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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 15:54

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 15:42

Ok - apologise for allowing the animal you had responsibility for behaving in an inappropriate way.

Edited

It's just a dog peeking its nose under a cubicle divider, not some peeping Tom with a camera Confused

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 15:52

If people have difficult and complicated lives, adding a dog to it has to be managed. It's not fair to therefore expect other people to tolerate it.

ArtyFartyHippopotamus · 21/04/2025 15:46

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 15:42

Ok - apologise for allowing the animal you had responsibility for behaving in an inappropriate way.

Edited

My God, this was 25 bloody years ago.

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 15:42

ArtyFartyHippopotamus · 21/04/2025 15:21

It wasn’t me looking under the cubicle.

Ok - apologise for allowing the animal you had responsibility for behaving in an inappropriate way.

EmmaWoodhouseOfHighbury · 21/04/2025 15:33

I'm not sure it's a good idea for dogs to be in clothes shops but as someone else said, some people's lives are complicated. I have a ten year old Bichon who's just lost his best friend. Bichons are notoriously clingy at the best of times so I can't leave him at home (although he's ok in the car while I nip into a shop).

I live alone and have a chronic health condition so often, by the time I've walked my dog, I've got no energy to go back out to get food/run errands. It's much easier if I can pop into the post office etc. whilst I'm out on the dog walk. Even if I'm ok, I have to take the car out so I guess that's not acceptable either.

ArtyFartyHippopotamus · 21/04/2025 15:21

rosemarble · 21/04/2025 14:02

You didn’t even have the manners to apologise?

It wasn’t me looking under the cubicle.

FastFood · 21/04/2025 14:52

Titasaducksarse · 21/04/2025 08:15

You can take dogs in your trolley in lots of supermarkets in France...not just small dogs either!

No you can't
You may have seen a dog in a supermarket, but by law, dogs are forbidden in grocery stores (with the usual exception for assistance dogs)
That's why butchers and bakeries generally have a hook in the wall to leave the dog outside.

Lark1ane · 21/04/2025 14:49

Non-farm dogs off leash in fields of ewes and lambs in the Lake District.
Only being friendly.

Lark1ane · 21/04/2025 14:43

Whistonia · 21/04/2025 08:20

Makes a change from it being anti trans 🤷‍♀️

That's not true and you know it. Cheap point scoring.
And not even a dog to show for it.

8dateslater · 21/04/2025 14:42

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 14:34

Things like static holiday parks don't allow you to leave dogs unattended now days. I swear that want the case 30 years ago

That will be because more people have dogs than 30 years ago and the caravan owners can't trust the dog owners not to allow Fido to trash the place whilst they're out for the day. If check-out time is 10am and the next family check in at 4pm, that doesn't leave you much time to sort out new cushions, bedding etc if someone has allowed their dog to chew everything to bits.

Possibly

My mums dog as a kid for example went with them to the beach, and would be tied up by a lamp post while they went off to shops etc.

When we went away as kids, our dog would come but be left in caravans at haven, British holidays etc

Now it's a lot more complicated

Haven allows dogs for examples in a significant portion of their vans. But they don't allow you to leave them, you also aren't allowed to take them where the day time activities are

Realistically I'm sure that most of them expect you to leave your dogs but it a shit situation. People always seem surprised when we follow the rules

You're either a terrible owner breaking rules and the cause of much scorn

Or you're a terrible person according to mumsnet with your dog in museums, shops and restaurants.

Something like 45% of people on holiday in the uk have dogs, it's a large chunk of people/ tourist income to be stuck in eating takeaway each night, never going in shops and only doing woodland walks for the whole holiday.

KimberleyClark · 21/04/2025 14:37

WutheringTights · 21/04/2025 14:34

Dogs at Polling Stations is totally A Thing. BBC News are All Over It on Polling Day. See @votingdogs on twitter.

We took our dog to the polling station once. She had a toe fetish. The polling clerk was wearing sandals and got an unexpected lick.

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 14:34

8dateslater · 21/04/2025 14:28

I also wonder if the increase in dog friendly places like petting farms, museums, shopping centeres etc is due to the increase in strict rules in rentals.

Things like static holiday parks don't allow you to leave dogs unattended now days. I swear that want the case 30 years ago

Weve definitely been in the position of a windy/wet day on holiday, trapped in a caravan looking for family friendly indoor activities that are dog friendly

Things like static holiday parks don't allow you to leave dogs unattended now days. I swear that want the case 30 years ago

That will be because more people have dogs than 30 years ago and the caravan owners can't trust the dog owners not to allow Fido to trash the place whilst they're out for the day. If check-out time is 10am and the next family check in at 4pm, that doesn't leave you much time to sort out new cushions, bedding etc if someone has allowed their dog to chew everything to bits.

WutheringTights · 21/04/2025 14:34

MooseBeTimeForSnow · 21/04/2025 14:17

A polling place. We had cats as well.

Dogs at Polling Stations is totally A Thing. BBC News are All Over It on Polling Day. See @votingdogs on twitter.

Isittimeformynapyet · 21/04/2025 14:31

Differentforgirls · 21/04/2025 14:28

Are you pro trans women's rights?

Dogs. This thread is about dogs. The trans threads are that-a-way👈🏻 ..... and that-a-way 👉🏻 and that-a-way 👆🏻and tha......... 👆🏻👉🏻👈🏻

AnybodyAnywhere · 21/04/2025 14:31

I go to a lot of festivals, mostly older people, Rock/Prog/Blues, usually 4 nights camping. Never used to allow dogs but most do now.

I don’t have a dog, badly attacked as a child so a bit scared of them tbh, sorry. But I do wonder whether taking them to the stage, right by the speakers, is actually fun for creatures with such acute hearing.

Also not keen on those who take them into the shower.

Iloveyoubut · 21/04/2025 14:31

Differentforgirls · 21/04/2025 14:28

Are you pro trans women's rights?

I am 100% pro human rights which includes the rights of trans people.

SiobhanSharpe · 21/04/2025 14:31

@Differentforgirls
So the Supreme Court is vilifying TW? Biological reality vilifies trans women too?
A viewpoint showing why the SC ruling was needed in the first place.
(apologies for the derail. I like dogs but would not have one -- can't stand the shit. The shit thing applies to the crap owners too. )

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/04/2025 14:30

Differentforgirls · 21/04/2025 14:28

Are you pro trans women's rights?

I'm pro dogs rights. Can we possibly keep the ongoing trans row to the many threads already about it - we are rowing about dogs here.

FastFood · 21/04/2025 14:30

waltzingparrot · 21/04/2025 08:52

Saw a dog on the Tube the other day. Didn't think they'd be allowed. Woman had it in a large bag on her knee. It was quite a long journey too and of course I spent the whole journey wondering where it would go to the loo if caught short and who would have to clean it up.

I take my dog on the tube or the train all the time. My dog can easily do a 4h train ride without needing the loo.

A dog just doesn't pee like that, they know to hold it and need certain conditions to pee. A dog who's quietly sitting in the tube is not going to suddenly pee or poop out of the blue.

8dateslater · 21/04/2025 14:28

I also wonder if the increase in dog friendly places like petting farms, museums, shopping centeres etc is due to the increase in strict rules in rentals.

Things like static holiday parks don't allow you to leave dogs unattended now days. I swear that want the case 30 years ago

Weve definitely been in the position of a windy/wet day on holiday, trapped in a caravan looking for family friendly indoor activities that are dog friendly

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/04/2025 14:28

@TerrifiedPassenger- how acclimatised can a service animal be?

You clearly don't know the answer to that question, because if you had the remotest idea what the training for a service dog is, you would never have asked it. It is also ableist and very insulting to suggest that people with disabilities do not care about the welfare of their service dogs, upon whom they depend. Nobody with a service dog would put their companion at risk.

Differentforgirls · 21/04/2025 14:28

Iloveyoubut · 21/04/2025 14:15

That’s simply not true that Mumsnet is anti trans. Being pro womens rights does not make you anti trans at all.

Are you pro trans women's rights?

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 14:27

Isittimeformynapyet · 21/04/2025 14:21

There was a mini donkey for sale at the cathedral service?

Well I never.

Wasn't that the plot of an episode of The Vicar of Dibley?... 🤔

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 14:25

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 14:18

Ah, there was a thing about taking selfies with your pets at polling stations.

The BBC roll out a feature every general election on dogs in polling stations. The text gets recycled every time and for a few years there was an amusing section that read "dogs may not yet have the vote, but [filler article on dogs on polling stations]." The addition of "yet" tickled me as it read as though the author thought that canine suffrage was just around the corner 😆

Last time i saw the article alas the text had been updated to remove the "yet"!

Speckyfourfries · 21/04/2025 14:24

Our local cinema does dog friendly screenings. I love dogs but FFS... does a dog really want to sit in a dark room for 2 hours?

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