I’m trying to work out if I’m just being oversensitive here but lately, I find myself wondering why my sister just never wants to hang out with me 😂I’m 33 and she’s 30. She has two DS (3 and 1) and I have a DD (6mo). We’re close, text constantly and haven’t had any notable dramas or rocky patches in our relationship… but, over the past few years, I feel like she’s only interested in seeing me by chance - for example, when we’re both at our parents or there is a wider family activity. She never reaches out to me to make plans or ask to do something, it’s always me and 9 times out 10, she says no as she’s seeing friends or has plans. I don’t begrudge her having friends and plans, of course! I just wonder why she never makes any with me, I’d LOVE it if she asked me to go for a coffee or a lunch. I’m currently on mat leave and she doesn’t work Fridays. She always has plans with friends on Fridays, but has never asked me to do something or go for a coffee or whatever. We went to the cinema to see Bridget Jones a few weeks ago and I was so happy she said yes, I was beside myself with excitement and kept saying to my fiancé how much I couldn’t wait and that’s when I sort of noticed I’m always so happy to see her and she’s maybe just not that fussed. AIBU to wonder why this is? I do know she likes me, it isn’t a case of her hating me deep down or anything too deep haha! Getting to the point where I am going to stop asking because it’s always just a no - it’s like I see her as my best friend and she see’s me as a cumbersome old relative/duty😂does anyone else have similar with their sibling?! Essay, sorry…!