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This amount of Easter eggs

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 10:49

To get straight into it - I get my children 10 Easter eggs each every Easter .

When I started it years ago , it was very cheap. I don’t get the huge ones . Years ago I could get one or 2 big ( the ones that are now medium ) and then the little ones ( they had more packaging and more in them ) and I would spend £20.

It all stems from my son’s autism , he is a young adult now. I’ve always said that birthday and Christmas is at least 10 presents and 10 eggs at Easter . It’s usually more at Christmas but it has became a security thing - he knows he’s getting at least 10 presents ( he does not care about the price , he’s not spoiled . I could get his main present and then 9 things from the pound shop ) .

I have had comments about it being too much . I don’t get gifts and balloon arches or anything like that. My youngest never eats them all , he barely touches them and we eat a lot of them 🤣 but I can’t get him less. Usually at the end of half term we melt the uneaten eggs and make cakes - so that’s an activity for a day of the holidays - , the uneaten chocolates all end up in a box for anyone to have.

For info - this is what I spent.

I got 2 of the “ 2 for £9” eggs , the bigger ones. So they have one each of those. Usually I get some medium and some small but as the small were £1.50 ( and I left it late so couldn’t find any anyway) but the medium were £2.30 in Asda I didn’t bother with the small. So I then got 4 for £12 ( 2 each ) then they had 7 each of the £2.30 ones . I spent £53 in total , so £26.50 each . Usually it’s less as I grab the smaller ones when they’re on offer in Morrisons , it just happened that I left it late this year.

Yes, it’s a lot on chocolate . But I see people getting hampers and balloons etc .

Is this really over the top ?

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Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 10:59

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Chavtastic , really ?! 🤣

I think you will find it’s extremely hard to keep a good diet with autism - with food aversions etc . He has vitamins, he has the only veg he will eat with every single meal even if it doesn’t necessarily go with the meal , the only fruit he will eat - daily . He walks daily , he’s very fit and healthy .

If you read my post I say that the chocolate gets melted down and the chocolates go in to a box - meaning there is a LOT left over . None of my children eat 10 Easter eggs . The cakes get given out ( my youngest doesn’t eat much chocolate / sweets etc and my eldest would never eat homemade cakes ) but it’s a fun activity .

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BoredZelda · 22/04/2025 10:58

I know a mum that still has to sing a Christmas as a bedtime song to her 12 year old autistic daughter. My own autistic teen needs to make sure her bedside table has everything in the right position before she goes to bed. We do what we have to do and we pick our battles. If 10 Easter eggs is the number, it’s the number. All you can do is get the best deal you can.

ArseofOrion · 22/04/2025 10:55

Personally yes I think it’s way too much. I have also been guilty of this in the past.

This year mine got one from grandparents, one from aunty and one from me. That’s plenty.

Pinkbleach · 22/04/2025 10:55

Beamur · 22/04/2025 10:51

That's a bit ridiculous.
You're paying vastly inflated prices for novelty chocolate..
Get 10 smaller eggs if the number is crucial?

I usually do , but I left it late this year so I couldn’t . But , to be honest - chocolate wise - there isn’t much difference .

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GasPanic · 22/04/2025 10:54

Yes I think 10 easter eggs for any kid is far too much.

The question is whether you care what I think.

LoveIndubitably · 22/04/2025 10:53

Obviously it's a lot but you're not buying them for the same reason as most others - to give to eat - you're doing it to fulfil a (rather arbitrary! ) promise you made when he was small, and presumably that still matters to him.

If you can afford it then it's not really an issue.

As he gets older I wonder if you could include "and we give to 10 charities/food bank items" as well? (If you can afford £1 to 10 places etc! ) Not scolding or judging or anything, just might be a nice thing to introduce. Or 10 things to charity shop.

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Sofiewoo · 22/04/2025 10:52

I just don’t see the point in buying kids more chocolate than they can physically eat.

I get my kids baskets with little eggs, chocolate bunnies, spring themed pjs, books, soft toys, stickers etc. I don’t really care whether someone thinks that’s over the top or not, I much prefer carefully selected things I know they will like and play with than a mountain of chocolate.

Ilikewinter · 22/04/2025 10:52

Honestly, yes I think it's over the top - but then so are hampers and balloons!

DUsername · 22/04/2025 10:51

Honestly? Don't do this to yourself. Free yourself from worrying about what strangers think! You do something that works for your family and that you can presumably afford. Are your kids happy with their Easter? Are you?

Beamur · 22/04/2025 10:51

That's a bit ridiculous.
You're paying vastly inflated prices for novelty chocolate..
Get 10 smaller eggs if the number is crucial?