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Dog running over to me, toddler and pram

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OliviaH2 · 23/04/2025 11:54

I was out walking this morning with my toddler and I also had my baby in the pram, when I saw a very large German Shepherd spot us and bolt over to us. I immediately panicked because of the way it was running over, I knew it was coming towards us.
I shouted “get your dog on a lead” and grabbed my toddler.
The owner shouted back “no I’m not he’s friendly” I shouted get your dog, by that point it had just reached us and sort of jumped and pound it’s paw on the ground. I again shouted “get your dog and put it on a lead” and the guy refused, I said “you don’t know who has a fear of dogs and it’s so irresponsible” but he continued to argue back not doing anything but walking in the other direction, the dog then followed him but he just continued shouting “you don’t have a fear of dogs do you”

I was so shaken up after this!
I’ve had dogs growing up and always thought you put them on a lead when near people. Isn’t this just common knowledge? He argued back so confidently that it isn’t his problem, just wondering what people’s thoughts are on this? I wish there was a way of reporting him?

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Brocsacoille · 23/04/2025 12:08

What are you going to report him for? Being an ignorant man who has no problem putting a woman in their place? The police wouldn’t have time for all the complaints

spring252 · 23/04/2025 12:06

I agree it can be very scary when you have a toddler/baby and it's a big dog running towards you, I think it was irresponsible of him not to put the dog on a lead near small children. I don't know what you would report him for though as the dog didn't do anything and it's not illegal to be a selfish, entitled owner.