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Discussion about Jesus’s death which now encompasses creationism and the second coming. Thread 2

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ZoggyStirdust · 23/04/2025 16:00

Continues from here if anyone wants to

www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5318577-to-not-understand-why-christians-think-jesus-died-for-our-sins?page=40&reply=143772264

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Parker231 · 26/04/2025 17:28

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 14:12

In that case, all you need do to get a place in Heaven is believe and accept it. Is that a great sacrifice?

Why would I believe in something which doesn’t exist. As I don’t believe heaven or hell exist, I know I have nothing to worry about.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 17:27

SorcererGaheris · 26/04/2025 17:19

@MistressoftheDarkSide

I believe in the existence of 'demons' but that's as an occultist and witch, and demons are see in a very different light in the occult/witchcraft subcultures. Demons are seen as spiritual entities that can be worked with and called upon to assist with our spells/rituals and to bestow gifts/desires upon us.

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I think we may be cut from similar cloth 😘

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 17:23

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 17:14

Another genuine question @KeepHopefulas you’ve spoken about god forgiving all sins and that accepting Jesus and god redeems you.

If a man joined your church who was a convicted peadophile but has since accepted Jesus and therefore been ‘forgiven’ in his eyes, and your priest asked you to be kind and welcoming to him, to say a cheery hello and chat with your family and children at services so he didn’t feel unwanted by the congregation… would you say “yes, absolutely?” or would you say you feel uncomfortable doing so? What if your priest asked you to host the man in your home on a religious holiday so he wasn’t alone? Would you do so? I’m always curious as to whether people who speak of forgiveness and acceptance would follow through on things like this if asked to by their church leaders.

It would be wise to be seen to avoid putting that man in situations where there might be suspicion or temptation.

A convicted thief might repent, but probably not good to trust him with counting the offering or doing the bank run

Tryingtokeepgoing · 26/04/2025 17:21

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:47

God is a supernatural God by definition - He made the world and us. He raised people from the dead. You get the idea - His powers are greater than those we are used to. Heaven is supernatural, it does not work solely by natural earthly principles.

Think how chaotic it would be if anyone could exercise supernatural powers here, for good or evil.

I believe the spirit enters the body at the moment of conception. The Bible says God knew us from before the world was made, so He made our spirits a very long time ago.

If you want to know more, look up some of these names on the Web and on YouTube -

James Maloney
Ian Andrews
Andrew Wommack
John Bevere
Steven Furtick
Bill Johnson at iBethel Church
Joseph Prince
Joyce Meyer

Visit some independent charismatic churches. You'll find them welcoming. It's hard to understand Christianity with its proper supernatural component without meeting people who believe and live it. They won't make you feel uncomfortable.

At the risk of going round in circles, there is plenty of incontrovertible evidence about how the earth was created, and it doesn’t include god. However, even if you don’t believe be the facts, how can you reconcile a Christian time line of just over 2,000 years with civilisations that have existed for thousands of years longer?

I can’t speak for all atheists and non believers, but I strongly suspect that most of them, like me, understand what Christianity is. The concept of Christianity is very simple. There’s not much to understand - the plot is pretty simple. We just don’t believe it. That doesn’t mean we don’t see its value to those who need validation or direction though. And we also see its dangers :)

SorcererGaheris · 26/04/2025 17:19

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 15:38

So you believe in demons? Not a JW by any chance are you? Or something of that ilk?

As for the witch hunts being driven by forces of evil I would love you to expand on that, because everything was done in the name of Jesus by fervent, Bible thumping believers. Or don't you want to talk about that because it disrupts the loving God narrative?

@MistressoftheDarkSide

I believe in the existence of 'demons' but that's as an occultist and witch, and demons are see in a very different light in the occult/witchcraft subcultures. Demons are seen as spiritual entities that can be worked with and called upon to assist with our spells/rituals and to bestow gifts/desires upon us.

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 17:14

Another genuine question @KeepHopefulas you’ve spoken about god forgiving all sins and that accepting Jesus and god redeems you.

If a man joined your church who was a convicted peadophile but has since accepted Jesus and therefore been ‘forgiven’ in his eyes, and your priest asked you to be kind and welcoming to him, to say a cheery hello and chat with your family and children at services so he didn’t feel unwanted by the congregation… would you say “yes, absolutely?” or would you say you feel uncomfortable doing so? What if your priest asked you to host the man in your home on a religious holiday so he wasn’t alone? Would you do so? I’m always curious as to whether people who speak of forgiveness and acceptance would follow through on things like this if asked to by their church leaders.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 17:12

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 17:01

I'm recommending listening to people who know far more than I do and who explain things much better. I can't improve on that.

So there is no tangible or recorded evidence?

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 17:10

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:50

In Heaven this is about the person they become, not the person they have been.

Ok but the hypothetical atheist I described who has been selfless, loving, caring and kind all their life still sounds like pretty good company to me even if they were to choose not to believe in Jesus / god. I don’t think that makes them become a ‘bad’ person deserving of suffering.

What does hell look like to you? Is it eternal pain and suffering? That’s a genuine question as I’m not sure of your belief on that front.

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 17:07

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:47

God is a supernatural God by definition - He made the world and us. He raised people from the dead. You get the idea - His powers are greater than those we are used to. Heaven is supernatural, it does not work solely by natural earthly principles.

Think how chaotic it would be if anyone could exercise supernatural powers here, for good or evil.

I believe the spirit enters the body at the moment of conception. The Bible says God knew us from before the world was made, so He made our spirits a very long time ago.

If you want to know more, look up some of these names on the Web and on YouTube -

James Maloney
Ian Andrews
Andrew Wommack
John Bevere
Steven Furtick
Bill Johnson at iBethel Church
Joseph Prince
Joyce Meyer

Visit some independent charismatic churches. You'll find them welcoming. It's hard to understand Christianity with its proper supernatural component without meeting people who believe and live it. They won't make you feel uncomfortable.

I’m confused. You say ‘think how chaotic it would be if anyone could exercise supernatural powers here, for good or for evil’ but also believe that god does exactly that? That’s what a miracle is, surely? You said you’ve seen him do amazing things (which must be supernatural as he doesn’t have a physical body on earth), so how can you also say the world would be chaos if someone used their supernatural powers?

If you believe in miracles, you believe god is using his supernatural powers. He just chooses not to sometimes, even for desperate believers in pain or suffering abuse. That’s why I couldn’t respect or worship him.

If he didn’t answer any prayers at all maybe I would feel differently about the logic believers follow. But to believe that he can and does answer some prayers, but would leave some believers in such horrific, intolerable, devastating situations… I simply cannot understand describing that god as all powerful and loving.

BunnyLake · 26/04/2025 17:05

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:17

Absolutely not JW! A Bible-believing charismatic Christian, so I believe in the spiritual gifts - including prophecy, healings, discernment of spirits, driving out evil spirits, miracles, tongues. So yes I know there are evil spirits aka demons.

I think one of the church's greatest errors has been believing that these ended with the Apostles. Clearly they did not because God still lets us use them, more so in recent years.
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-spiritual-gifts-understanding-the-types-and-discovering-yours.html

Re: witch hunts. People can be sincere but sincerely wrong. Doing something physical like seizing somebody and ducking or burning them "in the name of Jesus" does not demonstrate His authority or power. That was not doing God's work.

Not really sure what a charismatic Christian is (did a quick google) but can you explain what the difference in the life of one versus the difference in the life of an athiest. For argument’s sake we’ll say both people are very happily married, have healthy thriving children, well paid jobs and both are living content happy lives. I’m not talking about the afterlife, what is the difference in their earth life?

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 17:01

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 16:56

Please post one piece of evidence that verifies your claims.

I'm recommending listening to people who know far more than I do and who explain things much better. I can't improve on that.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 16:56

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:47

God is a supernatural God by definition - He made the world and us. He raised people from the dead. You get the idea - His powers are greater than those we are used to. Heaven is supernatural, it does not work solely by natural earthly principles.

Think how chaotic it would be if anyone could exercise supernatural powers here, for good or evil.

I believe the spirit enters the body at the moment of conception. The Bible says God knew us from before the world was made, so He made our spirits a very long time ago.

If you want to know more, look up some of these names on the Web and on YouTube -

James Maloney
Ian Andrews
Andrew Wommack
John Bevere
Steven Furtick
Bill Johnson at iBethel Church
Joseph Prince
Joyce Meyer

Visit some independent charismatic churches. You'll find them welcoming. It's hard to understand Christianity with its proper supernatural component without meeting people who believe and live it. They won't make you feel uncomfortable.

Please post one piece of evidence that verifies your claims.

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:50

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 16:27

I know which company I would prefer to be honest.

In Heaven this is about the person they become, not the person they have been.

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:47

God is a supernatural God by definition - He made the world and us. He raised people from the dead. You get the idea - His powers are greater than those we are used to. Heaven is supernatural, it does not work solely by natural earthly principles.

Think how chaotic it would be if anyone could exercise supernatural powers here, for good or evil.

I believe the spirit enters the body at the moment of conception. The Bible says God knew us from before the world was made, so He made our spirits a very long time ago.

If you want to know more, look up some of these names on the Web and on YouTube -

James Maloney
Ian Andrews
Andrew Wommack
John Bevere
Steven Furtick
Bill Johnson at iBethel Church
Joseph Prince
Joyce Meyer

Visit some independent charismatic churches. You'll find them welcoming. It's hard to understand Christianity with its proper supernatural component without meeting people who believe and live it. They won't make you feel uncomfortable.

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 16:33

pointythings · 26/04/2025 16:29

I'm sorry, but I just can't manage the mental gymnastics needed to think of a God who is unconditionally loving but who condemns those who choose not to worship him to his dumping ground just for not worshipping him. If a human parent demanded worship and unquestioning obedience in everything - no matter how irrational or unreasonable - and then slung the children out into the street for not complying, that parent would face serious consequences. And yet because an entity claims to be God, they get a pass? Nope. If God can't even meet basic standards of human decency, he does not deserve worship.

Edited to clarify: This applies to all deities, not just the Christian one.

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Who is unconditionally loving AND omnipotent AND capable of answering prayers (indeed, he apparently definitely answers some) … but chooses only to answer some while he ignores those of others including people in desperate situations, children being sexually abused etc.

If that god is real, he’s such a narcissistic monster I’m glad not to know him.

pointythings · 26/04/2025 16:29

I'm sorry, but I just can't manage the mental gymnastics needed to think of a God who is unconditionally loving but who condemns those who choose not to worship him to his dumping ground just for not worshipping him. If a human parent demanded worship and unquestioning obedience in everything - no matter how irrational or unreasonable - and then slung the children out into the street for not complying, that parent would face serious consequences. And yet because an entity claims to be God, they get a pass? Nope. If God can't even meet basic standards of human decency, he does not deserve worship.

Edited to clarify: This applies to all deities, not just the Christian one.

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 16:27

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 14:46

The Bible says we are saved by faith alone by God's grace. A person who lives a life of loving and giving to others is almost there - but if their pride makes them rely on their good works instead of humbly accepting that nothing they can do will earn a place in Heaven - it's a gift from God - then they know the rules, choose to disobey and miss out. It's tragic and difficult to come to terms with that, but it's their choice.

The sinner who repents, submits to God and accepts Jesus as Lord and Saviour - yes, he goes to heaven.

It's about faith and trusting and accepting Jesus. We can't buy a place by our efforts. Its value is more then anybody pay.

I know which company I would prefer to be honest.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 16:26

Also, had a look at your link.

How do we know those "gifts" aren't part of the evolutionary process? We only have the word of man that God endowed them. If demons exist, how do we know it's not from dark sources? How do we know it's not all psychological manipulation, both internal and external? What is your evidence for demons? Please provide robust evidence for your assertions.

anytipswelcome · 26/04/2025 16:26

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 14:25

You can be forgiven of any sin except not recognising and believing in Jesus.

So a serial rapist and murderer who believes in Jesus is forgiven and goes to heaven.

But an atheist who dedicates their life to caring for others, does endless charity work, is kind, loving and generous, but doesn’t believe in Jesus… will go to hell.

Got it.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 16:22

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:17

Absolutely not JW! A Bible-believing charismatic Christian, so I believe in the spiritual gifts - including prophecy, healings, discernment of spirits, driving out evil spirits, miracles, tongues. So yes I know there are evil spirits aka demons.

I think one of the church's greatest errors has been believing that these ended with the Apostles. Clearly they did not because God still lets us use them, more so in recent years.
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-spiritual-gifts-understanding-the-types-and-discovering-yours.html

Re: witch hunts. People can be sincere but sincerely wrong. Doing something physical like seizing somebody and ducking or burning them "in the name of Jesus" does not demonstrate His authority or power. That was not doing God's work.

But those doing that persecution believed they were doing God's work. Why didn't he interven and say "Woah, not in my name?"

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 16:17

Absolutely not JW! A Bible-believing charismatic Christian, so I believe in the spiritual gifts - including prophecy, healings, discernment of spirits, driving out evil spirits, miracles, tongues. So yes I know there are evil spirits aka demons.

I think one of the church's greatest errors has been believing that these ended with the Apostles. Clearly they did not because God still lets us use them, more so in recent years.
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-spiritual-gifts-understanding-the-types-and-discovering-yours.html

Re: witch hunts. People can be sincere but sincerely wrong. Doing something physical like seizing somebody and ducking or burning them "in the name of Jesus" does not demonstrate His authority or power. That was not doing God's work.

What Are Spiritual Gifts? Definitions, Types, and Examples

Spiritual gifts are something every believer is given when they receive the gift of salvation. Just as the gift of salvation is by grace through faith, so are the spiritual gifts. Our God is so generous. He is constantly giving us things.

https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-are-spiritual-gifts-understanding-the-types-and-discovering-yours.html

RedWhite · 26/04/2025 16:08

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 14:22

It will be different there. Without worrying about money, buying or renting a home, having enough to eat and wear, people threatening, stealing, or slandering you, what is going to upset you?

You'd still be you, but you'd have learnt enough to fit in with Heaven's lifestyle.

As lovely as the concept is that we’d meet up with loved ones in heaven when we die and live happily ever after for eternity, it defies all logic and literally goes against everything we know about how the world works.

We could make up any scenario and say this is what we believe will happen - for example

1- When we die we wake up again and….there’s are millions of beds for us to relax on and a million TV channels to chose.

2- When we die we wake up again and…. there are fairgrounds for a million miles where you don’t queue ever and it’s such fun

3-…… there are restaurants that pay you to eat as much as you want and the food is such that you don’t put on weight.

We could literally use infinite different scenarios and they are all equally as valid and unlikely as the heaven concept of paradise.

We have evolved to have the thought processes we do and I get people believe their spirit lives and is separate form our physical body but where are these spirits before we are born? I would bet my house in the fact that when we die there is nothing in exactly the same there is nothing before we’re born. We can’t remember being on our mother’s tummy therefore it’s logical to assume when we die the same happens…. Nothing. Obviously we’re not aware of the ‘nothingness’ because we cease to exist.

I hope I’m wrong. I would love to be wrong and to think I would see my loved ones when I die in heaven but it’s so unrealistic that I can’t possibly take it seriously.

MistressoftheDarkSide · 26/04/2025 15:54

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 15:50

If there were no Heaven after the end of this life, it would all be meaningless. Not just my feeling, the apostle Paul said so.

Far fetched? The churches and ministries I pay most attention to see amazing things happening. I think it's odd not to believe, but when I consider how many churches don't teach the whole Bible including the spiritual gifts then I can understand it. Jesus confirmed His teaching with signs and wonders. I think it's quite wrong to neglect these things.

Can you post some evidence of these "amazing things"? Because when I've experienced signs and wonders, it's been put down to probable mental illness. Also, demonic forces by Christians. How does one know if an "amazing thing" is God? Confirmation bias perchance?

BunnyLake · 26/04/2025 15:52

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 15:50

If there were no Heaven after the end of this life, it would all be meaningless. Not just my feeling, the apostle Paul said so.

Far fetched? The churches and ministries I pay most attention to see amazing things happening. I think it's odd not to believe, but when I consider how many churches don't teach the whole Bible including the spiritual gifts then I can understand it. Jesus confirmed His teaching with signs and wonders. I think it's quite wrong to neglect these things.

You haven’t really answered the question. I didn’t say there was no heaven, I said if god told you that you weren’t selected to go.

KeepHopeful · 26/04/2025 15:50

BunnyLake · 26/04/2025 15:04

Do you ever have moments when you think it all sounds rather far-fetched? Do you feel you have to be on top of it every day, working out whether your faith is sincere or just a means to get into heaven (I mean possibly subconsciously it’s a means). If there wasn’t heaven at the end if it all for you would you still put as much time and effort into it? Would you still study the bible and follow god/Jesus so loyally if god told you that you were not selected to go to heaven and nothing you did would change that.

If there were no Heaven after the end of this life, it would all be meaningless. Not just my feeling, the apostle Paul said so.

Far fetched? The churches and ministries I pay most attention to see amazing things happening. I think it's odd not to believe, but when I consider how many churches don't teach the whole Bible including the spiritual gifts then I can understand it. Jesus confirmed His teaching with signs and wonders. I think it's quite wrong to neglect these things.