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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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Givemethereins · 22/04/2025 06:02

Potnoodly · 21/04/2025 08:21

No one is anti-trans, just pro women’s rights 🙄

Which youve somehow transformed into anti trans. Slow clap. 👏

Newmumhere40 · 22/04/2025 05:48

Potnoodly · 21/04/2025 08:21

No one is anti-trans, just pro women’s rights 🙄

Lol...not the case for the last anti trans thread I read.

dottiedodah · 22/04/2025 05:43

In the multi storey car park. Getting into the lift with several people! Very good ,didn't bark .Very busy at Christmas time

Lovebeingamummy2 · 22/04/2025 05:36

Build a bear because apparently the dog wanted to make a bear 🙈😂

grafittiartist · 22/04/2025 05:26

At a fair - absolutely packed- hard to walk round. noisy, busy, bright lights. Poor thing must have been stressed.

Gemütlich81 · 22/04/2025 04:14

In a Cats’ Protection charity shop

LeftFooter · 21/04/2025 22:08

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/04/2025 17:17

Babies and toddlers have an immortal soul and are members of the church. Animals don’t and aren’t.

Even within Christianity, that assertion is not universally agreed; and other faiths would entirely disagree.

As for "doggy greetings" etc., I have attended a number of "mixed animal" services in the past and to date there have been no traumas or problems, which isn't always true of Sunday School participants.

...understand liturgical rites...
But I don't think I would go that far - there's been times when I don't understand liturgical rites, so not sure why I would expect my Border Collie to.

I was talking about dogs in a Catholic Mass. Other denominations and faiths can choose to do, and believe, what they like!

wastingtimeonhere · 21/04/2025 21:54

As I said I agree, it's disgusting, and I in no way excuse it in any way. I am responsible, and pick up my dogs poo and bin it either in dog poo bin or at home.
My point is that it's skanky people leaving literal shit in all public places. I cleaned up the mess left behind in a beautiful public beauty/viewpoint place by a carload of family that threw the rubbish out the car window as they drove off. It got others out their cars and we cleaned up the shit together.
Beach huts here are a target, people go behind them to shit and piss. Men in particular will piss like a fucking Terrier marking territories anywhere and everywhere, are men not toilet trained past toddlerhood, as they seem to be unable to wait to use a loo! Beaches have to be cleaned daily during the summer, not because of Fido, he's not allowed, dogs are barred, but because of scuzzy humans.

Sorrysunflower · 21/04/2025 21:28

Sorry I haven’t RTFT. Was cycling hone the other day on a shared cycle / pedestrian path and some idiot was screaming at me to slow down because he was playing with his off-lead dogs on the path. WTF? He had one of those ball throwing things and was going up and down the path with it. There was a public park - vast, grassy - less than 2 mins walk away. And he had the audacity to ask me to slow down when I was using our city’s cycle infrastructure as intended. Idiot.

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 20:53

amiadoormat · 21/04/2025 20:50

@wastingtimeonhere
im fortunate to be able to spend a good portion of the year on the coast. In the last week I’ve seen dozens of full dog 💩 bags on the beach/in sand dunes / grass verges along lanes. And not a single nappy bag. A neighbour kindly went out and cleared what she could recently and collected 10 bags in the space of an hour. Signs are put up but dog owners are the lowest of the low - I’ve seen so many dogs squat and shit Infront of me this week it’s just disgusting. My children don’t squat and shit right next to a stranger

My dog squats and shits in front of me, and I pick it up. If someone's dog does it in front of you, then hope the owner picks it up, look away and get on with your life.

People who leave shit and poo bags everywhere piss off responsible dog owners too. Just because I have a dog does not mean I have low standards.

amiadoormat · 21/04/2025 20:50

@wastingtimeonhere
im fortunate to be able to spend a good portion of the year on the coast. In the last week I’ve seen dozens of full dog 💩 bags on the beach/in sand dunes / grass verges along lanes. And not a single nappy bag. A neighbour kindly went out and cleared what she could recently and collected 10 bags in the space of an hour. Signs are put up but dog owners are the lowest of the low - I’ve seen so many dogs squat and shit Infront of me this week it’s just disgusting. My children don’t squat and shit right next to a stranger

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 20:46

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 20:10

No reason at all! I was mainly thinking of the people taking the dog to places that are objectively unsuitable for a dog.

But unsuitable is very subjective, as this thread shows.

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 20:10

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 20:01

But if dogs are allowed, why should owners make their lives more complicated by not taking them?

So much entitlement from people who don’t seem to realise that no one cares whether you dislike dogs or get a bit sniffly or your child is a bit scared. All of those things are your complications to deal with.

No reason at all! I was mainly thinking of the people taking the dog to places that are objectively unsuitable for a dog.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 20:07

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 20:01

But if dogs are allowed, why should owners make their lives more complicated by not taking them?

So much entitlement from people who don’t seem to realise that no one cares whether you dislike dogs or get a bit sniffly or your child is a bit scared. All of those things are your complications to deal with.

😂😂😂

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 20:07

ItsUpToYou · 21/04/2025 20:05

No, it wouldn’t cross my mind to. Dog’s don’t usually drink coffee so I wouldn’t be thinking about them in a coffee shop until I see (or, more often than not, smell) one.

Oh, well in case this thread hasn’t made you aware - lots of places are dog friendly these days. Those of you who don’t like dogs ought to check before you attend.

ItsUpToYou · 21/04/2025 20:05

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 19:44

Have you considered asking before you purchase your coffee? I usually do (although for the opposite reason).

No, it wouldn’t cross my mind to. Dog’s don’t usually drink coffee so I wouldn’t be thinking about them in a coffee shop until I see (or, more often than not, smell) one.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 20:01

SchnizelVonKrumm · 21/04/2025 15:59

some people's lives are complicated

But if your dog makes your life complicated, that's not other people's problem to solve 🤷‍♀️

Dog ownership is a lifestyle choice. A perfectly valid one that gives many people joy, but a choice nonetheless.

But if dogs are allowed, why should owners make their lives more complicated by not taking them?

So much entitlement from people who don’t seem to realise that no one cares whether you dislike dogs or get a bit sniffly or your child is a bit scared. All of those things are your complications to deal with.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 19:58

ArtyFartyHippopotamus · 21/04/2025 15:46

My God, this was 25 bloody years ago.

Also, if someone apologised for their dog peeking at me on the loo, I would think they were completely barking.

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 19:52

Speckyfourfries · 21/04/2025 14:24

Our local cinema does dog friendly screenings. I love dogs but FFS... does a dog really want to sit in a dark room for 2 hours?

My dog’s favourite thing to do (after running around like a lunatic) is curling up next to me whilst I watch a film.

I probably wouldn’t take him to the cinema because I find it too loud, but he would love lying around for 2 hours in the dark!

JandamiHash · 21/04/2025 19:46

Down an aisle at her wedding. Whilst her dad, who she loves and gets on with and is close to, sat watching in his seat. I was like this Shock

Dumbdog · 21/04/2025 19:44

ItsUpToYou · 21/04/2025 13:15

9/10 you don’t realise it’s a “dog friendly” cafe until someone walks in with one! By the time someone’s precious pooch is sniffing your ankle, you’re already mid-coffee and your relaxation time has been spoilt.

Have you considered asking before you purchase your coffee? I usually do (although for the opposite reason).

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 18:36

wastingtimeonhere · 21/04/2025 18:35

Sick and tired of smelling dog shit everywhere and seeing 💩 filled bags in hedgerows and sand dunes. if I launched my kids shitty nappy bag into a verge id - quite rightly - be told off but dog owners can get away it seemingly
I'm a dog owner, totally agree, but dirty nappies are dumped regularly too along with all their other rubbish. Go for a walk on a beach after a nice day. The problem is the skanky human. They often own dogs and frequently are as bad with their kids.

Yep. the problem is not dogs. It is the owners.

wastingtimeonhere · 21/04/2025 18:35

Sick and tired of smelling dog shit everywhere and seeing 💩 filled bags in hedgerows and sand dunes. if I launched my kids shitty nappy bag into a verge id - quite rightly - be told off but dog owners can get away it seemingly
I'm a dog owner, totally agree, but dirty nappies are dumped regularly too along with all their other rubbish. Go for a walk on a beach after a nice day. The problem is the skanky human. They often own dogs and frequently are as bad with their kids.

OlympicWomen · 21/04/2025 17:53

Yes, but does your Border Collie think it's a case of transubstantiation, or consubstantiation?

PhilippaGeorgiou · 21/04/2025 17:17

LeftFooter · 21/04/2025 16:31

Babies and toddlers have an immortal soul and are members of the church. Animals don’t and aren’t.

Also — it’s pragmatic. One quiet dog might be no trouble. But what if another dog appears and they decide to have a doggy greeting?

Babies and toddlers have an immortal soul and are members of the church. Animals don’t and aren’t.

Even within Christianity, that assertion is not universally agreed; and other faiths would entirely disagree.

As for "doggy greetings" etc., I have attended a number of "mixed animal" services in the past and to date there have been no traumas or problems, which isn't always true of Sunday School participants.

...understand liturgical rites...
But I don't think I would go that far - there's been times when I don't understand liturgical rites, so not sure why I would expect my Border Collie to.

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