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To be fed up with machine hoggers at the gym?

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Glindaa · 21/04/2025 19:11

Every time I go to the gym there are people who sit around on machines for ages between sets , scrolling on their phone or whatever, as if no one else in the gym needs to use that machine. I always get up between sets in case someone else wants to use it or go between machines. I sometimes politely ask if I can do a set while they’re not using it , people usually say something like “ I’ve got two more sets to left to do” occasionally someone will begrudgingly get up looking miffed. On rare occasion someone has been aggressive towards me. My gym aren’t interested in fixing the problem with signage about gym etiquette. WWYD?

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 21:41

AlpacaMittens · 23/04/2025 21:29

Ten minutes!!!! Some people are ridiculous.

A new thing at my local gym was people doing a circuit on several machines and essentially reserving them by placing stuff on them - a water bottle here, a towel there, a keyring further down. I just pushed the stuff away and used the machine. Only got "told off" once by a very intimidating dude and I never tried it again. Some people are just morons and it's not worth the stress.

Yes, I actually time them sometimes , I’ve seen longer than ten mins, one woman on one machine for the entire hour I was there - she was on a work phone call. Every now and then she’d do a few half arsed leg reps. not many seem familiar with concept of working in,
yes there are people at my gym who try to reserve multiple machines with a water bottle or towel. I just use the machine but have had a guys storm over and tell me “ hey! I’m using that !” . Probably not worth the aggro .

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AlpacaMittens · 23/04/2025 21:29

Glindaa · 23/04/2025 20:56

It’s more the ones on the pin adjusted machines that aren’t necessarily lifting heavy but taking excessively long rest breaks . After ten mins goes by I might be brave enough to interrupt their scrolling or whatever they’re doing & ask to do a quick set. The typical response is they look offended and say “ but I’m using it ! “ then jump up and start using machine.
Agree people shouldn’t ask when you’ve just got the machine & adjusting it

Ten minutes!!!! Some people are ridiculous.

A new thing at my local gym was people doing a circuit on several machines and essentially reserving them by placing stuff on them - a water bottle here, a towel there, a keyring further down. I just pushed the stuff away and used the machine. Only got "told off" once by a very intimidating dude and I never tried it again. Some people are just morons and it's not worth the stress.

Glindaa · 23/04/2025 21:08

MsMartini · 22/04/2025 22:20

@Glindaa what sort of machine - plate loaded? And when you say they "don't allow it", what do you mean? A flat out "No" when they are on fairly easily adjusted pin machines, or a "I've just got a couple of sets left" when it is a set up that will require re-rigging?

I've barely ever had to ask to work in when it was reasonable to do so, as people usually offer first, and so do I, IYSWIM (but if someone is squatting 250/300 kg I leave them be! - it does depend how much focus is needed as well as what the set up is) - what sort of a gym is it and have you used other gyms and found the same?

Pin adjusted machines , people are surprised if I ask to do a quick set while they’re. “ resting” after they’ve sat there for ten mins or more. They jump up and say “I’m using it !!”

it’s a well known lifestyle kinda gym , a mix of people from proper training and those who I think “why bother” with the ratio between a bit of half arsed working out & mainly just sitting around

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 21:01

LlynTegid · 23/04/2025 13:18

I'd find another gym if they won't do anything.

I might have to 😬

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 20:59

GraveAndQuiet · 23/04/2025 19:48

I hate it when people ask to work in. I wipe down all touch points- seat, handles, pin... everything before and after. It's an hangover from covid days- and i don't want to catch any cold or bug, so I'm not going to do that between every set.

Also, if annyone asks how many sets I've got left, I always say "3" with a blank expression, regardless of the real number. Then I just carry on doing my thing.
I never have my phone out though.

That’s fine unless you’re taking excessively long rest breaks between each set.

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 20:57

LittleBigHead · 23/04/2025 13:15

OP, you're focusing your 'rules' only on the equipment you use. Even your proposed restriction of 30 minutes on a treadmill. You seem to expect people to work around your routine.

Exactly. This is such a good observation.

There are different ways to work out. People have different needs and different programmes. I need my three minute rest after sets of 3 deads at 90 kilos when I'm doing 5 sets. I need to sit down. That part of my work out takes 30 minutes. It's entirely legitimate, even if it's different from your workout.

But if a deadlift platform isn't available (my gym has 3), I'll do something else. Indeed, I know that if I don't get to the gym unto 6pm, there won't be a lifting platform or a squat rack free! Same as if I come in to use the sled, but someone else is (we only have one sled track). They were there first & I can wait or do something else.

But I wasn’t questioning any of that

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 20:56

AlpacaMittens · 23/04/2025 08:15

When I used to go to the gym, I was literally doing timed 30 second rests between sets. I always had people asking if they can work in - then they were all annoyed when I politely explained that literally my whole workout on that particular machine takes about 5 mins.

So it depends. Of course nudge people when they're hogging machines. But equally be conscious that some users have very short times on each machine so it's not really efficient "working in".

My absolute pet peeve, even worse than the machine hoggers, was when I hadn't even started on my set - clearly still only setting up the machine etc - and someone pops to ask how long I'll be. Just go do something else and come back. Are you training for the fucking Olympics or are we all in the local PureGym paying the exact same membership? Just chill.

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It’s more the ones on the pin adjusted machines that aren’t necessarily lifting heavy but taking excessively long rest breaks . After ten mins goes by I might be brave enough to interrupt their scrolling or whatever they’re doing & ask to do a quick set. The typical response is they look offended and say “ but I’m using it ! “ then jump up and start using machine.
Agree people shouldn’t ask when you’ve just got the machine & adjusting it

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GraveAndQuiet · 23/04/2025 19:48

I hate it when people ask to work in. I wipe down all touch points- seat, handles, pin... everything before and after. It's an hangover from covid days- and i don't want to catch any cold or bug, so I'm not going to do that between every set.

Also, if annyone asks how many sets I've got left, I always say "3" with a blank expression, regardless of the real number. Then I just carry on doing my thing.
I never have my phone out though.

Glindaa · 23/04/2025 19:37

Kellybonita · 23/04/2025 08:50

Could you use a home gym. You can buy machines quite cheaply online now. I bought a small treadmill and weights.

Depends what you want to use. But I much prefer it. No weighting times.

I feel like a lot of people who go to gyms go there to show off. A lot of the men go to show off their bodies to women that go. A lot of the people also go to film their workouts and post it on social media for content.

I'm friends with one man I work with on instagram.

He films every single workout. He posts how many calories he's burned. He writes about it all like he's a hero returning from war.

Like "one hour done on the stairmaster. 500 calories burned".

Next day "now it's leg day at the gym. Let's go!!"

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If I had space but I live in small flat.
that guy sounds quite boring 😅

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 19:30

MiddleAgedDread · 23/04/2025 08:10

And not everyone trains to lift as heavy as possible, so clearly you don’t understand how it works either!! I can do 3 sets while you’re “resting” and playing on your phone so move out of the way!!

Exactly!!

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 19:29

GraveAndQuiet · 23/04/2025 08:00

Speak to gym management formally- ask to make an appointment- or if there is some kind of customer forum, join it. You can make management aware of pinch points, high demand for particular equipment. They could swop lesser used kit out. ie ask them to manage.

You could request that staff on the gym floor are more proactive- just circulating, being present and more vigilant, actually watching how people use the equipment ( eg hogging 2 bits of kit ). Ask that the gym staff supervise, play a more active role in ensuring good etiquette.

I emailed them and they said I need to ask to work in. But people don’t want to do that . They’ll look offended and say “but I’m using it!”, then quickly start using the machine, after they’ve just sat there 15 minutes doing eff all. These are the quick pin adjusted machines.
The only staff are PTs and receptionist . Manager probably around somewhere but they would never circulate and upset members by asking people to stop hogging equipment

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BitOutOfPractice · 23/04/2025 19:18

The bloke on the treadmill next to me today continually air drummed throughout his run. That was nothing to do with the thread but I thought I’d drop that in!

Glindaa · 23/04/2025 19:11

Sheknowsaboutme · 23/04/2025 07:36

I go to a female only gym. Its great! And I choose the right time which is after work at 4. Plus Saturday afternoon, i get the whole place to myself.

wide range of ages frequent, but i do notice the young females are the ones scrolling the phones, like they are chilling in a cafe. I. An be there for an hour and they do some exercises, chill, move machine, chill then leave.

I work hard there and often wonder if they there just for instagram.

Yep they’re the worst ones, I sometime wonder why some people bother going to the gym if they’re just going to mess around. Nothing better to do with their time I think !

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Glindaa · 23/04/2025 19:08

Stinksmum · 23/04/2025 07:07

I stopped going to my very small local gym because of this. One lady was using the cycle machine for ages, reading a book, when I finally got on it she hadn't even set the tension and was basically pedalling against fresh air. She also started trying to save one of the 2 running machines because her mate would be coming along shortly.

some people act like going to gym is a place to go and relax and mooch and sit about or even do work calls & emails. Those people stop others from getting their workout done. I like to get in and out , no messing around

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Assumingthebest · 23/04/2025 13:24

No aggression at our gym, but hogging machines for ages is common. I watched a young lad go to a weight machine, sit for 10 mins on phone (I was on a cardio machine opposite), then did 1 set and scrolled for 5 minutes again. I wanted to use the machine so asked if he'd finished, he said he had 1 set left. Then he chatted to his friend for another 5 minutes before doing that set!
Unfortunately the friend then went on the machine so I didn't get on it!

LlynTegid · 23/04/2025 13:18

I'd find another gym if they won't do anything.

LittleBigHead · 23/04/2025 13:15

OP, you're focusing your 'rules' only on the equipment you use. Even your proposed restriction of 30 minutes on a treadmill. You seem to expect people to work around your routine.

Exactly. This is such a good observation.

There are different ways to work out. People have different needs and different programmes. I need my three minute rest after sets of 3 deads at 90 kilos when I'm doing 5 sets. I need to sit down. That part of my work out takes 30 minutes. It's entirely legitimate, even if it's different from your workout.

But if a deadlift platform isn't available (my gym has 3), I'll do something else. Indeed, I know that if I don't get to the gym unto 6pm, there won't be a lifting platform or a squat rack free! Same as if I come in to use the sled, but someone else is (we only have one sled track). They were there first & I can wait or do something else.

LittleBigHead · 23/04/2025 13:10

MiddleAgedDread · 23/04/2025 08:10

And not everyone trains to lift as heavy as possible, so clearly you don’t understand how it works either!! I can do 3 sets while you’re “resting” and playing on your phone so move out of the way!!

That's quite rude.

Kellybonita · 23/04/2025 08:50

Could you use a home gym. You can buy machines quite cheaply online now. I bought a small treadmill and weights.

Depends what you want to use. But I much prefer it. No weighting times.

I feel like a lot of people who go to gyms go there to show off. A lot of the men go to show off their bodies to women that go. A lot of the people also go to film their workouts and post it on social media for content.

I'm friends with one man I work with on instagram.

He films every single workout. He posts how many calories he's burned. He writes about it all like he's a hero returning from war.

Like "one hour done on the stairmaster. 500 calories burned".

Next day "now it's leg day at the gym. Let's go!!"

MsMartini · 23/04/2025 08:38

In response to pp, it absolutely is the etiquette at all the gyms I have used to sit on the machines (if you want to) between sets. It makes clear who is using the machine, and means you don't take up floor space that someone else might want. Other people can ask to jump in if appropriate and no-one has ever been rude. Some people go to the gym to be alone in their own headspace so they may answer briefly, which is totally fine.

It sounds like some of the gyms described here could do with some education posters about different sets/reps and rest ranges? It seems obvious to me that you can't work in with someone doing 3 sets of 15 with 30 sec rests, any more than you can (easily) with someone benching 120kg if you are on 30 - tho it is possible to swap weight plates as you need decent rest for bench, a lot of people prefer doing the big compound moves alone, or with someone they are used to training with, as you do need to focus, prepare mentally and own the space. It is important to understand the different ways of training IMO and recognise that you do need to stick to the programme for progressive overload and strength building (not using light weights for cardio and conditioning, but heavy weights at low reps) and for most people a gym is the only place they can do heavy lifting, and it is one of most gym's functions. That really doesn't necessarily make them inconsiderate, and those people tend to do fewer exercises per session.

I use my phone in the gym to record sets and reps, my overall programme, and also record and watch videos about form etc.

EveInEden · 23/04/2025 08:16

OP, you're focusing your 'rules' only on the equipment you use. Even your proposed restriction of 30 minutes on a treadmill. You seem to expect people to work around your routine.

I've not been to a gym for a while, but I'd be tracking my progress via my garmin app on my phone etc while resting. And unless you work with a partner you know, it would be just as irritating having someone 'work in' and then eat into your time when you need to step back in.

AlpacaMittens · 23/04/2025 08:15

When I used to go to the gym, I was literally doing timed 30 second rests between sets. I always had people asking if they can work in - then they were all annoyed when I politely explained that literally my whole workout on that particular machine takes about 5 mins.

So it depends. Of course nudge people when they're hogging machines. But equally be conscious that some users have very short times on each machine so it's not really efficient "working in".

My absolute pet peeve, even worse than the machine hoggers, was when I hadn't even started on my set - clearly still only setting up the machine etc - and someone pops to ask how long I'll be. Just go do something else and come back. Are you training for the fucking Olympics or are we all in the local PureGym paying the exact same membership? Just chill.

MiddleAgedDread · 23/04/2025 08:10

LittleBigHead · 21/04/2025 19:30

YABU

If you're lifting heavy, it is essential to rest between sets. Otherwise, you don't get the muscle strength development, and you could injure yourself.

I rest up to 4 minutes between heavy sets of deadlifts (say 90 to 105 kilo lifts) and heavy squats (anything over 560 kilos). Between warm up sets - anything up to 70 kilo deads, I rest at least 2 minutes.

Maybe you're not lifting heavy enough, or you don't understand how it works?

You can ask to "work in" with someone. But they can say no.

And not everyone trains to lift as heavy as possible, so clearly you don’t understand how it works either!! I can do 3 sets while you’re “resting” and playing on your phone so move out of the way!!

GraveAndQuiet · 23/04/2025 08:00

Speak to gym management formally- ask to make an appointment- or if there is some kind of customer forum, join it. You can make management aware of pinch points, high demand for particular equipment. They could swop lesser used kit out. ie ask them to manage.

You could request that staff on the gym floor are more proactive- just circulating, being present and more vigilant, actually watching how people use the equipment ( eg hogging 2 bits of kit ). Ask that the gym staff supervise, play a more active role in ensuring good etiquette.

EmpressaurusKitty · 23/04/2025 07:54

I don’t use the machines, I do free weights (not lifting heavy enough yet for racks), but I make sure I’ve only ever got the weights I need for one set instead of grabbing them all at once.

As for banning phones, I have my workout plan on mine & usually an audiobook playing, so if that happened I’d probably look for a different gym.

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