Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To be shocked by a transwoman guest on Jeremy Vine today asking a female caller what sex she is - and whether she’s “been tested?”

794 replies

AlertMaker · 23/04/2025 10:04

I genuinely couldn’t believe what I was hearing. A woman called in to make a point and instead of responding to her argument, the guest asked her what sex she was - and even questioned whether she’d been tested to confirm it.

I found it incredibly demeaning and unsettling. AIBU to think this kind of behaviour undermines the whole idea of respectful discussion and actually silences women?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
7
SaveMeFromHumanity · 27/04/2025 07:29

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 06:07

In other words if you want this exeption for trans men on the basis that they are perceived to be male , you can’t then justify the dogmatic , uncompromising logic of “trans women can never be allowed in female spaces.”

You would have to allow an equivalent possibility, for example, that trans women could be treated differently from “other birth sex males” to the extent that they are “perceived to be female”.

Otherwise your reasoning is exposed as completely arbitrary, which cannot be legitimate.

Edited

OK. The case was brought to the Supreme Coirt by For Women Scotland. Their priority was getting the legalities of the words sex and women clarified for the benefit of women.

It's not a ruling 'against' transpeople -transwomen or transmen. It merely clarifies the terms currently set out in the Equalitiies Act. That's the law that's been in place for the last 15 years and clarification was necessary because the law has been misrepresented by some for the past 10 years. Nothing has actually changed.

That's the first thing.

Some women on here state they believe TWAW. Personally, I could count on one hand the number of people I've met in real life who agree - male, female, gay, straight, aged 15-75, working class, middle class, from educated professionals to pissed blokes in the pub and colleagues (I'm a teacher). And I've talked about this openly mainly because I've been interested in what people outside of various internet 'echo chambers' think. And I've met fewer than 5 people who genuinely believe men can become women. And at least one of those has changed their mind.

A few people have felt that, despite not believing TWAW, TiM should be allowed in women's spaces because they want to be kind; a few haven't really known what the answer is; a few just want to respect a person's understanding of themselves; many have wondered why the resistance to third spaces but absolutely none have thought men should be in women's spaces on the basis that they've literally become women.

As for the exemptions, well that also exists to protect women and exists because some TM (and many more TM than TW) do pass.

It's not arbitrary. But given that genital checks are not going to become a thing, it really just means that if someone genuinely believes this person is a man and has no way of verifying otherwise, they will be allowed to be excluded from women's spaces on that basis. It's essentially a legal protection for businesses who might get it wrong. Not so that people can arbitrarily accuse others of not performing masculinity or femininity well enough (as I've seen on a few threads) because that's a trans ideology not a truth.

In the rare event of a man genuinely passing as a woman (less likely due to the irreversible effects of testosterone), he will also continue to use the women's facilities because, as I said, there will be no genital checks and he'd just go unnoticed.

And, yes, that means it'll ultimately come down to 'passing privilege' but that's an unfortunate side effect of the aggressive overreaching of the trans movement because, as many have said, most women know TW have been using the women's for years, many of us have known we were queuing with a man, standing at the sinks next to a man etc but, as long as they were behaving appropriately and respectfully (and every TW I've personally encountered in this way has) we were prepared to be tolerant and let it go.

Men in women's toilets, for many, is the thin end of the wedge and that's why it's been focused on so much - because its the one its most easy to both justify and mock. There's a far more sinister side to it which has been the general invasion and occupation of womanhood - what is means to be a woman, who is a woman, the language around the female experience and just the right of women to define themselves,.talk about themselves and say no to men. Oh and the aggressive extreme male behaviour whereby so many have just come across like every other unpleasant, absuve, aggressive man that women have relied upon women's spaces from which to escape.

I'm not surprised that many women don't have an issue sharing toilets. I'm not surprised that many women feel conflicted because they know TW who they see as being kind, decent, ordinary people living their lives. And I understand their concern for them.

What I am surprised by is the number of women who, having seen the hate, vitriol and violence demonstrated by others in their friend's, colleague's, family member's names, don't have a problem with that or still maintain that this is still just about quiet, gentle, vulnerable, 'feminine' men who just want to pee.

As always, it's those extreme TRAs that people really should have an issue with and not women because it's only because of the actual erasure of women, women's rights and language that this ever became necessary.

I haven't heard or read of a single woman who wants transpeople erased or wishes harm or violence towards them. The same cannot be said of the trans position against women.

The interim guidance is a start. Hopefully, the full guidance expected by the summer will make things clearer for everyone but people arguing about it isn't going to achieve anything.

Many men have already subscribed to the 'pee next to me' idea. None of the men I've spoken to speak badly of TW or express hatred towards them. They just don't think they should be in women's spaces or that they are women. Because they shouldn't be and they're not.

Personally, I think everyone's energies would he far better spent navigating the ruling and putting things in place that support everyone and everyone's needs and rights rather than the aggressive posturing we're seeing. But I suppose that's because I'm a woman and many men (and some women) just don't seem to understand that their wants and demands do not equal their rights.

IwasDueANameChange · 27/04/2025 07:12

This shit will disappear as more and more kids grow up who have had genetic testing in some way....

I know my kid is a girl. I had the harmony test when pregnant and for health reasons she's had some genetic screening that would have told me if there was a sneaky Y chromosome hiding away.

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 07:03

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 05:54

Again - the point is not that that this provision in itself is illegitimate or unlawful per se.
The point is , you cannot have it both ways.

If you are going to say that it is lawful and legitimate in some circumstances to treat trans men differently from other “birth sex” females , based on transition , when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

you can’t then simultaneously claim that it can never possibly be lawful and legitimate to treat trans women differently from other “birth sex” men , based on transition, when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

Making these two claims simultaneously constitutes contradictory, arbitrary and subjective logic . Therefore it can’t possibly be lawful. It fails the “legitimate aim” test.

The SC judgement itself does not contain this contradictory, arbitrary, discriminatory logic.

The EHRC draft guidance does, which is why it is a completely erroneous and unlawful interpretation of the judgement.

Edited

“The point is , you cannot have it both ways.”

Says you? With what legal training ?

The experts in the act disagree with you. The interim guidance is now out , I suggest you watch and see what happens like the rest of us.

Helleofabore · 27/04/2025 07:00

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 06:07

In other words if you want this exeption for trans men on the basis that they are perceived to be male , you can’t then justify the dogmatic , uncompromising logic of “trans women can never be allowed in female spaces.”

You would have to allow an equivalent possibility, for example, that trans women could be treated differently from “other birth sex males” to the extent that they are “perceived to be female”.

Otherwise your reasoning is exposed as completely arbitrary, which cannot be legitimate.

Edited

This is just more ignoring the fact that there are two levels of legitimate discrimination involved here.

The first is that a provision is primarily segregated by sex. That is the unrelenting first legitimate discriminator.

So no to any of this below.

uncompromising logic of “trans women can never be allowed in female spaces.”
You would have to allow an equivalent possibility, for example, that trans women could be treated differently from “other birth sex males” to the extent that they are “perceived to be female”.

The guidance calls for proportionate means in a very limited area. And that area that keeps being dismissed is things like rape crisis and rape care.

If the campaigning groups are going to focus on this, once that is understood by the public that they are pushing that the most vulnerable people are to be traumatised in this way because people’s philosophical belief, I would think that the remaining sympathy for people who have transgender identities will drop further.

Remember, the judgement also stated that those who maybe excluded by that second level will need to have provision especially for them. They are not being left without provision.

Acknowledgement needs to be made by female people with transgender identities that their choices may cause other female people distress in moments of extreme vulnerability. They already are doing this because they are the ones telling us about their alternative solutions. Because those female people have used hormones and surgeries to develop male sex markers. So they resemble to some people, who are vulnerable, the sex that caused trauma.

Of course, it needs to be dealt with sensitively. And it must be proportionate. As Akua Reindorf says, those cases may well be on a case by case basis.

There is no leverage to be found where you say. Because the first level of legitimate discrimination is clear - where human sex categories needs to be prioritised they will be.

Not sure how many KC’s with discrimination and human rights specialities need to say it to you Lostcat. It seems you are stuck in a loop of your own outrage.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 06:44

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 06:07

In other words if you want this exeption for trans men on the basis that they are perceived to be male , you can’t then justify the dogmatic , uncompromising logic of “trans women can never be allowed in female spaces.”

You would have to allow an equivalent possibility, for example, that trans women could be treated differently from “other birth sex males” to the extent that they are “perceived to be female”.

Otherwise your reasoning is exposed as completely arbitrary, which cannot be legitimate.

Edited

As males, transwomen are not vulnerable.

Females are. Hence, the EXEMPTION.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 06:43

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 05:54

Again - the point is not that that this provision in itself is illegitimate or unlawful per se.
The point is , you cannot have it both ways.

If you are going to say that it is lawful and legitimate in some circumstances to treat trans men differently from other “birth sex” females , based on transition , when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

you can’t then simultaneously claim that it can never possibly be lawful and legitimate to treat trans women differently from other “birth sex” men , based on transition, when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

Making these two claims simultaneously constitutes contradictory, arbitrary and subjective logic . Therefore it can’t possibly be lawful. It fails the “legitimate aim” test.

The SC judgement itself does not contain this contradictory, arbitrary, discriminatory logic.

The EHRC draft guidance does, which is why it is a completely erroneous and unlawful interpretation of the judgement.

Edited

Yes, we CAN have it both ways. It is what is meant by EXEMPTION.

Annoyedone · 27/04/2025 06:22

@lostcat why are you so determined to get women to allow males into their spaces? Have you ever heard the term “no means no”?

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 06:07

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 05:54

Again - the point is not that that this provision in itself is illegitimate or unlawful per se.
The point is , you cannot have it both ways.

If you are going to say that it is lawful and legitimate in some circumstances to treat trans men differently from other “birth sex” females , based on transition , when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

you can’t then simultaneously claim that it can never possibly be lawful and legitimate to treat trans women differently from other “birth sex” men , based on transition, when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

Making these two claims simultaneously constitutes contradictory, arbitrary and subjective logic . Therefore it can’t possibly be lawful. It fails the “legitimate aim” test.

The SC judgement itself does not contain this contradictory, arbitrary, discriminatory logic.

The EHRC draft guidance does, which is why it is a completely erroneous and unlawful interpretation of the judgement.

Edited

In other words if you want this exeption for trans men on the basis that they are perceived to be male , you can’t then justify the dogmatic , uncompromising logic of “trans women can never be allowed in female spaces.”

You would have to allow an equivalent possibility, for example, that trans women could be treated differently from “other birth sex males” to the extent that they are “perceived to be female”.

Otherwise your reasoning is exposed as completely arbitrary, which cannot be legitimate.

Lostcat · 27/04/2025 05:54

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:20

It is both LEGITIMATE and LAWFUL to rule that trans men can be treated differently based on transition that will upset women and girl rape survivors. It is a LAWFUL AND LEGITIMATE EXEMPTION.

Again - the point is not that that this provision in itself is illegitimate or unlawful per se.
The point is , you cannot have it both ways.

If you are going to say that it is lawful and legitimate in some circumstances to treat trans men differently from other “birth sex” females , based on transition , when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

you can’t then simultaneously claim that it can never possibly be lawful and legitimate to treat trans women differently from other “birth sex” men , based on transition, when interpreting protections related to sex in the EA.

Making these two claims simultaneously constitutes contradictory, arbitrary and subjective logic . Therefore it can’t possibly be lawful. It fails the “legitimate aim” test.

The SC judgement itself does not contain this contradictory, arbitrary, discriminatory logic.

The EHRC draft guidance does, which is why it is a completely erroneous and unlawful interpretation of the judgement.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:30

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:43

It is not my fault that the trans rights lobby deliberately decided to position "trans rights" in direct conflict with women's rights

The most ironic statement I have ever read. It is quite the other way around.

I am a feminist. Just one who acknowledges trans people, and is ok with them too.

Being trans has nothing more in common with religious belief than being gay does - or being female does for that matter.

Saying that there is "no evidence" that gender exists is like saying that there is no evidence that evolution exists, or gravity, or that the earth is spherical. I can't help you.

On that note, I do have better things to be doing with my time. Take care y'all.

Edited

The most ironic statement I have ever read. It is quite the other way around.

The biggest ironic lie there is. Trans infiltrated and invaded our spaces. We didn't do that to them.

I am a feminist.

No you're not. You're a meninist. A mens rights activist. No feminist centres males in feminism the way you do.

Just one who acknowledges trans people, and is ok with them too.

One can acknowledge trans people without supporting males in female spaces, you know.

Being trans has nothing more in common with religious belief than being gay does - or being female does for that matter.

Being gay does not seek to tear down the rights of another group. Trans bears all the signs of a religious cult.

Gravity physically exists. The earth physically is round. An 'identity' in one's head is not physical and is not tangible. Belief in an 'identity' is a metaphysical belief. A religious belief.

CakeBlanchett · 27/04/2025 03:29

5foot5 · 23/04/2025 10:17

This would be an excellent response to such a silly question.

Unfortunately you’d get the bio-illiterate people come back with “but what the women who’ve stopped having periods, or never been pregnant or birthed children? Are they men?? Hanh?? Hanh?? Gotcha!” I’ve had these utterly stupid responses despite calmly and repeatedly explaining in detail why only female people go through menopause, and why choosing not to be pregnant doesn’t magically un-sex women, etc.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:26

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:37

I don't have any religious beliefs.

You have some very strong anti-trans beliefs which causes you to object to language which simply acknowledges the presence/ exis.tence of trans people

I do not have any respect for those beliefs at all, I am afraid and I am not prepared to pretend that I do.

Edited

As the respected Biologist and Atheist Richard Dawkins says, trans/Gender Ideology is a cult. It is a metaphysical belief on something that can't be substantiated of quantified. Also desisters will testify what response they get if they stray from the cult. They are outcast, doxxed, abused, shunned. All very cult-like behaviour.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:23

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:28

If you are offended by perfectly ordinary, descriptive and inclusive language because of your attitudes about trans people, it's really not of my concern.

It is, however, my concern not to break the mumsent talk guidelines. I was told it was acceptable to use the word as long as it is not directed personally at another user. If I am wrong about that I am happy to desist.

Edited

The word is deeply offensive and excludes women, it is very exclusive language, not inclusive. And there is no need for it.

Women or transwomen.

There you go. That's all you need.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:21

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:26

It is certainly not my side of this row that is having the serious empathy fail.

Considering you prioritise men and their feelings, it most certainly is your side that is the ONLY side that has serious empathy fail, and a sensitivity chip missing.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:20

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:21

It is neither legitimate nor lawful to develop guidance that says gender variant people can be treated differently to other persons of the same birth sex, only for the purposes of excluding them from services.

It is both LEGITIMATE and LAWFUL to rule that trans men can be treated differently based on transition that will upset women and girl rape survivors. It is a LAWFUL AND LEGITIMATE EXEMPTION.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:18

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:16

People who need single sex services gender conforming cis people can have it both ways. That is the point.

Only if you believe that it's lawful (and morally acceptable) to arbitrarily discriminate against trans/ gender non-conforming people.

That is the point.

Edited

It is not 'arbitrarily'. It is a proportionate response to protect a vulnerable community - women and girls who have been raped.

It is a lawful and proportionate EXEMPTION to the ruling.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:16

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:13

Yes I understand that provision I have no idea why you keep repeating it.

The point is not that that this provision is unreasonable per se, it is that it is entirely incompatible with the broader logic of the EHRC guidance for the reasons stated.

The EHRC are trying to have it both ways, such that gender variant/ trans people can be treated differently to other persons of the same birth sex, only for the purposes of excluding them from services.

It's a completely discriminatory and entirely unacceptable reading of the law.

Edited

AGAIN:

It is explained there how this could be lawful discrimination.
It's so a rape support group can lawfully exclude all those 6 foot tall, bearded muscley passing transmen (which gender ideologues have all apparently got as friends ) because the traumatised women in the group would perceive them as male and be triggered.

If they (meaning trans men) pass so convincingly, it can traumatise rape survivors (women and girls). So excluding trans men IN THIS SITUATION is a PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE.

It is therefore LAWFUL as it is a proportionate response to protect a vulnerable community - women and girls who have been raped.

It is a lawful and proportionate EXEMPTION to the ruling.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:15

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 19:01

You are trying to have it both ways.

Usually it's all "trans identified women are no different to men" and "nobody can change their sex".

Now you are all about using the language of "body modifications" to "sex markers" - to say that it is really "about sex".

What about trans women who have had "body modifications" to change their "sex markers" . Why isn't it really "about sex" for them?

I'll insert your language - it makes no difference to the logic.

The guidance declares that it is discriminatory, and therefore unlawful, to exclude some but not all individuals from services that cater to the opposite birth sex on the basis of body modifications/ sex markers.

However, it is conversely permissible (and not discriminatory) to exclude some (and not all) individuals from services that cater to individuals of a shared birth sex, on the basis of body modifications/ sex markers.

In other words, according to the draft guidance, transsexual people (who have undergone body modifications to change their sex markers can be treated differently to other persons of the same birth sex, only for the purposes of excluding them from services.

Edited

AGAIN:

It is explained there how this could be lawful discrimination.
It's so a rape support group can lawfully exclude all those 6 foot tall, bearded muscley passing transmen (which gender ideologues have all apparently got as friends ) because the traumatised women in the group would perceive them as male and be triggered.

If they (meaning trans men) pass so convincingly, it can traumatise rape survivors (women and girls). So excluding trans men IN THIS SITUATION is a PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE.

It is lawful as it is a PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE to protect a vulnerable community - women and girls.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:12

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 18:44

According to the draft guidance, gender variant people can be treated differently to other persons with the same birth sex, only for the purposes of excluding them from services.

AGAIN:

It is explained there how this could be lawful discrimination.
It's so a rape support group can lawfully exclude all those 6 foot tall, bearded muscley passing transmen (which gender ideologues have all apparently got as friends ) because the traumatised women in the group would perceive them as male and be triggered.

If they (meaning trans men) pass so convincingly, it can traumatise rape survivors (women and girls). So excluding trans men IN THIS SITUATION is a PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:11

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 18:40

It is arbitrarily discriminatory, and therefore unlawful, to exclude some but not all individuals from services that cater to the opposite birth sex on the basis of gender differences.

However, it is conversely permissible (and not discriminatory) to exclude some (and not all) individuals from services that cater to individuals of a shared birth sex, on the basis of gender differences.

So basically you can treat gender non-conforming people differently to other persons with the same birth sex, only for the purposes of excluding them from services (but not for the purposes of including them in services).

And this is not at all discriminating against gender non-conforming people. Mmm hmmm.

Edited

AGAIN:

It is explained there how this could be lawful discrimination.
It's so a rape support group can lawfully exclude all those 6 foot tall, bearded muscley passing transmen (which gender ideologues have all apparently got as friends ) because the traumatised women in the group would perceive them as male and be triggered.

If they (meaning trans men) pass so convincingly, it can traumatise rape survivors (women and girls). So excluding trans men IN THIS SITUATION is a PROPORTIONATE RESPONSE.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 03:07

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 18:20

This part:

the guidance mandates that where-ever such services are provided they must be restricted according to birth sex. The logic posits that in admitting some individuals of the “opposite” birth sex (e.g. trans people) the service would cease to be “single sex” and must therefore be open to all members of the opposite sex to avoid being discriminatory.

Meanwhile, however, the guidance asserts that trans individuals may additionally be excluded from the provisions designated for their birth sex. According to the judgement, the latter would be allowable in circumstances whereby the ‘gender reassignment process [had] given [the person] an appearance or attributes to which reasonable objection might be taken in the context of the [sex-specific] service being provided’.

In other words, according to the EHRC guidance, it is arbitrarily discriminatory, and therefore unlawful, to exclude some but not all individuals from services that misalign with their birth sex on the basis of gender.

However, it is conversely permissible (and not discriminatory) to exclude some (and not all) individuals from services that align with their birth sex, on the very same basis (of gender).

There is no sense to be made of these provisions other than that they seek to exclude people for simply being gender non-conforming.

The judgement is reasonable and makes sense if read in the way that Lord Sumption asserts (and in the way that the law has always been applied) - that it may be lawful to exclude trans women from some female spaces where this is a proportion means of achieving a legitimate aim. It makes no sense at all from a perspective that reads the judgement as mandating the exclusion of trans women from all female spaces in all circumstances.

The EHRC is like something out of an Orwellian novel.

Edited

From Nameychangington

"It is explained there how this could be lawful discrimination.
It's so a rape support group can lawfully exclude all those 6 foot tall, bearded muscley passing transmen (which gender ideologues have all apparently got as friends ) because the traumatised women in the group would perceive them as male and be triggered. It's hard on all those hefty bearded transmen I agree, but I suppose it's the 'find out' in FAFO.

Here is sex matters explaining it for you too:
The judgment describes how service providers offering a single-sex service are also exempt from the prohibition against gender-reassignment discrimination (as long as their conduct is proportionate). For example, a “trans man” (a woman living in the male gender) can be lawfully excluded from a female-only service, without this amounting to gender-reassignment discrimination."

Do you understand it now, or do you need a picture book? This is beyond a joke. 😣

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 02:55

Annoyedone · 26/04/2025 13:55

Gotta love @Lostcat. If there was a medal for persistence, they’d be a shoe in for the gold. The bat shit takes are comedy gold. It’s like they’re a toddler fighting sleep. Bless

I cringe in embarrassment for them. They're like a contestant on Idol who cannot sing and is woefully out of tune and people are laughing and sniggering at them, but they genuinely believe they can sing and they'll prove us wrong. Lostcat is like that. So strident in their view they are right and we are wrong, yet not understanding they are embarrassing themselves. It's no surprise that people that support this Gender Ideology cult lack lateral thinking and any ability to comprehend or use critical thinking. Anything out of the cult/echo chamber talking points, it shuts their mental faculties down, they simply cannot computer or understand. No matter how many times you explain it to them. They think in terms of gender 'identity', they cannot compute anything outside that mindset. It's frustrating but very typical of those who are attracted to Gender Ideology. The lack of common sense, logic, critical thinking.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 02:42

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 13:21

from the point of view of the vast majority of the people that space is actually for

From the point of view of gender-conforming people you mean? Because they are the main characters right?

Heaven forbid that equalities and human rights legislation should be logical and not arbitrarily discriminate against minority groups! Main character syndrome I say! They should stop whining!

Edited

None of us are ever 100% 'gender conforming'. EVERYONE is gender non-conforming, unless you are a walking stereotype. Spaces are based on sex. SEX. Biological sex. Not some 'gender' bullshit.

Oh, and males are 50% of the population. Half of the population. Not a 'minority'.

FlakyCritic · 27/04/2025 02:35

Lostcat · 26/04/2025 12:14

Let's review the incoherent nonsense of the EHRC interpretation of the Supreme Court judgement once more.

  • "trans women (biological men) should not be permitted to use the women’s facilities and trans men (biological women) should not be permitted to use the men’s facilities, as this will mean that they are no longer single-sex facilities and must be open to all users of the opposite sex
  • in some circumstances the law also allows trans women (biological men) not to be permitted to use the men’s facilities, and trans men (biological woman) not to be permitted to use the women’s facilities"

So if you are providing a single sex service, it must be based on “birth sex”. Therefore, you must exclude all people who do not match that “birth sex” otherwise you would be unfairly discriminating against some people of that birth sex and not others. That is not allowed, and there is no basis for treating people differently on the basis of gender presentation - gender presentation is an irrelevance for the purposes of excluding people of the "wrong" birth sex, from same sex services.

HOWEVER, you can exclude some people of the “matching” “birth sex” from the same facilities and not others, and, that’s not discrimination at all!! Oh no! In that case gender presentation is an entirely relevant and appropriate basis for excluding some people and not others, in their access to single-sex services.

MAKE IT MAKE SENSE

Edited

N/M

Helleofabore · 26/04/2025 22:07

Here is Akua Reindorf KC explaining the exclusion clauses very clearly and, specifically mentions rape crisis support.

https://x.com/SexMattersOrg/status/1916168804226171392

Just if anyone is interested in gaining greater understanding.... rather than just emoting and repeating that it is 'unlawful' based on I have no fucking idea what knowledge compared to barristers, specialist KCs including our own Prime Minister who is a human rights specialist.

I mean, does anyone actually think that our PM would not have a quiet word if he noticed that an update on guidance about an integral act of parliament was destined to be unlawful?

The doubling down has become nonsensical now. If there was a valid claim to all this, I think that barristers who work in this area and who have successfully won cases (unlike White) would know what they were saying. Sure each has professional reputation, but saving face right now when the interpretation is flawed and likely to be overturned would certainly not be something I would be expecting from these teams. Stonewall connected legal teams however ... yes. I expect so. And particularly ones who have specific books about the topic and those who run a charity that takes on these particular cases.

https://x.com/SexMattersOrg/status/1916168804226171392