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AIBU to think I shouldn't have to give an email address to get a receipt?

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BabyYodasGotMyTeacher · 21/04/2025 19:46

My DD(11) was buying something in New Look today and was asked for her email address for the receipt. I said no as I don't think it's appropriate for her to be giving out her email address, but was told that they had "gone paperless" so that was the only option.

She hadn't actually tried on the item so we definitely wanted a receipt in case it needed to go back - so I got very cross at being forced to hand over my email.

I am completely in favour of cutting down on receipts and having the option to choose paper/email/none but AIBU to think one shouldn't be forced to hand over email addresses just to get a proof of an in person purchase?

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/04/2025 21:34

Claire's have never offered a receipt by email to me. They ask if you want to give your address and subscribe for 10% off next purchase, or something similar.
If they don't gather enough email addresses monthly, they miss kpi target.

squeaver · 23/04/2025 21:22

I had to buy an emergency umbrella in Accessorize today. Ahead of me, a poor woman was badgered into joining their rewards programme (she didn't), then for her email address for a receipt, then to rate their service from 1 to 10.

When it was my turn, I just said, "please don't ask and I don't need a receipt".

I feel so sorry for the shop staff. It's not retail any more, it's just data-mining.

BearyNiceEars · 23/04/2025 21:11

GammonAndEgg · 21/04/2025 23:14

This is from New Looks own website!

They say you can have a paper receipt if you prefer

This all the way! I refuse e-receipts in store but if I do ever have to get something from NL, I’m directing the cashier to read their own privacy policy, I might even load the web page up on my phone if they need their memory jogged 🤣

stayathomegardener · 23/04/2025 21:08

I am always terribly apologetic and say work won’t let me use my email for personal matters despite being self employed with two perfectly good email options.

I just can’t be bothered unsubscribing afterwards.

Always given a paper copy.

itsgettingweird · 23/04/2025 21:02

I’d say “DD is a minor and it’s not acceptable to ask her for personal details. You can provide a receipt so please do or provide a refund immediately for the item you’ve just rang through”.

The paper will always suddenly appear!

I like the stores that ask if you want a receipt (also and b and m here) and I always decline because it’s not stuff I intend to or may want to return)

BlueMum16 · 23/04/2025 20:59

BabyYodasGotMyTeacher · 21/04/2025 20:25

That's my normal approach but today I got told they'd gone paperless and couldn't give out a paper one.

I would have asked what their solution was as I needed proof of purchase and didn't have an email.

It's for the to find a solution not you to give an email.

purpleme12 · 23/04/2025 20:57

Claire's have never offered a receipt by email to me

Brefugee · 23/04/2025 20:54

Phew. I don't have to go in Claire's any more. That's a bit of a relief!

EmeraldShamrock000 · 23/04/2025 20:14

Unfortunately for retail staff, who ask if you'd like an email receipt, are impacted on their commission as gathering email address is marked in their KPI report.
My niece works for clres accessories and email addresses are part of the target.

Badbadbunny · 23/04/2025 08:31

On a tangent, but if you buy something in curry’s such as a laptop for your sole trader or self employment, don’t say yes when they ask if it’s a business purchase. If you do, you’ve just lost your automatic consumer rights which apply only to domestic purchases, I.e. right to return within 28 days, rights to return faulty goods etc. The consumer rights don’t apply to business purchases! You have to go back to relying on contract law which is a higher burden of proof and costly as you have to involve courts etc. I’ve had this with curry’s, as have some of my business clients. Their counter staff are trained to ask the question if it looks like it could be a business purchase just so they can avoid consumer rights!

Also don’t use a business debit/credit card as that also flags it up as a business purchase! And don’t say you need a receipt for your tax return if they try to fob you off without a paper receipt or give them a business email address for an e-receipt! Give them no reason to press the “business” button on the till!

Gettingbysomehow · 23/04/2025 08:15

They want to bombard your DD with emails about their products. I won't buy online from any shop that wants my date of birth either. It's none of their business.

Octopusespunchforfun · 23/04/2025 08:12

Botanybaby · 23/04/2025 07:35

Good lord it's just an email address

It’s not though it’s the principal. They pretend they’ve gone paperless for environmental reasons when in fact it’s so they can get your email address and sell your data. It’s the pretending they can’t give you a paper one so you’re forced to surrender your data that annoys me. It’s so dishonest. Why not just say do you want a paper or virtual receipt?

Botanybaby · 23/04/2025 07:35

Good lord it's just an email address

LittleGreenDuck · 22/04/2025 16:54

They absolutely can give you a paper receipt. My teenage daughter shops there and the only email address she has is her school email. She's not giving that out!

It was a while ago, but last time I was in there, their signage actually said, in very small letters at the bottom "If you need a paper receipt, please let us know and we can provide this", or words to that effect. I had to point this out to the lady behind the till who was having a right huff when I wouldn't give my email.

TonTonMacoute · 22/04/2025 16:40

ToKittyornottoKitty · 21/04/2025 19:48

Just say no I need a paper one please and they will give you one. They are trying to be paperless but they’ll will still provide one

It's not because they want to be paperless, it's because they want the email address which they can sell.

Toooldtopretend · 22/04/2025 16:39

I had to give my phone number for a receipt for a 10p paper bag in Zara when I collected my order from store. It did really annoy me.

Octopusespunchforfun · 22/04/2025 14:06

zingally · 22/04/2025 13:42

It's a pain isn't it?!

Dunelm are the worst near me for this. They'll ask for an email address for the receipt, and I just say, "A paper one is fine thank you" and then stand there with an expectant look on my face.

Yes this is me in Dunelm too. The huffs and tuts I get 😆

BlueCleaningCloth · 22/04/2025 14:05

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 22/04/2025 14:02

New Look here absolutely refuse to do paper, I have had the argument with them and they won't shift.

WhatsApp head office and then take it with you next time.

JustHereWithMyPopcorn · 22/04/2025 14:02

New Look here absolutely refuse to do paper, I have had the argument with them and they won't shift.

BlueCleaningCloth · 22/04/2025 14:00

Shittyhouse · 22/04/2025 13:39

If this is a breach of GDPR policy, why has New Look not been penalised? I did not consent to their sales-boosting emails

Because nobody has held them to account. Regulating bodies don't know shops are pulling this crap without consumers informing them.

Dotjones · 22/04/2025 13:56

I set up a spam email address specifically for this sort of thing. (Actually I set up two, a clean one and one along the lines of "useless-shop-cunt at domain dot com" with the latter reserved for particularly unpleasant or unhelpful staff.)

I like the idea PP had of setting up a unique address for every single transaction, so as to see which retailer sells your details!

Helen1625 · 22/04/2025 13:55

BabyYodasGotMyTeacher · 21/04/2025 20:25

That's my normal approach but today I got told they'd gone paperless and couldn't give out a paper one.

They do say things like 'this till is paperless, is that OK?' Or try other ways to get you to provide an email (a lot of it is so that you can then be added to their mailing list and get bombarded with emails from them) BUT if you say no, I'd like a paper copy please, they can and will, despite saying otherwise to begin with. 😊

Lots of shops now say 'do you need a receipt', it always makes me think if I had to return something or if there was another issue, how would I prove I've just paid for the items in my bag?

TheMimsy · 22/04/2025 13:51

I say no and I haven’t got an email address. Total Bullshit of course but it makes me feel stubborn when this shit happens.

You are entitled to a receipt and I’m sure there is a trading standards etc thing we can throw at them in these situations.

zingally · 22/04/2025 13:42

It's a pain isn't it?!

Dunelm are the worst near me for this. They'll ask for an email address for the receipt, and I just say, "A paper one is fine thank you" and then stand there with an expectant look on my face.

Shittyhouse · 22/04/2025 13:39

InfoSecInTheCity · 21/04/2025 20:31

They can, they’re targeted to get email addresses so they don’t want to agree to a paper one and lie to say there’s no other option. It’s actually illegal the way they’re doing it. GDPR requires that when collecting data from any customer they must make available the Privacy Policy and provide the data subject (you) with option to consent or not consent to say they use that data for marketing purposes. They don’t do that. New Look wants your email addresses because they use it to sign you up to their newsletter to push future sales and they sell your details for additional revenue.

If this is a breach of GDPR policy, why has New Look not been penalised? I did not consent to their sales-boosting emails