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Theme park queue jumping for DLP

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RichSherl · 23/04/2025 14:20

Probably the wrong place to ask this but...

My DP wants us to employ a theme park queue jumper for when we go to Disneyland Paris in October.

I didn't even know these things existed?!?!?! 🤐

I've not been to DLP for a number of years but apparently it's a thing that people go with their disabled parents just so they can skip queues for rides and to see characters etc?

Can anyone corroborate this? It seems mad to me and beyond unethical.

Anyway, AIBU or should we really use someone like this to help us skip queues?

OP posts:
Talkingfrog · 24/04/2025 06:45

I am in several dlp Facebook groups and never heard of it. However, i would think due to it being morally wrong, most groups would remove comments suggesting it anyway.
There are two passes they offer, depending on either the condition or evidence provided.
For rides, the one means you use the disabled queue, or premier access entrance (depending on mobility). The other means you get a return time to go back. The passholder must ride each time.
There are differences in how they are used for other things such as shows/parades too, and a different number of people that accompany the pass holder.
The way you meet sone characters is changing soon anyway, and will be in line with the way the superhero meet is currently done. Having a priority pass will make no difference to those meets, because it is a virtual queue.
I would like to think if dlp found out they would take action. It could result I you and the person bring paid, being removed from the park.
Personally, we never used fastpasses or what is now premier access. We wait in the queues, which sometimes aren't that long. You can pay per person, per ride for those you want to premier access. It may cost less that paying someone in the way your husband intends.

Motherofacertainage · 24/04/2025 06:44

I mean it's Disney. A celebration of Capitalism. This guy is just taking it to its natural conclusion. Brilliant if you think about it. If you don't like corporate greed don't go. Noone has a god given right to go to a theme park. My now young adult children have never been to Disney and don't seem to need counseling.

ChompinCrocodiles · 24/04/2025 06:42

Never mind the cost and morality of it.

Can you imagine how fucking awkward it would be having some random man with you all day every day on holiday?!

Trolllol · 24/04/2025 06:37

My dh had to have a video meeting with my daughter there to approve my daughters pass so I think Disney are starting to realise it’s being misused.

PeloMom · 24/04/2025 06:35

It’d be much cheaper to pay or the priority passes (forgot their names). Last summer was €5 per person for some of them (and don’t think we oasis paid than €15 per person a that was only one above €10) and we didn’t only the rides we really liked. And was really fast too.

Jc2001 · 24/04/2025 06:21

HedgehogB · 23/04/2025 14:29

It’s a terrible thing to do. My sister took my severely disabled non verbal autistic niece to DLP and there were so many queue jumpers in the disabled queue that they legitimately joined , that a little boy who was genuinely very disabled and a few places behind her , missed his ride entirely . His mum had been trying to get him to understand the wait in the, albeit, shorter disabled queue . He was devastated and had a meltdown when they reached the front and the ride broke down. Yay for all the selfish gits who took his treat.

How do you know they were queue jumpers?

thevassal · 24/04/2025 00:28

SwornToSilence · 23/04/2025 16:58

While I disagree with this when you can buy a fast pass. I can't see it any more selfish and unreasonable than those who help themselves to our copper cables putting the internet out for days, or scam the benefit system or try to lower their tax return or those who sell black market driving tests. Everyone is out to make a quick buck, the world has no morals any more

um, has anybody said those are okay things to do?

The forum is called and question is 'am i being unreasonable' not 'rank how unreasonable I'm being on a scale of other completely unrelated unreasonable things.'

noctilucentcloud · 23/04/2025 20:20

Clearingaspace · 23/04/2025 16:40

The poll is being misunderstood I think and people mean it would be unreasonable to do this.

if you are willing to pay just use the Fastpass system for individual rides when needed.

Yes I have no idea which each option means.

OP, it is not ok to do this. It makes things harder for people with a genuine need - both on the day and in future when the theme parks make the rules much tighter because of people who abuse it.

ElfDragon · 23/04/2025 19:59

My dc are entitled to access passes for theme parks etc. I have often joked that they are invaluable to their friends on visits to Thorpe Park etc, due to being able to skip the queue (NB, you still have to wait, as it’s a virtual queue system for Merlin, but you can spend the queue time doing other stuff at least). Dd2 has been in great demand for the last couple of years when friends are arranging days out, and on her school trip to Thorpe Park also - a group of around 8 friends all swapped on/off accompanying her and they all had a great time. Ds likewise blew his friend’s mum mind when we organised his ride access for Legoland a couple of years ago - she’d never had as easy a day there 🤣

I would honestly find it weird if I knew anyone who wanted to hire a random stranger to do this though. It makes the system unusable for those who really need it, and eventually the accommodations are changed, sometimes drastically.

Disney in USA have had to radically change their access system, and Merlin over here is nothing like it was when my dc were younger either, all due to overuse and abuse of the system.

Salad666 · 23/04/2025 19:41

Bearhunt468 · 23/04/2025 14:23

Very frustrating for those people that genuinely need the queue passes for their disabilities that someone is doing this.

Obvs they are entitled to it due to their disability but to market it and attend on days not for them just adds to the issue. Especially considering Merlin you now have to pre-book the days and there is limited spaces available.

This!! 👏🏻

ladyamy · 23/04/2025 18:34

RaffleQueen · 23/04/2025 17:35

Me too! The bit where he says he can talk as little or as much as you want has me creased, and the name Mick Halliday is genius!

I’m ashamed to say I share a surname with him 🤦🏻‍♀️ no relation, honest!

LadyKenya · 23/04/2025 17:41

IstayhomeonFridaynight · 23/04/2025 17:37

It's not a human right for everyone to go to Disneyland. My kids didn't go as I couldn't afford it. They survived. If your kids cant cope with the queues, maybe don't go?

If these concessions are being offered, as a way of making these theme parks more accessible to some people, why should they not go?

largeprintagathachristie · 23/04/2025 17:40

No wonder Mike hasn’t got a face-front picture on his website - he definitely should be embarrassed.

And so should your DP for considering it.

IstayhomeonFridaynight · 23/04/2025 17:37

It's not a human right for everyone to go to Disneyland. My kids didn't go as I couldn't afford it. They survived. If your kids cant cope with the queues, maybe don't go?

RaffleQueen · 23/04/2025 17:35

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 23/04/2025 17:20

I’m clearly an awful person because this has made me lol. WTF?!

Me too! The bit where he says he can talk as little or as much as you want has me creased, and the name Mick Halliday is genius!

OoooopsUpsideYourHead · 23/04/2025 17:34

IKnowAristotle · 23/04/2025 15:44

Tell your husband not to take the Mick! Grin

🤣🤣🤣

FuckoffeeBeforeCoffee · 23/04/2025 17:20

I’m clearly an awful person because this has made me lol. WTF?!

Itsjustnotthevibe · 23/04/2025 17:19

If my DH suggested this (he wouldn't ever btw!) I would think so badly of him, it's disgusting to take advantage of a scheme like this. If he is willing to pay for 'Mikes' entry, expenses and £100 om top then just buy some fast passes.

Also I agree with a PP, who wants to walk around a theme park with a random dude all day. It would be so awkward!

Martymcfly24 · 23/04/2025 17:17

Stupidest thing I have ever heard.

Buy a fast pass it's cheaper especially as you will only need it for a few rides or use single rider and rope drop. The characters are now going to be booked on the app so no more queuing there.

We used a priority pass for my daughter a couple of months ago and at some rides there may still be a short queue. She didn't go on all the rides so the other family members just queued for these properly. It's an amazing system but if it's abused it will be lost for the people who rely on it.

SinkToTheBottomWithYou · 23/04/2025 17:10

ThreePointOneFourOneFiveNine · 23/04/2025 14:39

That’s disgraceful and should be reported to Disney land. I’m a wheelchair user and as such get the pass to jump queues. I actually have no problem waiting, it’s just that often my wheelchair won’t fit down the normal queue lane or there’s steps, and theme parks have a one size fits all policy when it comes to disability. Autistic people don’t general need step free access, but they get it because I do. If there were someone behind me in the accessible queue who appeared to have the issue with not being able to wait for long, I’d happily let them go in front of me. I admit I quite enjoy being able to jump the queue, but I don’t feel particularly guilty about it because it’s one of the few situations where I actually get a small benefit, whereas most of the time my disability is a massive disadvantage.

This!
We only used the disabled queues at a theme park just once with DS who has autism, there were usually only 2-3 groups in the queue but on two occasions people arrived and it was clear that their need for no wait was higher and without anything being said everybody just moved aside to let them go to the front of the queue.

AndImBrit · 23/04/2025 17:09

Given you’ll have to pay him £100, plus his DLP tickets (not cheap), his flights or train and presumably a hotel for him in Paris - this seems like a very expensive solution!

MalleusMaleficarumm · 23/04/2025 17:08

That is horrendously selfish, he’s just adding to the stress for people with genuine disabilities. Is he going to start parking in disabled spaces at the shops as well?!

Also why would you give money to some random bloke you’ve never met. Could well be a scam!!

SwornToSilence · 23/04/2025 16:58

While I disagree with this when you can buy a fast pass. I can't see it any more selfish and unreasonable than those who help themselves to our copper cables putting the internet out for days, or scam the benefit system or try to lower their tax return or those who sell black market driving tests. Everyone is out to make a quick buck, the world has no morals any more

SalfordQuays · 23/04/2025 16:51

This surely can't be genuine!! Apart from anything else, as someone else said, the costs would be extortionate, once you'd paid his travel and hotel. It would be cheaper to offer everyone in front of you in the queue a tenner!

Endofyear · 23/04/2025 16:51

I would be thoroughly ashamed of my DH if he suggested this. I've been to DLP with my severely disabled child and even with the queue pass, it was difficult and stressful to manage his behaviour while waiting. To think that some people would be so deceitful and scheming is profoundly depressing!