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Silliest place you’ve seen a dog owner take their dog

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Soddingcat · 21/04/2025 07:51

To ask where the silliest / most inappropriate place you’ve seen a dog taken by the owner

Inspired by recent posts complaining about dogs being everywhere in cafes etc

Yesterday in our local Cathedral Easter service , a dog was taken up to the altar for communion with its owners. I’ve seen it all now 😃
I was unfortunately unable to see if they attempted to snaffle a bit of bread for the dog , but it honestly wouldn’t have surprised me
Just why ?

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DontJumpInTheFountain · 21/04/2025 08:41

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 21/04/2025 08:32

I can understand this one. If you have to travel a long way to a uni, and there is no one to leave your family dog with for a lengthy period of time, then it makes sense.

I disagree. Whether it's appropriate for a dog to be there or not is not determined by whether the owners have someone to dogsit.

rockingbird · 21/04/2025 08:39

I see countless dogs being turned away at the entrance of this weekends local food festival-absolutely heaving with people! Who in the right mind takes a dog to a food festival 🤷🏼‍♀️ temptation at every stand and barely any room to walk.. yeah let’s take the dog along.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 21/04/2025 08:34

I’m not anti dog, I’m just not interested in dogs. Also, there are more than ever and some of them aren’t well trained. The area I moved into ten years ago, there were hardly any dogs, now there’s loads. Dog shit in the parks, dogs in the cafes yapping and their simpering gen x owners who look hurt when you don’t stroke/ask about their inevitable cockerpoo.

Conistonhawks · 21/04/2025 08:34

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · Today 08:24

LuvACustardCream · Today 08:18
Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?
There’s a huge anti dog sentiment on mumsnet. Honestly some posters froth at the mouth about the mere existence of dogs. Can be quite entertaining to see how unnecessarily irate they can get

I think the issue is that their are so many bad dog owners and increasingly since Covid and so much batshit stuff that owners do with their dogs that lots of people are here are going to post about it

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 21/04/2025 08:32

SuchGreatFun · 21/04/2025 08:26

University open days.

I can understand this one. If you have to travel a long way to a uni, and there is no one to leave your family dog with for a lengthy period of time, then it makes sense.

Creepybookworm · 21/04/2025 08:31

The library. It was huge and scary looking and dogs are not allowed apart from service dogs. He claimed this is what it was. He then started a row with another library user which led to lots of aggression on his part. So he was asked to leave (man and potential weapon-dog).

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 21/04/2025 08:30

Well it’s probably like the ‘MN is anti-trans!’ when really no one is anti trans, they just want to keep certain spaces and sports biological male free.

Same as dogs. Some people deem MN anti-dog when really most people don’t mind dogs, they just don’t want them in spaces where they probably shouldn’t be, especially when they haven’t been trained properly.

As evidenced already on this thread.

legsekeven · 21/04/2025 08:30

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

Most are anti badly trained dog with no recall in unsuitable places.

Conistonhawks · 21/04/2025 08:30

Smuggled into hospital in a bag and then went crazy running through the ward. Ended up cocking it leg up on the resuscitation trolley 😡😡
incidentally it was not brought in to see its owner- the women apparently could not do without her dog with her. She was banned from coming back both by the staff and the women she came to visit.

i was both entertained and disgusted as the patient in the bed opposite.

also I see so many dogs off leads on our local nature reserve with signs saying nesting birds it makes me so angry. We had a swan attacked last year that had to be put down. It was one of a pair that had produce loads of cygnets year after year. The remaining female swan was bereft

legsekeven · 21/04/2025 08:28

I went to a military festival Last year, very hot sunny day with cannons and other explosions happening regularly throughout the day. I could not think of a more stressful environment for a dog but there were loads there. Really thoughtless owners

HelenaWaiting · 21/04/2025 08:28

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 21/04/2025 08:24

There’s a huge anti dog sentiment on mumsnet. Honestly some posters froth at the mouth about the mere existence of dogs. Can be quite entertaining to see how unnecessarily irate they can get.

It's nice that they treat us to standard dog owner baiting thread from time to time. Saves us doing a welfare check.

myplace · 21/04/2025 08:28

Pet services are lovely.

I was irritated by a friend being outraged when she wasn’t allowed to take her dog in a church/cathedral, though. It’s great when you can, but the dog owner shouldn’t be the one deciding 😅

I had to explain that at a local dog friendly cafe they’d had to ask people not to sit their dogs up at the table, and not to let their dog lick the plates. She was horrified and began to understand why there are boundaries…!

A friend takes his dog to a specific annual
church service, due to the timing. Sits at the back. But people with allergies then struggle to be there, too.

AgnesX · 21/04/2025 08:28

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

I'm not anti dog but there are just some places dogs don't need to be. DH is allergic - he appreciates that where guide dogs are concerned he needs to deal with it; but he shouldn't have to where people just want to bring their dogs ie busy city centre restaurants and shopping centres.

In that last scenario it can't be fun for the dogs either.

TheNightingalesStarling · 21/04/2025 08:27

bozzabollix · 21/04/2025 08:23

Thats not a new thing. Mumsnet is famously anti dog, so much so that it makes me surprised to see people like my dogs when they’re out and about.

People are anti badly trained dogs and owners.

Worst I've seen is taking them on the school run despite being asked not to. And then tying a distressed dog up outside the gates.

Pinkflowersspring · 21/04/2025 08:27

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

I love dogs but I don’t want them in supermarkets or coffee shops unless they’re a registered guide dog for the blind or deaf.

SuchGreatFun · 21/04/2025 08:26

University open days.

ErrolTheDragon · 21/04/2025 08:26

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

Nothing sudden about it. This sort of thread is about as regular as parking ones.
MN is of course simultaneously pro dog.
MN is pro and anti all sorts of things - lots of different opinions. As it should be.

Realism28494 · 21/04/2025 08:26

LemonRobin · 21/04/2025 08:21

My friend took hers into a small theatre but she does have chronic health conditions and if it was America would definitely be allowed a therapy/support dog.
I love the dogs in cafes. They keep my toddler distracted and entertained while I drink my coffee. She was trying to play peekaboo with a labradoodle the other day!

I hate dogs in cafes. There is nothing worse than sitting down having a coffee and a bite to eat and find someone’s dog sniffing around your table. There are so many selfish dog owners who appear not to understand that many people not only don’t share their love of their dog but actively detest them.

Whistonia · 21/04/2025 08:26

Potnoodly · 21/04/2025 08:21

No one is anti-trans, just pro women’s rights 🙄

You might not be but unfortunately many are. You can be pro womens rights without vilifying trans people - which is what many are doing

Rastyopolis · 21/04/2025 08:25

John Lewis and Marks and Spencer’s. It drives me mad seeing dogs in department stores that are not service dogs (I’m saying this as someone with 2 large dogs).

LeftFooter · 21/04/2025 08:25

In a small quiet Mass. The dog kept yapping. The priest had to raise his voice. Ridiculous (and expressly forbidden in the Catholic Church).

bozzabollix · 21/04/2025 08:25

I have to occasionally take my dogs to the toilet, if we’re out and about. Not leaving them to be nicked!

Whataninterestinglookingpotato · 21/04/2025 08:24

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

There’s a huge anti dog sentiment on mumsnet. Honestly some posters froth at the mouth about the mere existence of dogs. Can be quite entertaining to see how unnecessarily irate they can get.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 21/04/2025 08:23

Someone I know said she was allowed to have her dog next to her on a flight back from the US as it was her ‘support dog’. I’m not sure that could’ve been true.

bozzabollix · 21/04/2025 08:23

LuvACustardCream · 21/04/2025 08:18

Why is mumsnet suddenly anti dog?

Thats not a new thing. Mumsnet is famously anti dog, so much so that it makes me surprised to see people like my dogs when they’re out and about.

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