/04/2025 00:50

BunnyLake · 24/04/2025 22:58

What will we look like in this new life?

At our best. Recognisable as ourselves but without blemishes like scars or skin conditions. Without disease. I would guess we'll look like an improved version of ourselves as young adults, but that's only a guess.

https://www.gotquestions.org/look-like-in-Heaven.html

What will we look like in heaven? | GotQuestions.org

What will we look like in heaven? Will we look the same in heaven as we currently do on earth?

https://www.gotquestions.org/look-like-in-Heaven.html

Uricon2 · 25/04/2025 00:10

Parker231 · 24/04/2025 20:54

Being a decent human being isn’t the prerogative of those who believe. There are good Christians and bad atheists and vice versa.

I think that I said that. It is certainly what I believe.

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