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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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Wingingit247 · 22/04/2025 18:57

Realism28494 · 21/04/2025 08:26

I hate dogs in cafes. There is nothing worse than sitting down having a coffee and a bite to eat and find someone’s dog sniffing around your table. There are so many selfish dog owners who appear not to understand that many people not only don’t share their love of their dog but actively detest them.

This really, I wouldn’t have a dog myself because I think they’re a huge commitment that many people take on too lightly, and I’m not anti dog, but I hate them in places I’ve gone to eat. Clean well behaved dogs are fine, but unfortunately they seem to be in the minority, see my comment re commitment. I actually had to move to the other side of a cafe recently because the two dogs next to us (arrived after us) were so revoltingly smelly and over familiar that it was putting me off my food. Licking the table, feet on chairs and tables, wandering about pawing and sniffing people that don’t want it, begging, barking, none of it belongs in a cafe in my opinion. And yes, I always avoid dog friendly venues for this reason.

WanaBeMillionaire · 22/04/2025 18:54

To a house viewing.. I guess they wanted to see if the dog liked it!

faerietales · 22/04/2025 18:54

Radiatorvalves · 22/04/2025 18:49

Small dog on a single person chairlift (with owner) in Austria about 30 years ago. Top of Obergurgl. ‘‘Twas very odd - not a great place for a summery walk!

I think that chairlift is still there - can't imagine taking a bloody dog on it though, it scared me enough on my own!

Radiatorvalves · 22/04/2025 18:49

Small dog on a single person chairlift (with owner) in Austria about 30 years ago. Top of Obergurgl. ‘‘Twas very odd - not a great place for a summery walk!

Stillamum3 · 22/04/2025 18:43

In Tesco, last Thursday. The woman had a small dog clamped under her arm while she paid at the self checkout. I felt sorry for it - she was not supporting it properly. just clamping it against her body with one arm while she unloaded her basket, paid and loaded her bags. Must have taken 8 or 9 minutes altogether and the dog looked really uncomfortable.

tommyhoundmum · 22/04/2025 18:41

Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

When I went to the midnight service on Christmas eve at our local church a loudly barking dog bit my arm.

WadiShab · 22/04/2025 18:31

Resturants, supermarkets, work, offices. I'm not talking about service dogs, that is different of course, but outside of that I find it silly.

FairFuming · 22/04/2025 18:30

I was at a hen do once and a friend of the mother of the bride who the bride didn't know well arrived half an hour late with her dog without telling anyone. The dog was not well trained.

Whistonia · 22/04/2025 17:42

Lark1ane · 21/04/2025 14:43

That's not true and you know it. Cheap point scoring.
And not even a dog to show for it.

😂

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ItsUpToYou · 22/04/2025 13:58

Salad666 · 22/04/2025 12:33

"and treat them like an extra child ,and do not notice/care when they-inconvenience others"

So, you don't notice it care when your child inconveniences other. Got it.

I treat my dog like a child to a point. I don't look like a love islander, I don't dress my dog up, she's not a designer dog. She doesn't go off leash, gets told off for doing something she shouldn't, I keep her away from others when walking and she knows not to jump up. She doesn't pee or poo on pavement, grass only and the shit is always picked up and put in the bin, even if we have to carry it for miles until we get home.

Can guarantee my dog is much more well behaved than a child because parents these days let their children do whatever they want and are spoiled brats.

God I’m so glad I don’t know anyone like this IRL!

Salad666 · 22/04/2025 12:33

"and treat them like an extra child ,and do not notice/care when they-inconvenience others"

So, you don't notice it care when your child inconveniences other. Got it.

I treat my dog like a child to a point. I don't look like a love islander, I don't dress my dog up, she's not a designer dog. She doesn't go off leash, gets told off for doing something she shouldn't, I keep her away from others when walking and she knows not to jump up. She doesn't pee or poo on pavement, grass only and the shit is always picked up and put in the bin, even if we have to carry it for miles until we get home.

Can guarantee my dog is much more well behaved than a child because parents these days let their children do whatever they want and are spoiled brats.

KimberleyClark · 22/04/2025 10:42

SchnizelVonKrumm · 22/04/2025 09:04

I'm glad someone appreciated my daft joke Grin

I've thought of another - Woofgang Amadeus Mozart

Not forgetting Waggner.

Differentforgirls · 22/04/2025 10:30

SiobhanSharpe · 21/04/2025 14:31

@Differentforgirls
So the Supreme Court is vilifying TW? Biological reality vilifies trans women too?
A viewpoint showing why the SC ruling was needed in the first place.
(apologies for the derail. I like dogs but would not have one -- can't stand the shit. The shit thing applies to the crap owners too. )

No you are.

SchnizelVonKrumm · 22/04/2025 09:04

Grumpyoldpersonwithcats · 21/04/2025 16:14

Very Good. 🤣

As long as said dog didn't Offenbach it was probably OK.

I'm glad someone appreciated my daft joke Grin

I've thought of another - Woofgang Amadeus Mozart

SchnizelVonKrumm · 22/04/2025 08:58

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 22/04/2025 08:11

Exactly, why people have to assume every dog owner is dirty / has poor standards i dont know. Are those with kids all terrible parents? Makes about as much sense!

I don't think they necessarily assume that all dog owners do it (or if they do they're being ridiculous) but 100% of the small minority that do do it are dog owners. If you clean up after your dog then the moaning isn't aimed at you!

SchnizelVonKrumm · 22/04/2025 08:55

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Because it's dangerous to leave dogs in cars. Fine if you know you'll be 2 minutes, but if you're in a shop you might find it takes longer than you think.

SchnizelVonKrumm · 22/04/2025 08:51

8dateslater · 22/04/2025 08:44

The other dog thread currently running shows that this always turns into a race to the bottom where it's hard to have a normal conversation.

It starts with "isn't it outrageous that people take their dogs to non dog friendly places, and don't pick up their poo". Everyone agrees, by the end it's always they should be banned in all public spaces unless its private land, they shouldn't be allowed to poo anywhere (even if picked up) and the people that like dogs are mentally deficient.

The idea that dogs were better behaved previously is also mostly false. Many people my mums age had bad encounters with random roaming dogs, or dogs tied up.

There was far more dog poo in most people's childhood than there is now. Ask anyone about the white dog poo!

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It starts with "isn't it outrageous that people take their dogs to non dog friendly places, and don't pick up their poo".

You've forgotten about the crazy dog people who think that the smallest criticism of dogs = dog hater. "You don't want to step in dog poo? You should be HONOURED to have my Luna's rose-scented offerings on your shoe! I bet she's cleaner than your horrible children!"

[Disclaimer: example exaggerated for comic effect butit's not too far off some posts you see]

Everything else is spot on. You're not allowed to basically like dogs but think that sometimes people need to be more considerate when out and about with their pets, it has to be all or nothing!

8dateslater · 22/04/2025 08:51

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Wide amounts of campaigns against leaving dogs in cars
Partly because of heat
Partly because of dog theft
Partly because the way new alarms work mean they sound a lot if dogs are left.

Many hardware stores are dog friendly and advertise as such

Springtimehere · 22/04/2025 08:48

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8dateslater · 22/04/2025 08:44

Soddingcat · 22/04/2025 07:47

Ok , so i did not start this thread because i hate dogs,
It was a bit of light hearted fun !

I like well behaved dogs actually , but they are scarce in recent times unfortunately in public places
We always had dogs growing up , however, we used to take them to the woods/ local river bank to walk them,
There is a new breed of dog owner, getting progressively worse over the last ten years, and the people on here complaining im sure mean them, not the good ones out in the woods !

I suspect most good dog owners are similar , and wouldn't dream of taking their dogs shopping ect

Many modern dog owners have made people not keen on dogs, so many folk do not train them. and treat them like an extra child ,and do not notice/care when they-inconvenience others .
Dog poo is all over pavements , many jump up.

The new fashion for inbred dogs like baby sausage dogs and pugs paraded round by people who look like they are on Love Island in their
little dog outfits epitomise this new trend ,
and the people who have dogs off lead with no recall whatsoever who jump at you

All of the examples on this thread show how big a problem it is
It does not mean we hate dogs.
Just annoying ones

Yes it is many dog owners who are the problem not the dog, but it essentially the dog causing the problem

I will always enjoy stroking a furry friendly well trained dog when im out,
They are an absolute pleasure, but they are rare as hens teeth !

Edited

The other dog thread currently running shows that this always turns into a race to the bottom where it's hard to have a normal conversation.

It starts with "isn't it outrageous that people take their dogs to non dog friendly places, and don't pick up their poo". Everyone agrees, by the end it's always they should be banned in all public spaces unless its private land, they shouldn't be allowed to poo anywhere (even if picked up) and the people that like dogs are mentally deficient.

The idea that dogs were better behaved previously is also mostly false. Many people my mums age had bad encounters with random roaming dogs, or dogs tied up.

There was far more dog poo in most people's childhood than there is now. Ask anyone about the white dog poo!

Dwappy · 22/04/2025 08:20

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 20:53

My dog squats and shits in front of me, and I pick it up. If someone's dog does it in front of you, then hope the owner picks it up, look away and get on with your life.

People who leave shit and poo bags everywhere piss off responsible dog owners too. Just because I have a dog does not mean I have low standards.

To be fair I was in a cafe recently by the window and there was tables outside. And a dog just squatted honestly about 1ft from a couple eating their lunch. Right outside the cafe door on a busy high street. The owner did pick it up yes but honestly that would put me right off my dinner. You can’t really ignore that when you’re trying to eat and it’s directly next to you. I do think the owner should have at least tried to move the dog on a bit.

Sherwil16 · 22/04/2025 08:16

I took my dog to the Notting Hill Carnival. I realised how stupid that was as soon as I heard the sound systems. We left after a very short while. It was my first time and my dog's last!

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 22/04/2025 08:11

YeOldeGreyhound · 21/04/2025 20:53

My dog squats and shits in front of me, and I pick it up. If someone's dog does it in front of you, then hope the owner picks it up, look away and get on with your life.

People who leave shit and poo bags everywhere piss off responsible dog owners too. Just because I have a dog does not mean I have low standards.

Exactly, why people have to assume every dog owner is dirty / has poor standards i dont know. Are those with kids all terrible parents? Makes about as much sense!

Whistonia · 22/04/2025 07:47

StillTryingToKeepGoing · 21/04/2025 08:46

Not everybody though. Most people are pro women’s rights, and a few are anti trans. So let’s try to avoid sweeping generalisations on both sides as otherwise you can’t have dialogue and we’ve all seen where that leads. Besides, this is a dog thread.

If we are talking about sweeping generalisations, the narrative on Mumsnet has been that trans equals sexual predator - which of course is not true and is vilifying trans people.
I take my dog into the toilet with me if out but she is a bitch so I guess that’s okay?

Soddingcat · 22/04/2025 07:47

Ok , so i did not start this thread because i hate dogs,
It was a bit of light hearted fun !

I like well behaved dogs actually , but they are scarce in recent times unfortunately in public places
We always had dogs growing up , however, we used to take them to the woods/ local river bank to walk them,
There is a new breed of dog owner, getting progressively worse over the last ten years, and the people on here complaining im sure mean them, not the good ones out in the woods !

I suspect most good dog owners are similar , and wouldn't dream of taking their dogs shopping ect

Many modern dog owners have made people not keen on dogs, so many folk do not train them. and treat them like an extra child ,and do not notice/care when they-inconvenience others .
Dog poo is all over pavements , many jump up.

The new fashion for inbred dogs like baby sausage dogs and pugs paraded round by people who look like they are on Love Island in their
little dog outfits epitomise this new trend ,
and the people who have dogs off lead with no recall whatsoever who jump at you

All of the examples on this thread show how big a problem it is
It does not mean we hate dogs.
Just annoying ones

Yes it is many dog owners who are the problem not the dog, but it essentially the dog causing the problem

I will always enjoy stroking a furry friendly well trained dog when im out,
They are an absolute pleasure, but they are rare as hens teeth !

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