Abusing the airline staff

That’s absolutely awful and I’m sorry that happened to you. Disgraceful behaviour.

This attitude is a huge part of the issue. Who gives a shit what her problem is if she can’t be bothered to explain it in a reasonable manner?

Your attitude is a direct result of the Be Kind bollocks. How about being kind to service employees?

@HelenaWaiting

Stop selling alcohol in airports, stop serving alcohol on planes, and deny boarding to anyone who is evidently under the influence of drink or drugs.

How much more are YOU willing to pay for your flight to cover the loss revenue from airports and aircraft selling alcohol??

This sounds awful! I feel so sorry for the Cabin Crew!

I’m reminded of an aunt who left her estate to be divided equally between several nieces and nephews, some in the US/Canada. Dh and a BiL were executors.

Sorting out the estate was fairly simple, and didn’t take too long, but before it was finalised a Canadian cousin who I’d never met before, invited himself to stay, and actually banged on our dining table, saying, ‘I want to know what’s going on with this money!’
He virtually accused Dh and BiL of fiddling.
The cousin stayed for 10 days and after he left there was not so much as an email to say thanks for having him.

How many airlines actually make that clear at the booking process though, rather than burying it in the small print ?

And how many of them lead with the offer of giving you compensation when they ask you to move your seat when you have paid for it ?

I am guessing not many.

This is all about the airlines being greedy at the end of the day.

No it's really not but once we get into discussions about charging for seat choice it doesn"t take long before the airlines get accused of being greedy or gouging.

The airline balance sheets really don't support that POV...

The reality is that lots of people like debundled pricing, especially solo travellers....if you remove seat choice fees base fares will go up.

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A couple of years ago I was waiting at the departure gate for a flight from Manchester to London. It was a journey I took regularly at the time. I have MS and use an electric wheelchair. Also at the gate was a group of about six youngish men who were rolling drunk - singing, shouting and harassing other passengers. At one point one of them decided to push my wheelchair. It wouldn't move of course, and as the brake was on he almost succeeded in tipping me out of it. He was very apologetic but also told me to fuck off. When I was called to board, first, due to my disability, I asked why they were being allowed to fly and was told that they had "promised to behave". Inevitably, once airborne, they ran riot, inflated their life jackets and were very abusive to staff. At Heathrow, they were all arrested. I'm afraid we live by the standards we set. Those men could have put the other passengers in danger. If we're too ready to be lenient with poor behaviour, or to afraid to say no, we live with the consequences of our choices. Unfortunately, sometimes other people have to live with those consequences too. Stop selling alcohol in airports, stop serving alcohol on planes, and deny boarding to anyone who is evidently under the influence of drink or drugs.

You do not have an entitlement to that seat. You have an entitlement to a refund if, for whatever reason, the booked seat is not provided.

There are many legit reasons why a booked seat may not be provided, including a change in aircraft type. In which case your booked row may not exist.

The final say is with the captain. Although she/he has better things to do than worry about who is sitting next to Aunty Fanny!

Interested to know how this works @MalleusMaleficarumm . Does he notify the airline and they ban all future bookings? Really hope so! Aggressive people need to know that they can't get away with it.

Oh I'm sure it does.

But in that case they should immediately refund you the cost of the booking.

This is all about the airlines being greedy at the end of the day. The passengers turn on each other, but it is the airlines who are really responsible for the shit show. Otherwise they would just let everyone reserve for free online.

The problem is when you book and pay for a seat you do literally have an entitlement to sit in that seat.

Problem is if you dig into the fine print of the T&Cs of almost any airline you'll find a clause that says something like you can be moved from your booked seat for operational reasons.

Now that's mainly there to cover aircraft/configuration changes but it gives the airline some wriggle room...

The problem is when you book and pay for a seat you do literally have an entitlement to sit in that seat. I don't know the exact T&Cs of the booking, but I would hope that the airline would do everything possible to ensure you got that seat and assist you if someone was kicking off about it or trying to make you move. If a member of airline staff asked me to move I would demand a refund.

The problem isn't with people who have paid for refusing to move. It's with the people who seem to think it's OK to upend the rest of the world because they cannot be bothered to book and pay for specific seat reservations. And 90% of the time it seems to me that these people would be perfectly OK not having to sit next to the person of their choice for the duration of the flight.

One of the best examples of entitlement I ever saw on a flight was an announcement after we all boarded and sitting down in a very full aircraft. Apparently, a honeymoon couple had told the crew, if they couldn’t sit together, they wanted to get off the flight.

The passengers were asked if anyone was willing to swap their seat, otherwise there would be a delay whilst this couple’s cases were offloaded. Having paid extra for a bulkhead seat with extra legroom and an allocated seat to next to my DH, I’m afraid we weren’t going to be the noble ones!

I assume someone accommodated them as we very soon departed, but I was gobsmacked by the emotional manipulation employed by this pair to get their own way.

Not to mention all the stresses of getting through the airport, and even the travel to get to the airport. Everything is stressful and doesn't work properly these days.

Exactly what I do! I’ve just booked business class to go to Boston, US, via Dublin. On the Dublin flight there is not a business section due to size of plane so business class travellers booking early enough are given priority for the extra leg room seats by the doors. Unfortunately as I have booked assistance to get around the airport due to knee problems, I cannot sit in these seats. I understand why and accept the situation, I would not dream of kicking off about it while on the plane!

I am however reluctant to swap my seat if it means I lose my aisle seat or extra leg room seat that I have paid extra for. I was once asked to swap my seat in business class ( it’s not that I am rich and only travel business class but being plus size, I get very uncomfortable in an economy seat so prefer to pay extra but fly on fewer holidays) from the single seat by the window to a middle seat which was next to another seat. I refused as when I fly on my own, I don’t feel comfortable sleeping in the fully reclined position next to a stranger. The man who wanted my seat got very angry with me and the crew, claiming that there were no single seats available when he booked at short notice and therefore he had the right to move! I stood my ground though and he had to sit in the seat he booked but then spent the next 9 hours moaning about me to those sat near him! I just ignored him, put headphones on and went to sleep!

Yes that’s what I wondered.

And it’s really annoying when you’ve paid for a carry on case and people put all sorts of stuff in the overhead bins which could go under the seat in front of them. So you have to trek all over the cabin.

I flew long haul on Singapore Airlines, and a passenger shouted at the air hostess because they could not find space for his very large carry on bag. Selfish bastard.

I have also worked in customer facing roles for a long time, and the abusive behaviour / angry outbursts directed at staff is a million times worse than what it was a decade ago, or even five years ago. My motto is treat people how you like would like to be treated.

Though they can take other substances I suppose - but they're supposed to calm you down!

Depends what the substance is...🤔

I confess to losing my shit (out loud and only to myself though!) when the self service machines don't work for me. And that's nearly EVERY time I use them. Must be me, that's why I shout at MYSELF lol. 😊

I often wonder if there would ever be the day that bars and alcohol service are banned in airports. Too many vested interests for that to happen I suppose, but it might help a good bit re drunken behaviour. Although they can take other substances I suppose - but they're supposed to calm you down!

It's everywhere.

I run a pub and I've said before about the number of horrific interactions I've had from people.
Just this weekend I had to call police because six large males were being so obnoxious and loud that other customers left. We were meant to have an Easter hunt for children but parents arrived, heard them, and left. The final straw was we had asked them several times to keep the volume down and they ignored us, then one was ribbing his mate over his wife refusing sex, so he told him, whilst looking directly at me that in his house if his wife says no he holds her down and does it anyway.
At that point I just said, that's it lads, time to go, drink up and leave.
What followed was ten minutes of threats to knock my teeth down my throat, repeatedly shouting that I was a fat whore and ugly, buck toothed, gobby little slag, and constant use of the c word. I even had one try and punch me to the back of the head when I had my back to one on the phone to 999.

The week before I was offered out by a sober woman because we don't have Malibu in the bar, it's not ordered so we don't bother. She was barred but left an appalling TripAdvisor review.

It's just horrible. I was actually in tears on Sunday because I was frightened they'd come back and smash the pub up, as one commented to my DH "you live upstairs don't you, watch your fucking back tonight". Police arrived ten minutes too late and did nothing. No help at all

And there's nothing any of us can do. Yes we have have to have thick skins but there's a point where enough is enough. People see us as beneath them as we are there to serve them. It makes some think they can genuinely speak to us like shit and get away with it. And they do get away with it. I can usually shrug and get on with it but Sunday really shook me up.

Happened to my uncle once a couple decades ago, got drunk at the airport and was denied boarding.

I haven't experienced anything on flights like what is being described in this thread. Must be because I only fly between Finland and the UK, so not a stag destination and mostly Finns on board who generally behave well (unless very very drunk, drunk enough to be denied boarding like my uncle)