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DeanElderberry · 22/04/2025 06:32

Popes being accused of being 'too woke' started with Peter and Paul having a showdown over admitting gentiles and dropping Jewish food laws and has continued ever since whenever any Pope tried a reform. When Callixtus (218-222) introduced equal marriage (between slaves and free Christians) there was OUTRAGE in some quarters, Because we are all human.

TempestTost · 22/04/2025 02:46

queenofthesuburbs · 22/04/2025 00:52

@Smallsalt
I think change is due, but I'm not sure it will necessarily lead to larger congregations .It hasn't worked in or for the Church of England.

In some ways a return to a more spiritual and mystic form of Catholicism might draw more people in/back to the Church.

The weight of Christianity these days isn't really in Europe, so I think sometimes we tend to have an unbalanced view. Many of the places with the most practicing Catholics are much more conservative.

TempestTost · 22/04/2025 02:34

Over40Overdating · 21/04/2025 11:53

I sincerely hope though that the example of humility, compassion and care that Pope Francis set is a bell that can't be unrung.

Exactly this @Uricon2 - it will be very hard, even for the most hard line Conservative, to revert back to the pomp, wealth and hierarchy that was normal pre-Francis, and not look like a raging hypocrite whilst alienating the masses in the developing world where the future of the Catholic Church lies.

Francis was popular because he was relatable, as much as he was compassionate. He seemed like he had lived in the world and understood the issues facing normal people. And considered himself a normal person, albeit with an extraordinary job.

Ratzinger was a cold authoritarian in expensive shoes who spoke theology, not humanity, in contrast. Going back to that will lose as many as it will comfort.

Theology is important as well. Some of the divisive problems Francis had within the Catholic Church were due to the fact that often his statements seemed very muddy and contradictory, which won't in the end allow whatever he hoped to achieve with them to be regularized. He also walked back some reforms that Benedict had started, for example around the use of the traditional mass.
Benedict was considered to be a really phenomenal and precise theologian who could cut through difficult problems with a lot of insight. Why people see that as negative I am not sure.

pirateshirt · 22/04/2025 02:20

He served his people to the end. Greeting them, blessing little babies. It's a beautiful way to go.

queenofthesuburbs · 22/04/2025 00:53

However I think for the next few days speculation is premature and it should be a time of reflection on his life and death.

queenofthesuburbs · 22/04/2025 00:52

@Smallsalt
I think change is due, but I'm not sure it will necessarily lead to larger congregations .It hasn't worked in or for the Church of England.

In some ways a return to a more spiritual and mystic form of Catholicism might draw more people in/back to the Church.

Smallsalt · 22/04/2025 00:09

TheTigerWhoCameToBrunch · 21/04/2025 12:13

I’m a Catholic and this Pope was far too woke for me. Unfortunately I think the next choice will be even woker.

If the church doesn't "woke up" there will be no church.
It already has barely any priests.
Francis knew that.

By all means cling to your exclusive conservatism unloving , but the church will be gone. No clergy and no congregations

powershowerforanhour · 21/04/2025 23:44

I think he was an excellent choice for pope and did a good job, stood up for the downtrodden and seemed like a really humane , sincere, kind person. I hope they get another like him.

shortsharp · 21/04/2025 23:08

DeanElderberry · 21/04/2025 09:25

Eternal rest grant to him O Lord.

Let perpetual light shine upon him.
May he rest in peace.

May his soul, and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace.

Amen

There's a night prayer that closes with - Grant me a quiet rest and a perfect end. Hard to think of a better end than to receive communion at Easter, to meet the poor, and to bless pilgrims.

I'm sorry we've lost him, he still had work to do, particularly in the American church, but I'm grateful for many things he did.

I’ve never heard that prayer before but I must say it’s beautiful. I just looked it up and I think it’s Church of England. Thank you for sharing it.

It’s a sad day for catholics. May he rest in peace. I dropped into my local chapel tonight to say a prayer for the repose of his soul. There was a quiet peacefulness and a few people deep in prayer at the shrine that had been set up for him.

RafaistheKingofClay · 21/04/2025 23:04

I’m with you of all of that @Toddlerteaplease

Tagle seems like a good successor to Pope Francis. Really hoping they don’t go for Erdo.

Toddlerteaplease · 21/04/2025 22:46

I’m just relieved that Cardinals Burke and Sarah are too old to be considered. I’m hoping for Tagle as I heard him speak once and he was excellent. I know nothing else about him though.

Annascaul · 21/04/2025 22:45

Simonjt · 21/04/2025 22:12

He is part of a party that dislikes people of colour and treats anything associated with non-white people as suspicious. I think its fairly obvious why a republican married to an Asian woman who is also a Hindu picked catholicism.

Hmm
Simonjt · 21/04/2025 22:12

AgnesX · 21/04/2025 13:38

Isn't she? I'd assumed that's why he converted in the first place.

He is part of a party that dislikes people of colour and treats anything associated with non-white people as suspicious. I think its fairly obvious why a republican married to an Asian woman who is also a Hindu picked catholicism.

Tessiebear2023 · 21/04/2025 22:06

Popes are like Star Trek movies, you get a good pope then a bad pope. We're due a bad pope now, get ready to bash the homosexuals again!

I'm only half joking, and since the rest of the world seems to have lost it's mind, I really wouldn't be surprised if we got a bonkers hard-line traditionalist again and the embezzlers move back into the Vatican bank.

RafaistheKingofClay · 21/04/2025 22:01

Conversationkiller654 · 21/04/2025 21:34

I’m also extremely worried about this.

While Pope Francis tried to promote the role of women in the church in a very limited way and faced lots of opposition in the Vatican, he was more successful in relation to his work on poverty, the homeless, the dispossessed and the environment.

I’m terrified that a more conservative successor will be chosen and any progress made will be lost.

The Catholic church desperately needs change. The chasm between what the average Joe at Sunday Mass believes and practices, and what the hierarchy decrees, is vast. And that cannot be sustainable for much longer?

Edited

I think we are pretty good at cognitive dissonance on that. And just hoping the Church will catch up eventually.

mnahmnah · 21/04/2025 21:41

PoppyTries · 21/04/2025 17:49

I believe Francis appointed the vast majority of the current cardinals ( I saw an estimate of 80% which seems high?) so hopefully they will follow his lead. It would be awful for the Church to go backwards.

Oh that’s interesting! Also reassuring. I saw a list reported of the hottest contenders and there were a couple of traditionalists in there, but they are in their 70s, so you would hope they would choose a little younger than that.

Conversationkiller654 · 21/04/2025 21:34

mnahmnah · 21/04/2025 09:25

He was a good Pope.

I worry now who the next will be though. Francis’ more liberal ideas upset many within the church so I fear they may go with someone more conservative like Benedict again and take the church backwards.

I’m also extremely worried about this.

While Pope Francis tried to promote the role of women in the church in a very limited way and faced lots of opposition in the Vatican, he was more successful in relation to his work on poverty, the homeless, the dispossessed and the environment.

I’m terrified that a more conservative successor will be chosen and any progress made will be lost.

The Catholic church desperately needs change. The chasm between what the average Joe at Sunday Mass believes and practices, and what the hierarchy decrees, is vast. And that cannot be sustainable for much longer?

TokyoSushi · 21/04/2025 20:14

Spurred me on to watch Conclave this afternoon - what an excellent film.

NoisyLemonDog · 21/04/2025 19:48

AgnesX · 21/04/2025 13:38

Isn't she? I'd assumed that's why he converted in the first place.

Usha Vance is a practicing Hindu.

SwanOfThoseThings · 21/04/2025 19:38

Just got home to this news. Shocked - I thought he was recovering from his illness. It was brave of him to make his Easter speech when clearly he was failing - I am reminded of Queen Elizabeth II appointing the new Prime Minister just before her death. Whatever your religion or political viewpoint, it can't be denied that some public figures have an exceptionally strong sense of duty, and clearly Pope Francis was one of them.

Uricon2 · 21/04/2025 18:37

vandelier · 21/04/2025 17:47

Does anyone else think that Pope Francis had a lovely face. Kind eyes and a great smile. There was something about his features that always made me think he was full of goodness.

Not like some of his stern faced predecessors!

He was the spitting image of my very, very much loved and missed grandfather, especially a few years ago when he was well. I got quite a start the first time I saw him.

He was never going to please everyone, no Pope is ever going to do that (St Peter would really struggle!) but I think his actions were those of a person who actually cared about not just his flock but humanity. Perhaps that is as much as we can hope for from any religious leader.

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 18:31

Annascaul · 21/04/2025 17:41

I didn’t have your post deleted, you’re not that important.
Interesting that you just won’t go away, though.
Have some respect for the other posters and stop it.

As I said before, take your own advice. Leave me alone!

PoppyTries · 21/04/2025 17:49

mnahmnah · 21/04/2025 09:25

He was a good Pope.

I worry now who the next will be though. Francis’ more liberal ideas upset many within the church so I fear they may go with someone more conservative like Benedict again and take the church backwards.

I believe Francis appointed the vast majority of the current cardinals ( I saw an estimate of 80% which seems high?) so hopefully they will follow his lead. It would be awful for the Church to go backwards.

vandelier · 21/04/2025 17:47

Does anyone else think that Pope Francis had a lovely face. Kind eyes and a great smile. There was something about his features that always made me think he was full of goodness.

Not like some of his stern faced predecessors!

Annascaul · 21/04/2025 17:41

Kardamyli2 · 21/04/2025 17:39

As I said Annascaul in the post you got deleted for some reason, I didnt say boring - you made that up.

I didn’t have your post deleted, you’re not that important.
Interesting that you just won’t go away, though.
Have some respect for the other posters and stop it.