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If i only use photos of my kid and not my 2 nephews when making a year calendar for my parents next year?

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Theteddybear2 · 23/04/2025 00:56

for this year calendar i took some barely pictures of my nephews in it because i don’t see them often and im the one paying for it, costs like $40 to make big and nice calendar with pictures and collages. I tried my best but lot of the calendar i gifted my parents last year are pictures of my daughter mostly since i like taking nice pictures. And its not often all the kiddos are togheter where i get the chance to take nice Pictures of them togheter. Then for me it feels more natural to make one of my kid when i don’t see my nephews that often and barely have some pictures of them besides some when they where babies. I feel like it may offend my sis if i make one with just my daughter on it for this chritsmas since they be celebrating with us this year. Me and my daughter litteraly live in the underfloor to to parents. Im i being unreasonable?

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/04/2025 01:32

Include your nephews.
I'm sure your parents would enjoy seeing all of their DGC.

CarlyCoffee · 23/04/2025 01:30

Nah I wouldn’t. It’s a bit odd. And I know my parents would enjoy it much more (and be much more likely to use it) if it contained all their grandchildren, rather than just one.

I’d collaborate with my sister on it, though

Sashya · 23/04/2025 01:25

Why not ask your sister for a few nice pics of her kids. Surely your parents would prefer a calendar that has all of their grandkids???

Unless there is a big age difference. OR you don't particularly like your sister/nephews.

Theteddybear2 · 23/04/2025 01:21

Would u guys make one of ur kid only?

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