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This amount of Easter eggs

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 10:49

To get straight into it - I get my children 10 Easter eggs each every Easter .

When I started it years ago , it was very cheap. I don’t get the huge ones . Years ago I could get one or 2 big ( the ones that are now medium ) and then the little ones ( they had more packaging and more in them ) and I would spend £20.

It all stems from my son’s autism , he is a young adult now. I’ve always said that birthday and Christmas is at least 10 presents and 10 eggs at Easter . It’s usually more at Christmas but it has became a security thing - he knows he’s getting at least 10 presents ( he does not care about the price , he’s not spoiled . I could get his main present and then 9 things from the pound shop ) .

I have had comments about it being too much . I don’t get gifts and balloon arches or anything like that. My youngest never eats them all , he barely touches them and we eat a lot of them 🤣 but I can’t get him less. Usually at the end of half term we melt the uneaten eggs and make cakes - so that’s an activity for a day of the holidays - , the uneaten chocolates all end up in a box for anyone to have.

For info - this is what I spent.

I got 2 of the “ 2 for £9” eggs , the bigger ones. So they have one each of those. Usually I get some medium and some small but as the small were £1.50 ( and I left it late so couldn’t find any anyway) but the medium were £2.30 in Asda I didn’t bother with the small. So I then got 4 for £12 ( 2 each ) then they had 7 each of the £2.30 ones . I spent £53 in total , so £26.50 each . Usually it’s less as I grab the smaller ones when they’re on offer in Morrisons , it just happened that I left it late this year.

Yes, it’s a lot on chocolate . But I see people getting hampers and balloons etc .

Is this really over the top ?

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:35

Plantatreetoday · 22/04/2025 12:34

Have you tried to find a job lot ( thinking of the future here ) of small boxes. You could package them up yourself. I appreciate I’m coming across as a little mad here.
Just trying to think a solution through here.

Thats not a bad idea !

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Plantatreetoday · 22/04/2025 12:34

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:31

They have to be Easter eggs - in boxes .

Have you tried to find a job lot ( thinking of the future here ) of small boxes. You could package them up yourself. I appreciate I’m coming across as a little mad here.
Just trying to think a solution through here.

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:31

Plantatreetoday · 22/04/2025 12:29

Why not get one of those packs of smal Easter Hunt eggs if they must have ten.

If he’s not worried about the price then it’s all about the number
I packet of EH eggs is not expensive in Aldi and Lidl

They have to be Easter eggs - in boxes .

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luckylavender · 22/04/2025 12:31

Sofiewoo · 22/04/2025 10:52

I just don’t see the point in buying kids more chocolate than they can physically eat.

I get my kids baskets with little eggs, chocolate bunnies, spring themed pjs, books, soft toys, stickers etc. I don’t really care whether someone thinks that’s over the top or not, I much prefer carefully selected things I know they will like and play with than a mountain of chocolate.

Each to his own I say. Frankly I don't get the need for baskets. Just more landfill

Extiainoiapeial · 22/04/2025 12:30

Plantatreetoday · 22/04/2025 12:29

Why not get one of those packs of smal Easter Hunt eggs if they must have ten.

If he’s not worried about the price then it’s all about the number
I packet of EH eggs is not expensive in Aldi and Lidl

Because the eggs have to be in boxes, the OP said! 😲

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:30

Strictlymad · 22/04/2025 12:22

But you said you melt uneaten ones to make cakes - so you are making cakes with 50 quid of chocolate. Each to their own but I don’t see that as good value

Value doesn’t really come into it .

Yes , it’s a lot to spend . But there is also a lot that I don’t spend / haven’t spent over the years - outings with friends , school trips abroad etc . He can’t / couldn’t do this . Going to Easter parties , visiting places at Easter etc .

I have to watch him look at the world from the outside and being unable to access it in the same way as others his age . I look at friends with children the same age and they’re buying them their first car , or driving lessons , or they’re going out clubbing with their friends , going travelling , going on holidays and weekends away with their friends . So I don’t care if I’m throwing chocolate away .

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Plantatreetoday · 22/04/2025 12:29

Why not get one of those packs of smal Easter Hunt eggs if they must have ten.

If he’s not worried about the price then it’s all about the number
I packet of EH eggs is not expensive in Aldi and Lidl

Extiainoiapeial · 22/04/2025 12:29

Gobsmacked at the amount of eggs some kids get! (Not the OP, she has reasons for doing this, but perhaps one day the 10 eggs might have to change!)
Mine used to get an egg from us, and sometimes we did an easter egg hunt in the garden with little eggs. That's it!
I don't think they suffered.

Whattodo1610 · 22/04/2025 12:28

I’m not sure what you want from this OP. Your child is autistic, you do what is right for them, end of 🤷‍♀️

ShortColdandGrey · 22/04/2025 12:27

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:23

As long as they are Easter eggs in boxes , yes I can .

the unopened ones we melt and make cakes. The nibbled ones do get thrown away , yes . But that waste is worth it for the calm it brings him .

Ok, I know it can be difficult but next year try and get them when they are reduced. It is a pity you didn't post on Saturday and I could have told you Asda had reduced most of their eggs. The wee chocolate buttons were about 90p so you could have saved yourself a fair bit 😊

Goldbar · 22/04/2025 12:26

10 eggs would be too much for my children so I don't buy them 10 eggs.

I don't feel the need to judge you though - your children are not my children. You are buying 10 eggs for your children as part of doing your best as a parent to keep them calm, happy and (counter-intuitively) healthy.

One of my children is a selective eater. For them, fish fingers are a "healthy" food option. So they get fish fingers much more often than other kids would necessarily and I'm sure people would judge me for that. I don't care, they're not trying to parent a child with sensory issues and a limited diet.

Blondeshavemorefun · 22/04/2025 12:25

Hands up. To confess. Just counted dd8

2 from me plus choc bunny so 3
1 from dad
1 Aunty and uncle
1 big brother
1 big sister
1 friend
1 friend Easter cracker with little eggs
1 neighbour
3 neighbour she did 3 for £5 small ones

pkus an Easter egg hunt with very small ones and chewy sweets

so 13 good size and lots small /mini egg size

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:25

Cucy · 22/04/2025 12:20

I just wouldn’t tell people.

No one has ever asked me how many eggs I get for my DC and as most people don’t have a set number, it differs and so it’s not a question people tend to ask.

You know it’s not the norm which is why you get judgement in real life and so if you don’t want your parenting judged, just simply don’t tell people.

I think you’ve made a rod for your own back and this is something you can change if you wanted to but none of us are perfect parents and if this makes your life easier and you don’t want to change anything then just carry on.

I think it’s very easy to say “ you could change if you wanted to” but not as easy to do.

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:23

ShortColdandGrey · 22/04/2025 12:20

So what happens to them? If they just get chucked after he has nibbled it then that is a lot of waste. Can you not just buy him 10 small eggs that will get eaten even if it is over a good few weeks?

As long as they are Easter eggs in boxes , yes I can .

the unopened ones we melt and make cakes. The nibbled ones do get thrown away , yes . But that waste is worth it for the calm it brings him .

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ShortColdandGrey · 22/04/2025 12:23

DidYouEverGoBack · 22/04/2025 12:20

You could try reading OPs posts your questions and points will be answered.

Thanks I have read all her posts now. It is rather an expensive way to do things but each to their own.

Strictlymad · 22/04/2025 12:22

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 10:55

I usually do , but I left it late this year so I couldn’t . But , to be honest - chocolate wise - there isn’t much difference .

But you said you melt uneaten ones to make cakes - so you are making cakes with 50 quid of chocolate. Each to their own but I don’t see that as good value

DidYouEverGoBack · 22/04/2025 12:20

ShortColdandGrey · 22/04/2025 12:20

So what happens to them? If they just get chucked after he has nibbled it then that is a lot of waste. Can you not just buy him 10 small eggs that will get eaten even if it is over a good few weeks?

You could try reading OPs posts your questions and points will be answered.

Cucy · 22/04/2025 12:20

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 11:53

I am interested - it seems it is extravagant. I’m not going to change what I do , that wasn’t the point of the post . But maybe it will stop me being defensive if people tell me it’s extravagant .

I just wouldn’t tell people.

No one has ever asked me how many eggs I get for my DC and as most people don’t have a set number, it differs and so it’s not a question people tend to ask.

You know it’s not the norm which is why you get judgement in real life and so if you don’t want your parenting judged, just simply don’t tell people.

I think you’ve made a rod for your own back and this is something you can change if you wanted to but none of us are perfect parents and if this makes your life easier and you don’t want to change anything then just carry on.

ShortColdandGrey · 22/04/2025 12:20

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:17

As I have said quite a lot - he does not eat them all .

So what happens to them? If they just get chucked after he has nibbled it then that is a lot of waste. Can you not just buy him 10 small eggs that will get eaten even if it is over a good few weeks?

Megifer · 22/04/2025 12:19

I get about the same for my DC. They are still eating their way through them for about 2 months. YANBU

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:18

Sofiewoo · 22/04/2025 12:14

What’s the point of the post though? You don’t actually want opinions on whether it’s reasonable or unreasonable. You’re happy with your decision so what’s the goal here?

To see if it was extravagant . The general consensus is that it is .

I wasn’t asking for advice if to stop.

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:17

ThisIsItNowOrNever · 22/04/2025 12:16

10 eggs? Absolutely insane. Do you want to give diabetes on your son? His blood sugar is literally going through the roof.
You must start looking into other alternatives. Have you tried to speak with him ? I understand that it can be a challenge but at some point he needs to understand that healthy eating is necessary.

As I have said quite a lot - he does not eat them all .

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ThisIsItNowOrNever · 22/04/2025 12:16

10 eggs? Absolutely insane. Do you want to give diabetes on your son? His blood sugar is literally going through the roof.
You must start looking into other alternatives. Have you tried to speak with him ? I understand that it can be a challenge but at some point he needs to understand that healthy eating is necessary.

Sofiewoo · 22/04/2025 12:14

What’s the point of the post though? You don’t actually want opinions on whether it’s reasonable or unreasonable. You’re happy with your decision so what’s the goal here?

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 12:14

Cucy · 22/04/2025 11:43

I think 10 Easter eggs is absolutely madness.

It’s way too much chocolate (I say that as an chocoholic) and you’re paying through the nose for something that is so commercial.

I can’t imagine having 10 eggs lined up, it must look like Christmas or something.

I would definitely find ways to reduce this number.
I’m not sure why you set this rule anyway as of course it’s going to be hard to break for anyone, let alone for an autistic person.

If you’re happy to continue this then carry on but I do think it’s one of the maddest things I’ve read on here lol.

One of the maddest things ? Really ?

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